Ini Ntolma

You choose a lady as your wife and show the world that woman you have chosen.
So what now stops you from loving her as yourself?

You choose a man to be your husband; nobody chooses him for you.
So why not honour and respect him?

They ran out of wine and Mary approached Jesus and told him about what just befell them.
Jesus answered, "My time has not yet come"

Hear what Mary told them, "Do whatever he tells you"

Are you ready to do whatever Jesus tells you to restore the wine in your marriage?

Are you ready to humble yourself and sacrifice your ego to do whatever Jesus tells you in order to restore the wine in your marriage?

Are you ready to listen to him?

Do whatever he tells you.

I remember one time I was so angry that my hubby wasn't helping me in domestic work.

My window net tore and I was expecting him to just sew it but he kept ignoring it and that particular day, I was ready to confront him.

But the Holy Spirit calmed me down.

In that obedience, He went ahead of me and ministered to my hubby himself.

I just saw him pick a needle and was sewing the net.
With my eyes widely opened in amazing, I couldn't utter one word. I was just weeping within me that there's someone who could help us yet we ignore him so much and go ahead to fight battles alone and spoil what we are supposed to amend.

If you're ready to "Do whatever He tells you"
Then the wine of your marriage would be restored at ease.

May you experience bliss in your marriage.

You could be blind and still functional and productive.
You could be lame but still functional and productive
You can be deaf but still functional and productive.
But if anything happens to your psycho, you're gone.
Animals are better than you.

Your mind is your engine house.
Feed that place well.

If your mind is in order, whether blind, lame, deaf or dumb, you can still be productive.

It's a beautiful new day and another opportunity to be productive.

You deserve the very best.
Let that sink into your head and walk with that awareness.

Husbands, love your wives as you love yourself.
Wives, respect your husbands.
Do this and enjoy marital bliss.

The instruction that guarantees marital bliss is in Ephesians 5:21-33
Both partners must be ready to obey this instruction to enjoy marital bliss.

Have you ever tried to love the unlovable?
It's hard right?
But you were not called to love only the lovely.

"So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband"
Ephesians 5:33
This one scripture can solve a lot of marital crises but couples have deviated from true wisdom.

If you're struggling in your marriage, seek solutions from the pages of the Bible and when you find any, apply it and watch the effect.

The Bible doesn't mislead.

Love is the water that nourishes every human, although we receive love separately.
Choose to give love.