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James 1 vs 25
But whoso looketh into the perfect law of liberty, and continueth therein,he being not a forgetful hearer,but a doer of the work,this man shall be blessed in his deeds.

Marrying a believer is great but marrying someone who is word ruled is peace of mind.

We have alot of believers who're fervent in church, tongue filled,dedicated but are not word ruled, they hear all the preaching in church especially when it comes to marriages and relationships copy all the notes, Infact they are the exclaimers in church ,you hear them echo during preaching"i hear you sir"but when it comes to doing what they heard in their marriages or relationships it becomes a very big problem...

Couples who desire a blissful and peaceful marriage union needs to learn how to be word ruled in their day to day relationship with each other,it's imperative they adhere strictly to the terms and covenant of the marriage union.

To the man love your wife as Christ loved the church, for she is the weaker vessel, the husband man has to love his wife first, no matter the challenges, no matter the differences,no matter what she has done,

To the woman submit to the leadership and authority of your husband with great reverence, as a wife it is required that you submit entirely in all ramifications to your husband...

When Husbands and Wives learn to live and to do according to what the word of GOD says regardless of how they feel, think, or what culture and traditions says, then can they only get the blessings attached to marriage!!! ,

Purely my heuristics!!!

The spiritual dimension of marriage is a practical source of food for marital growth and health,

No single factor does more to cultivate oneness and a meaningful sense of purpose in marriage than a shared commitment to spiritual discovery

Partners without a spiritual depth of oneness can never compete with the fullness of love that soul mates enjoy.

Tending to the soul of your marriage requires constant attention -for if you neglect the soul of your marriage there will be only superficial bonding which rides the wave of emotions and infatuation until the marriage is beached.

But if in your sojourn together you tend the soul through constant fellowship, worship and prayer -you will make it through the storm of marriage unscathed!!!

My thinking though!!!

Hear This!

To equate that one gender is superior to another gender lies one of the biggest problem confronting humanity today. God's true intention for creation was not to bring about division or superiority among human beings but order and stability. God is a God of order and stability.

The word *man* means *Anthropos* which translates to *human being* In Gensis 1 vs 26 the word MAKE clearly defines the creation of the man Spirit first, then in verse 27 God created the male and female.

The man spirit has no gender.
The Spirit in a man is the same Spirit in a woman. God created the female out of the male so the male is in no way superior to the female nor the female inferior to the male.
What a man can do a woman can also do better. They have both equal dominion here on earth but their ex*****on is totally different,

It is only in the institution called marriage that the man is to be the head over his wife and the man's headship is a function of leadership and knowledge as Christ led the church not as his father led his mother,any culture or civilization regardless.

My thoughts

Study your partner- Don't assume you've known it all.

Dear Woman,
You are beautiful, strong, amazing, unique, wonderfully made by God and nurturing.
Today we celebrate your uniqueness and resilience. We are super proud of you

With love ❤,
BP_Konsult

XOXO 😘

For any courtship to grow and bloom into marriage, there must be 3 levels of agreement between partners. These agreements are the basic foundation for any courtship to metamorphose into marriage

These 3 level of agreements are no other than - Spirit, Soul and Body.
Can two walk together, except they be agreed? Amos 3 vs 3, also Mathew 18 vs 19 stated - "Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven". It takes these 3 levels of agreement for any courtship to metamorphose into marriage.

Sadly, we have many courtship that never bloomed into marriage because partners were not committed to these 3 fold agreement,is either one partner was committed to the courtship and the other was not.
The scriptures brings us to understand that "a threefold cord is not quickly broken". Ecclesiastics 4 vs12b

Therefore, no matter the challenge we may encounter during courtship,if these 3 levels of agreement is in place nothing can stop the manifestation of the courtship into marriage.


My experiencial revelations

Ten characteristics of a Conscious Marriage

1. You create a more accurate image of your partner.

2. You take responsibility for communicating your needs and desires to your partner.

3. You learn to value your partner's needs and washes as highly as you value your own.

4. You become more intentional in your interactions.

5. You learn new techniques to satisfy your basic needs and desires.

6. You embrace your weakness.

7. You search within yourself for strength and abilities you are lacking.

8. You become more aware of your drive to be loving and whole and united with the universe.

9. You accept the difficulty of creating a good marriage.

10. You realize that your love relationship has a hidden purpose -the healing of childhood wounds

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The Marriage Attitude

Building a successful and loving marriage is dependent on having the right attitude in marriage.
You must understand that marriage is not a fence to hem you in, it is a guardrail to protect what is inside. The security of knowing that you have someone to love, trust, encourage you, to laugh with, grow with and enjoy life with.

Knowing that this person is yours and yours alone, makes marriage incredible.
Marriage is not designed to place restrictions on you, marriage is for the purpose of completing you, thus enabling each member of the team to be more than you could be as individual.

Marriage is designed to enable you to grow to your maximum because of the support, love, and encouragement of your mate.
That is the right marriage attitude

My Revelation of 1corinthians 11 vs 3

A close study if this scripture, you will notice the order of the chain of command.
Firstly, God first instructed Christ to be the head of the man, this is prominent because if the link is broken the other links of the chain cannot hold.

Read that again-just as Christ submits to God, so must the husband must submit to Christ and the wife submit to the husband.

Amazingly, many husbands arrogantly and dogmatically claim their "Right" as boss especially those that are sentimental with their culture without accepting the responsibility and clear instructions to submit.

Husband's should focused on how he would lead and not how his wife should submit.
When a husband leads the way God wants him to lead, his wife will submit in the ways he wants.

My meditations

Don't just marry because you have a good paying job.

Don't just marry because your mature in age.

Don't just marry because your parent want you to.

Don't just marry because your lonely and tired of singlehood.

Don't just marry because all your mates are married with kids.

Marry when you have come to understand the true purpose and nature of the institution called marriage.

Marry when your fully aware of the responsibility spiritually, mentally, emotionally and financially involved in marriage, because when the purpose of a thing is not known abuse is inevitable.

My meditations