01/01/2023
The long summer break allows parents time to reflect on how their child is doing at school. Every parent wants the best school experience for their child. But it is not always easy to get an accurate assessment of how a child is doing.
With that in mind, I have compiled a list of 10 top tips to help parents guide their child through school and hopefully, avoid the dreaded struggle zone.
Top tip #3/10
Even though it is tempting to do so, try to avoid comparing your child to others - While schools should be measuring a child's progress against a set of standards, these standards need to be seen as broad indicators of progress.
As children grow, they progress through developmental stages. But be mindful that there is always going to be some variability in the way children develop relative to their peers.
Also keep in mind that there is always going to be some variability in parent expectations and demands. That is, some children will be attending extra academic activities outside school hours while your children playing at home. Play and learning how to interact socially with ones peers is a skill that is too often overlooked in favour of extra academic study. Extra study may not necessarily be a long term advantage.
Finally, if your child has been formally diagnosed with a condition that will potentially hinder their learning, then it is definitely inappropriate to compare your child to others. That is not to say you can not expect great learning outcomes but that you will need to readjust your expectations and level of input.
Read more about how Love Learning works with autistic children here... https://lovelearning.nz/the-love-learning-reading-programme-can-help-your-autistic-child-to-read/