Green Dreams

Every dream without a story is fantasy. Every journey births stories either good or bad. Each has a moral lesson.

The boy Child also deserves your utmost care and attention.

Dear young people, craft the most beautiful life for yourself and make it worth liiving.

Your decisions today serve as a brick to the future you crave.

Don't give up!

Keep building by making those beautiful decisions.

YOUR IDENTITY

Your identity might not be your national passport, National flag or national identity card.

Your identity is within you.
Some people will feel bad when a certain person tells them, you are speaking like Okon, Uche, Musa or Ekaette.

Do you remember the popular movie tilted "BLACK PANTHER"?

The casts had to imitate the African accent in order to portray the real Africans lifestyle. This shows that your identity is the shield of recognition at home and in the diaspora.

Because of the regular wick crack about different tribes and their accents, some people have decided to fold their mat.

kudos to the Yorubas for passing their culture through myths and legends.

Be proud of your identity.

Mmedara✍️

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HOW TO MAKE IT TO THE TOP AS A LADY

When most women make it to the top, most of their female folks sit on windows and balconies saying different things.

Here is the secret to succeeding as a woman 👇

✅Erase a regular woman mindset.

Don't have that mindset of a "patriarchal society". It doesn't matter the gender, you can do it. Avoid thinking👉 " To make it to the top, most men would have to make out with me". If that's how you want to get there, it's left for you. It's all about the mindset

✅Do what other women are afraid to do:

Doing this will always make you stand out and be different from the rest. Then you will be easily recognised. Why? Because most ladies are afraid of doing it.

✅Focus:

Let your daily activities be channelled towards your goal.

✅Don't compare yourself with others :

You are different and have a clear goal entirely different from your female folks, don't let their lives make you feel you are doing the wrong thing. They have their priorities in life too.

✅Take away pride:

If you want to dine with kings, you must be like Esther in the Bible. Be humble and honest, ready to take on tasks. Always show the attitude of "I can do it".

✅Connect with new people:

Most ladies feel everyone that wants to talk to them is after 1 or 2.
Erase that mindset and get a disciplined mind. Meet new people and never push them away by showing disregarding attitude.

✅Discipline:

Women are highly emotional than men. Yeah! It's true but if you discipline yourself, then you can make your emotion work for you.
Learn to control yourself deliberately.

✅Read books:

I don't mean storybooks. Read books that develop you and also, books that help you to function actively in your chosen field.

✅Have God:

Above all, have God.

©️ Mmedara Okon