12/02/2025
True Story.
I am that Dutch mum who is actually Singaporean, so you can imagine how both enjoyable and challenging this experience has been for me.
My 11-year-old daughter just sat for the most important examination for primary school leavers in the Netherlands (equivalent to the PSLE), and I did absolutely nothing to prepare her.
No assessment books, no tuition, no revisions—nothing at all. I wasn’t even sure when her exams were, let alone what topics were covered. I’ve never even seen her textbooks. To be honest, I wouldn’t have been much help anyway since her Dutch is better than mine.
As a Singaporean who went through the rigorous Singapore education system, where I had to study very hard for every exam, and as a former primary school teacher who actively involved parents in their children’s examination preparation, this hands-off approach felt completely foreign to me. It even made me slightly uneasy.
And yet, I feel relieved. In the Netherlands, there is no competitive frenzy where children feel pressured to put in extra hours just to outdo their peers. Here, my daughter is measured not just by her exam results but by her cognitive abilities, learning pace, motivation, independence, and work ethic over the years. Most importantly, kids here get to enjoy their childhood. Family time isn’t sacrificed for endless tuition, and parent-child relationships aren’t strained by the pressure of playing the role of a teacher at home.
I miss Singapore but definitely not the education system and the stress it puts on kids and parents.
What are academic assessments like where you live?