04/11/2022
So how do you get your kids to do what you want them to do and when you want them to do it?
There are obviously quite a number of answers to this but let's talk a little about one you may consider trivial and hence forget but to your detriment.
Here is an hard truth. You are doing very bad as a children educator if you've not understood and mastered how to bond emotionally with your students.
Children are very emotional beings. Incase you didn't hear that, I'd say it again; children are very emotional beings. It's what makes them beautiful. There emotional quality makes them fragile and malleable.
Acknowledge and respect this fact and you would be a natural influence on them, neglect this and they will see you as a threat and as the one who comes only to steal their joy. Sounds like the devil🤣.
So back to our question. How do you use this to trigger children into desired actions?
Here it is. Much more than study, when children connect to you emotionally, they make themselves vulnerable and easily affected by your emotions. Your joy, laughter, facial expressions, pain, and burdens rubs off on them like a charm. Children in this state will want to do everything possible to see you happy and pleased with them even if it involves doing long assignments, paying attention during class and lots more.
One of the ways we know you are a bad tutor if you always have to cane your students before they do what you bid them to.
Kaiii, this is too much secrets exposed in a single post.
More on this later.