Sisterhoodnigeria

Wishing all the women in this group 
More power, grace, favour, great health and focus to become more, do more, and achieve more, by the Grace of God, in Jesus Name Amen

*My brother Albert's take on the last writeup*

Note: From a men's view point, being industrious does not really keep any man, unless he's just a low low life, n a gold digger. The best marriages in our societies are those that were really hitched on pure mutual love, respect, n understanding. If a man doesn't love you in the real sense of "LOVE" that's all encompassing, if you like, become bulldozer, n demolish the highest mountain, you'd be utterly invincible, inconsequential, n slaving in his eyes. For instance, Our late Sister AMAKA, was such one. Was she not resourceful, than the mugu her husband went for? Most women who work, stress dawn to dusk, still get themselves battered/bruised every now, n then, n are in majority of cases their hard end money, is forcefully taken from them, n used to keep the vagabonds.. Who'd, or been most resourceful than those, but we hear all manner of domestic maltreatment. In the other hand, you c some men, would even abandon their resourceful spouses. So, back to Moses's case, it was not a case being resourceful by Rachael, but a case of "love at first sight" but instead of giving her to Moses as was agreed, n he served/worked for, but his father in-law tricked him with Leah instead, at the wedding night. N as it's the custom, Moses having unveiled her, n found that, there was no going back. Leah, was the senior, daughter, n for her path, was equally resourceful,(Home keeping, n management, n handling all the house caring chores) though, but Moses played along with his father in-law, n actually worked extra years, just for that singular reason, "love" for Rachael. So, my dear, being resourceful really, is not a yardstick, n can't be greater than having children. They're homes, were men would insist their wives would not engage in work of any kind, n they last till old age. If a man don't have an iota of love for you, if you like, let your being resourceful stretch to the end of the earth, it'd be just a flash in the pan. Majority of instances, this resourcefulness happens: 'post - marriage, n not pre - marriage. Let's be guided. Thank you.

No sensible man can resist a woman who is beautiful and industrious. What made a man work for 7 years for the woman he loved and yet felt like he just worked for 7 days? *Value!* My man does not respect me... It is because you are not a value adding woman. Do you realize that Jacob did not pay Leah's bride price? It's like Leah was given to him as bonus because she had no value.

This was why Jacob had no respect for her and her children, hence he sent them as first entourage when he was going to meet his angry brother.
- If you force yourself on a man, he may never respect you.
- If he gets you cheaply, he will never respect you.
- If you are not adding value to his life, he will never respect you.

Even after marriage, Leah was begging and buying the attention of her own husband. Rachael was practically in control of Jacob. Rachael was a shepherd in the midst of her siblings, a profession meant for men. She was in control of her father's business. This was what glued Jacob to her. No sensible man can resist a woman who is beautiful and industrious.

Be a value adding woman and your man will respect you. Gen 29:9 *Jacob was still talking with them when Rachel arrived with her father’s flock, for she was a shepherdess.*

How can boys be in the house and a girl (last daughter of the house) be the one to tend her father's flock and family business? Industrious nature! After Jacob slept with Leah, he still went for Rachael. S*x doesn't keep a man, value does. As a matter of fact, women have emotional attachment to s*x, men don't. A man sleeps with you does not mean he loves you. He will give you gifts to compensate you. Leah had 5 children, Rachael had none, yet Jacob still loved Rachael more than Leah. *Having children is good but adding value is better.* Don't ever think you can pin a man down with children. If you like give him a nation, if you are not adding value to his life, he will walk away someday.

I'm pleading with our parents not to raise their daughters in a way they will become liabilities to their husbands. Make your daughter a "shepherdess" before her Jacob arrives. Give her a source of livelihood before marriage. If you want her husband to respect you as In-law and value her as a quality wife and real life partner, give her quality character with home training, quality and respectful hand work and education, to ensure a hopeful future for her in her future home. Don't train her merely because of the bride price you want to collect on her. Laban wasted the bride price he took for his daughter. But he lived on the flock kept by his daughter, even after she was married out.

This is why many men fall for their ugly hardworking housemaids than their beautiful house wives. We indirectly train our housemaids to be industrious while we train our daughters to be lazy and dependent. Future will tell...

Be a *value adding woman* and your man will respect you. Proverbs 31vs10-31.
Good morning

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Practice keeping your head up as if you are having a nose bleed in tough times... you will feel more positive lol

*Keep your head up like your nose is bleeding..lol*

Great day Commit to FITNESS team members.

Welcome to day 29 of our month of great Resolutions.

I came across the above phrase in an uplifting exhortation on an ecommerce platform, and it really made me laugh..

But really that's the best way to keep being Positive in this lockdown and virtually no income stream times for most businesses and employees.

We really must learn to keep up our enthusiasm and positive outlooks on life.

Don't slack or become weak over your weight loss and healthier lifestyles goals, family, work or career aspirations because of how the times are right now...

It will all pass, and become only but a memory soon enough.

*But don't be quick to forget that any wrong/poor food/lifestyle/work/family choices we make now, out of depression or unhappiness, stays with us after COVID *goes its way.. so let's be guided.*

*So whenever the temptation comes to act inappropriately, just keep up your enthusiasm and positivity as you would, if you where having a nose bleed* 😊

I used to have many episodes of nose bleeds as a child, and l could quite relate to this phrase... keeping my head up, helped in easing the bleeding and entirely stopping it..

*So when you are feeling overwhelmed by it all, take a seat, put your head back as if you are having a nose bleed...and will away the depressingly thoughts, and superimpose Your desired outcome in this situation.*

*To our envisioning this nose bleed positivity over all trying times we may face...*

Matilda
Commit to FITNESS

www.Shapeinfluence.com.ng

Change your paths for the better

*A LONG DECLINE to UNHAPPINESS*

Hello Commit to FITNESS challenge Community
Welcome to day 23 - 25 of our month of great Resolutions..

The above statement was made by the CEO of Charity: water.org Mr. Scott, page... on the video documentary he made of his epic journey to starting charity water...

He said from his 18th to 30th year of life, he led a lifestyle of drinks, drugs, parties, women, clubs and all imaginable wrong living...
Till one day he woke up and realized that he has been on a long path to unhappiness and decided to change all.

Waooooo that statement really got to me, and l have been thinking on it, from different angles in relative to the following:

*How long have you been on the long path to unhappiness over*

*Your health?* Keep doing the wrong things and hoping for a miracle?
*Poor unhealthy lifestyles:* and hoping for a fantastic life and great health as a result of your choices?

*Not doing enough to upgrade your career or work prospects:* and hoping for a raise or more sales?

*Not giving more of your time and love to nurture your family and friends:* and hoping for multiplication in affections??

*You seriously need to check, and know how long you have been on that declining path to unhappiness, and make a life saving decision to turn back for your better health and future..*

Come to think of it, in this part of the world, *you hear she/he just slumped and died or fainted...* no the health has been on the decline..

*She just got fat/obese?.. how did it happen???* Noooo, it came about one unhealthy bite and mouthful at a time...

*You stopped loving or being loved?* It came about, one wrong attitude and taking things for granted over time..

*Your business declined suddenly??* No, it came about with poor management and wrong decisions and staff overtime...

So the list is Endless... the point is *it's your call to come off the long declining path to unhappiness..*

Like the CEO of charity water, he made a decision to Get off the path of decline to unhappiness, and has used his charity to drill over 50,000 wells/boreholes in many countries of the world, bringing water and cleaner living to over 11million persons, worldwide... via one well/borehole, Community, country and time... he is making a difference and bringing smiles to millions of faces..🙂🙂

I hope this will help us to harness the reins of our journeys and rein in our horses to the right, healthy and wealthy paths..

*To wilfully choosing paths that lead to HAPPINESS on our lifes paths...*

Matilda

Commit to FITNESS team

www.shapeinfluence.com.ng

*Paying it forward*

Great day Commit to FITNESS challenge team members..
Welcome to Day 3 of our Month of Great Resolutions..

Yesterday l read an email from a business coach that said he believes in paying it forward when it comes to giving outstanding opportunities to his students... meaning that he does loads of mentoring even when he isn't being paid for it... so his good works keep speaking for him...

*Also my Mum will be 90yrs in August of 2020, and she is still quite healthy and strong, reads without glasses, works half a mile to morning mass every day, awakens by 5.,00am🙆🏻‍♂🙆🏻‍♂ till date, eats twice a day, vividly remembers things that happened in her childhood, and still give treatments to people on health issues as a retired nursing matron... since her 50th year, every 3months she won't eat salt, some months she won't eat oil, and during the 40days of length as now, she won't eat any cooked food, meat or fish, only fruits and vegetables the enitre days of lent. She has no health issues* 🍾🍾

*But she didn't just stumble on her good health, she paid it forward by eating healthy and maintaining a healthy lifestyle*

Likewise in our healthy, working, family resolutions.. *you must decide now to pay it forward.* .. the energy and efforts you make now, towards keeping fit, eating healthy, studying more, planning more, and getting enough sleep, you will ultimately get the benefits over time..

So no matter how daunting the task of keeping healthy and eating less is... let's Pay it forward...

To our Paying it forward with our healthy and great Resolutions...

Commit to FITNESS team..

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Draw the line...

Satisfaction is a NEVER, NEVER ending journey.... you must decide at what point you draw the line...

Matilda Nwukor

*Finding satisfaction*

*Day 6/7 of no sugar challenge*

Great day Commit to FITNESS challenge Community...

Have you noticed that you can never actually feel satisfied for long?

Once a goal has been achieved, the quest for achieving another goal sets in...

Likewise with our satisfaction with food and and drinks...

You can never be over satisfied... after breakfast, no matter how filling... in a short while lunchtime will come by and you will feel hungry...

So eat and drink moderately, exercise as much as you can...

*Don't overdo anything...*
so you don't burnout and not have the strength to continue on your path to healthier body and lifestyle change...

To our innate satisfactions

Commit to FITNESS team

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