Denise Kooij intimacy coaching

12/03/2026

When you stop doing it all alone, you can finally be met.

So many men long for real intimacy, but when it gets real, they often overthink, perform for connection, or suppress what they truly feel.

Because that's what you've learned.
To stay in control. To hide what you feel. To do it alone. To call that strength.

There is another way.

That’s why I created The Fellowship of the Heart.
A 6-evening journey for men, held by women, for those ready to move from doing it all alone into brotherhood, embodiment, and real connection.

A space to reconnect with your body and heart, together.
To feel more, hide less, and build confidence rooted in presence instead of performance.

Including a Temple evening where you get to practice everything you’ve learned in real connection.

Starts April 1 in Diemen / Amsterdam. Max. 10 men.
DM me if you want to know more. 💜
Tickets:

A 3-month men’s group in Amsterdam for truth, intimacy, and embodied presence. Reclaim heart, power, and authentic connection through brotherhood.

05/08/2024

17/05/2024

When people ask me: how are you?

My mind: Welcome to a week in my life:
(In random order)

Incredible gratefulness
Confidence and proud
Making love with life
Energetic or**sm on the dancefloor
Falling in love
Crying my eyes out
Giggles
Celebrating life
Emotional breakdown
In awe of a Sacred space
Turned on and alive
Falling apart
Heartbroken
Feeling deeply met
Feeling at home
Deeply connected to spirit
All chakra’s activated
Ecstatic pleasure
Full Liberation
Womb vibe activation
Disconnected and lost
Nervousness
Being adored and whorshipped
Integrating
Overflowing creativity
Lack of time/ stress
Magical connections
Drinking champagne of a male n**e body
Dancing as the goddess
Playing in innosence
So grateful for all these powerful women in my life!
Etc.

What I say: I’m good!

26/04/2024

What is true for you?

12/04/2024

❤️ Falling Deeper in Love ❤️

Ta**ra Retreat Ibiza - June 24-29

“Let Eros Lead Your Love Life”

Experience the profound beauty of deep connection and authentic love as you embark on a transformative journey with us. Imagine surrendering to the present moment, feeling peace, tranquility, and groundedness enveloping you. Whether rediscovering the spark with your partner or cultivating a deeper love for yourself, this retreat is your invitation to meet yourself and others with new eyes – overflowing with love and curiosity.

“Start the Summer of 2024 by Falling Deeper in Love”

Indulge in a week of slowing down and diving deeper into love – for yourself, your partner, and life itself. Guided by Denise, Mano & Manon from Ecstatic Temple, our retreat offers a balanced blend of ta***ic and tao practices, providing profound insights into your inner world while leaving ample time for relaxation and rejuvenation. Together, we’ll create a safe and nurturing space infused with softness, humor, playfulness, depth, awareness, and connection.

Are you ready...
🩷 To dive deeper into yourself and your relationships?
🩷 To receive practical tips and tools for uplifting your love life?
🩷 To retreat yourself with five or seven days of quality time among like-minded people?
🩷 To restore your energy and revitalize your spirit?
🩷 To expand your capacity for pleasure and experience greater fulfillment?
🩷 To infuse more ta***ic and tao depth into your live?

Each day starts with yoga, TAO, and meditation to help you ease into the day and connect with your inner self. Engage in heartfelt sharing circles and discussions to gain insights and forge connections with fellow participants.

In the afternoon, take your time to explore the beautiful island of Ibiza, soaking in its stunning scenery and vibrant culture.
As the sun sets, dive into evening sessions filled with TAO and ta**ra exercises, guiding you towards deeper understanding and embodiment of these ancient practices.

Got questions? Shoot us a message!

We can’t wait to welcome you on June 24th in San Miguel, Ibiza!

Love,

Denise, Mano & Manon

26/03/2024

Dear Men,

We need you!

I love you❤️

16/03/2024

I wish everybody could experience just for 1 minute how it feels to live a more authentic life

It might seem so scary to really go for what you want. To fully be who you are, to fully choose life.
You might be just too comfortable where you are..
life is good.. you can’t complain.. but..
You do hear that whisper: there is so much more.

I’m here to tell you that there is so much more!
I could not accept my unsatisfying reality. Unsuccessful relationships, lonelyness, having to do it all alone, unfulfilling s.xlife..
I’ve tried to adapt, stay small, try to fit in norms…

I’m here to say to challenge yourself. Step outside of your comfort zone.
Choose for expansion, self-growth, self-love, radical authenticity, liberation!
Choose yourself, choose life!🤩

I’m here to say this grass is the fu***ng greenest! 🌱

And you don’t have to do it alone, I’m here for you. 💞

Send me a message, take that first step! ❤️ see you in my DM

08/03/2024

Happy international women’s day! 💗
To celebrate all our sisters we give 10% discount on your ticket for the Temple of Alchemy April 11 & Naked Ecstatic Dance April 18! Use code: WOMAN10