The People Toolbox

20/02/2026

Happy Saturday!

Happy Saturday to all you beautiful people out there.

What opportunities can you notice in today that can bring joy and pleasure to your world?

For the love of pleasure!
Elizabeth
xx

30/12/2025

As we come to the end of 2025, may you smile at the good memories, and remind yourself of the strength you had facing your challenges.

As we step into 2026, remember:
- you are enough,
- be intentional about creating joyful moments, and
- draw on support when you need to

With love,
Elizabeth

10/12/2025

The 10th of December is International Human Rights Day - it is a reminder of our shared responsibility to one another.

Let us respect diversity,
Speak with dignity, and
Help protect the rights of all, especially those who struggle to speak for themselves

Let us co-create a world of kindness.

For the love of humanity,
Elizabeth
xx

12/11/2025

11/11/2025

I had an absolute blast running a workshop on influence and effective communication at Lugtons Real Estate on Monday. Thank you so much for amazing interaction!

[Someone send me the screenshot which showed up in her TikTok feed! :) ]

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30/10/2025

Looking forward to meeting the team at Lugtons Real Estate for a workshop on 'Influence with Integrity' next month.

02/09/2025

I've been a bit absent from Social Media over the last couple of months - but for good reason!

Other than being busy with clients, I had the privilege of officiating our son's wedding last Saturday! Here is a pic of me and my husband before the ceremony :) What an amazing day it was!

xx
Elizabeth

17/06/2025

And that's a wrap!

I had the honour of being a speaker at the conference today and had a blast.

The importance of using effective nonverbal communication in creating connection and building trust & rapport is not spoken about often enough.

Be it in a professional, social, or intimate relationship, excellent communication is important for building healthy and lasting relationships.

Thanks to Diego and his team for the opportunity.

12/05/2025

Hi there!

I hope your week is going well :)

Having healthy personal boundaries is a key aspect to any healthy relationship.

Whether it is platonic, romantic, social, or professional relationships, well-established and clearly communicated boundaries create safety in our relationships, let others know our limits, and how we expect to be treated.

At times though, our boundaries get crossed - sometimes unintentionally, other times quite deliberately.

In this second article on boundaries, I share some practical tips for navigating boundary violations.

You will also find a list of New Zealand Helpline numbers at the end of the article, as well as a link to finding help outside of New Zealand.

I'd love to hear your thoughts on this.
How do you respond when someone crosses the line?

** If you know someone who might need a reminder that their boundaries matter, please share this article with them.

For the love of pleasure!
Elizabeth Herr

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/what-can-you-do-when-your-boundaries-respected-have-elizabeth-zuskc/

04/05/2025

I have the privilege of being a speaker at the NZ Real Estate Conference in June! Looking forward to sharing some insight about nonverbal communication.

25/03/2025

It's OKAY to feel angry - it's not okay to lash out and hurt anyone in anger.

What we don't realize is that there may be a totally different emotion behind our feeling of anger, and when we address that, the anger will subside.

There are many possible emotions behind anger.

Next time you feel angry, ask yourself if there is something else behind it, and show yourself compassion.