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Dating Across Borders 2021 Terje Flood BSc. - International dating coach

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Dating Across Borders 2021 Terje Flood BSc. - International dating coach

I have more than 20 years experience as coach, both in business and as a personal coach. Now I offer online dating courses for MEN.

You can join my group sessions or receive individual coaching. With our partner agencies I also do private matchmaking.

25/12/2021

An international couple! We are delighted to introduce you to Svetlana and Jussi.

On October 19, 2020, Svetlana signed up for our service. She was 44 years old with a nice job in Moscow. She had a son who was 21 years old. Svetlana was seeking a man online, but had encountered a lot of scammers and fake profiles. And so she turned to us for assistance. We examined her wishes and requests and introduced Svetlana to several men from Scandinavia. She took an instant liking to Jussi from Finland, but it was a slow start.

Because of her previous experiences she was very hesitant at first, but her communications with Jussi soon became very intense.
He was going through the stages of a divorce and several months of correspondence went by with promises of a meeting but without a set date.
Svetlana again became hesitant, but our intuition was right. They were a match and their relationship progressed.

On October 14 2021, Svetlana met her Scandinavian man. As expected they hit it off really well.

Svetlana was our very first client. And at that time we did not know that a hobby of ours would evolve into a business with a large team of experts.

Svetlana and Jussi is another of our many success stories. So far we have a 100% success rate for the individuals and couples we have worked with. And as long as Cupid is on our side, we pray that this will continue 😉

With us you will experience the real thing, every woman you meet will be TrueToLife.

08/12/2021

For many decades, gender roles in Western Europe have become more and more undefined. Men and women are expected to carry out the same tasks, both in the workplace and at home. In a relationship, reponsibilities and expenses are shared equally between the man and the woman. Many think this is a good way of doing things, others may wish for more defined gender roles.

In Russia, many people will be surprised that gender roles are much more strict within society than in Western Europe or the United States. In Russia, it is very rare that men are involved with housework or raising children. This may come as a surprise, but Russian women are incredibly grateful for help in this regard. Imagine someone being thankful for the help you expected to give.

Gender is a very sensitive topic in Russia, and you will find that most people are happy with the “old fashioned” standards of gender roles. This isn’t to say that there are not problems, but for the most part, society accepts and encourages strict gender roles.

Despite the stricter gender roles in Russian society, women do actually yield many powerful positions in society, government, and business. According to a report from Grant Thornton, an international consulting firm, Russia is the top country in the world for the percentage of senior female leadership at 45%.

05/12/2021

Slavic women love attention! Compliments, flowers🌹 and gifts.
Always show up to a date with a large bouquet of flowers. And remember, it must be an odd number of flowers. Bouquets with even number of flowers are used for funerals.
And then, let us talk about gifts. Gift giving is central in Slavic culture. You bring a gift every time you visit someone, and you should try to shower your woman with gifts. They do not have to be expensive gifts, it is the thought and the attention that counts.
Very early in our relationship, my Russian wife told me this; «Terje, whenever you buy something for someone else, you should buy something for me as well». And that is what I have done since.
If I buy a gift for my mother, my daughters or a friend, I also buy a small present for my wife. It works very well 😄
Remember, when you are in a relationship with a Slavic woman, you can never buy too many gifts!

25/11/2021

Today we will talk about Russian superstitions. Some of them you might recognize, others are important to know about when you are dating a woman from Eastern Europe.
1. Russians believe that shaking hands or kissing a guest across a doorway is a big no-no. In Russian folklore, the threshold is where the "house spirit" is believed to reside, and bridging this gap with a handshake is therefore extremely bad luck.
2. It's never a mistake to take a bouquet of flowers when invited to someone's home or for a birthday or other celebration. However, make sure that bouquets for such festive occasions are filled with an odd number of flowers. Bouquets with an even numbers of flowers are reserved for funerals.
3. Before embarking on any journey, superstition dictates that all members of the group should sit down in silence — even if not everyone is traveling. This doesn't have to be for a long time, but will ensure that the trip is a safe one. It's also a good opportunity to make sure you have everything you need for the journey.
4. According to Russian superstition, spilling salt will lead to an argument between family members. Better stick to pepper then.
5. Whistling indoors in Russia is considered bad luck and will lead to financial problems — or so superstition has it.
6. You should never wish a Russian a "happy birthday" before their actual birthday because it's considered bad luck. In the same way, you should never celebrate your birthday before the actual day.
7. It often seems that there are only about 10 names in Russian. Nearly every woman you meet is Natalya, Elena or Svetlana. There is a superstition related to meeting people who have the same name, but fortunately — as it happens so often — this superstition brings good, rather than bad, luck. If you find yourself sitting between two people with the same name then you should make a wish — but don't tell anyone, otherwise it won't come true.
8. Do not return home to get something you have forgotten. Returning to pick up something you forgot is considered a bad omen in Russia. However, if you cannot travel without the item you must look in the mirror before leaving your room again to make everything better.

19/11/2021

Why do men use online dating sites?
According to recent studies, more than 25% of people getting married or entering into serious relationships have met their partner online. And dating sites are getting more and more popular with middle aged men. When you are 20, almost everyone you meet is a potential partner.
By the age of 40, most people have settled down, and there are not a lot of potential partners to choose from. And you probably stopped going to clubs every weekend. So, your chances of finding your dream woman are getting slim.
Signing up to an online dating site and getting a dating coach changes all of that. Suddenly everyone you meet online IS a potential partner, and maybe you feel like you have just dicovered «The fountain of youth». How does it feel to be 20 again? Remember, 1 out of 4 meet their partner online.

Why wait? Contact us today.

With us you will experience the real thing, every woman you meet will be TrueToLife.

19/11/2021

The last scam we will talk about for now is the «Pay per minute» or «Pay per message» scam.

You have met this nice lady on an Eastern European dating site, and she suggest you move to another site. Or, you have met her directly on one of the scam sites. Either way, this website charges you for each message you send to her, or it charges you by the minute for video calls. Or both.
This woman will encourage you to chat with her/have video calls with her. Her answers or messages to you will often be vague/very short so you will have to pay more to understand what she is really trying to say. If you ask her about her address/phone number she will be very reluctant to disclose it to you. Giving you some shady explanation of why she cannot do it.
⛔STOP!
You are being scammed.
This woman works on commission for the website you are on. The more money you spend (together with all the other men she is communicating with) the more money she makes. These women are most often happily married. This is just their job.

⚠️To avoid this, you should have skills and knowledge. On our coaching we will learn you and lead you on the way of your dating.

With us you will experience the real thing, every woman you meet will be TrueToLife.

18/11/2021

If you are a man I invite you to follow my dating tips either on Instagram - .
On Instagram I will do weekly lives on successful online dating and you will get free coaching advice. Follow my Insragram account to participate.

🆕 Next month we will start to offer webinars on different dating topics.

See my previous post if you are interested in one-on-one coaching. I offer a lot of different packages

🇳🇴 We are a Norwegian company with partners in Russia, Belarus, Ukraine and Kasakhstan. That is why we also offer Matchmaking service. You will be totally safe with us. We work every day to reveal and remove scammers and hustlers operating online. ⛔️

Contact us today about our coaching packages. You will not be disappointed❗

With us you will experience the real thing, every woman you meet will be TrueToLife.

14/11/2021

Chivalry is not dead!

Well, to be honest, it might feel that way if you’re a man living in Western Europe. Even if it’s not dead, it is surely not appreciated or even expected. Maybe you feel the way I felt?

Tired of men and women always being equal (having equal roles) in a relationship. If you miss being able to act like a man, to feel like a man, then maybe it is time to do something about it.

My wife is Russian and we see eachother as equals, and we respect eachother. However, we have different roles in our relationship. I’m expected to be a man, taking care of practical things, opening doors for her and paying for a meal in a restaurant. She is allowed to be feminine. Taking care of me and spending time on looking her best. And of course we also run a business together. Like equal partners.

For a lot of us there is something very comforting about the idea that a man is allowed to be a man and a woman can be feminine.

With us you will experience the real thing, every woman you meet will be TrueToLife.

14/11/2021

What are Russians not able to live without when travelling?
In a recent poll, people were asked which things, except tickets, mobile phones, documents and money, they would never be able to travel without.

29% said that their medicines were the most necessary trip essentials (Are they really that sick?)
18% wouldn’t be able to travel without their photo cameras. (What? Russian cellphones can’t take photos? Come on!)
15% said their laptops (No rest for a Russian)
13% could not do without a book or a magazine (Putin Times being the most popular)
7% could not travel without their favourite music and TV series (Hence the laptops)
5% answered their favourite makeup products (Guessing that would be the women, and the percentage should be much higher)
3% would pack a hair dryer or their sleep masks and earplugs (Doing their hair blindfolded while sleeping)
2% of Russians would bring their own travel pillows or a water boiler (Nothing is worse than missing out on your tea after a sleepless night)

With us you will experience the real thing, every woman you meet will be TrueToLife.

14/11/2021

Today we are going to talk about the «Translation scam».
This is also very common on Eastern European dating sites.

Again, you meet a nice woman on a dating site, and she expresses an interest in you. After a short time she asks for your email. Remember, scammers want to move the conversation away from the dating site as quickly as possible. She sends you a nice email, maybe with photos of her. Even very professional looking photos.
Her English is understandable, but not to good.

After a couple of emails back and forth, she tells you that her English is not good at all (but she will attend a course soon), and a friend is helping her translate her emails to you. This is very dufficult for her. But, she knows of this website that could be helpful. This is a very exclusive website, by invitation only. So, she sends you her limited invitation code. Maybe she also tells you about her sister that met an English man online. They used this site, and they are now happily married and living in England.
Once you register on the site by entering the code she gave you, you pay a very small registration fee. Then you get the first message from her in Russian. And there is a button saying «Translate». Once you press this button, you are informed that you have to pay for «professional translation» of her message.
This goes both ways, so you also have to pay to translate messages you send to her. And you pay per word.
And it gets very expensive very quickly.

This woman is working for this website, and the «invitation» code she gave you is her ID on this site. Used, so she can recieve a percentage of what you pay to translate messages between you and her. And she will be communicating with many other men. STOP!

You are being scammed. Move on to a secure website like ours and connect with a real person looking for love, not money. Tomorrow I will share another known scam with you.

With us you will experience the real thing, every woman you meet will be TrueToLife.
Stay safe!

14/11/2021

Why does it normally take so long for anything to change? Because of all the people telling you «we know how it works and you will never succeed doing it another way».

We do not believe in that. Our vision was to create a meeting place for people who are truly seeking a serious relationship. To do that we need to have a closed community where we know that everyone is who they say they are. «It can not be done!». Of course it can. «But the online dating industry doesn’t work like that today!». So what? That does not mean that it can not change.

It just requires someone to think «outside the box». Which is exactly what we are doing. Your support means that we will succeed. And we are certain we will do just that. Be a part of our community as we change the way online dating is done.

With us you will experience the real thing, every woman you meet will be TrueToLife.

13/11/2021

These are the prices for the different coaching services I offer. Coaching is one-on one and can be done in English or Norwegian.
If you want more information, please write send me a message.
I offer 25% discount on all packages if you agree to let us use your success story on our Facebook and Instagram pages.

Coaching packages:
🔸️ Budget Express, 2 days, $99
Help in selecting dating sites, create a great online profile, writing messages, and how to get women interested in you.
🔸️ Dating Audit, 3 days, $149
Expert audit of your existing profile(s), connections, and correspondence.
🔸️ Speed start, one week duration, $299
Intensive coaching. From setting up a profile to securing a good dialogue with several women that you like.
🔸️Dating Lite, up to 2 months, $349/month
Coaching twice a week, from setting up a profile to the first physical meeting with a woman.
🔸️Dating supervision, no time limit, $799/month
Daily coaching by phone and/or messages. From setting up a profile to successful completion of a physical meeting with one ore more women.
🔸️ Private matchmaking, no time limit, $2000
Together with our partner agencies in Russia, Belarus, Ukraine, and Kazakhstan, we provide you with contact information of 3-5 women selected from your criteria.

We guarantee that their ID is verified, they are looking for a serious relationship and are wiling to relocate.

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