10/08/2025
LADIES👸 WH@T CAN YOU OFFER A MAN TO KEEP HIM THAT HE WILL NOT LEAVE FOR ANOTHER WOMAN...
I have nothing to offer a man to keep him because keeping a man is not my priority. Men are adults, men are autonomous human beings therefore you do not keep them. You keep an animal, you keep a pet but you do not keep human being.
This point has d€str°y the lifes of many women especially African women. "Oh you need to do this to keep a man". I have nothing to offer a man to keep him because most men lack s€xual discipline, most men sl€€p with things that have nothing to offer them. You go on the street and women who are meπtall¥ unstable fall pregnant because men sl€pt with them. you go to the m°rgu£ Men are sleeping with di$£ased bodies. You go to America and a woman is in a medical com@, she ends up pregnant because a man sl€pt with her.
Wh@t is my point...
Most men lack discipline and most men are s€lf centered and they will choose what they want to do. It is not a woman's responsibility to do anything to keep a man because you keep pet, you keep animal, You do not keep human being. A man must commi£ to build a relationship with a woman. If that man is not commi£ted to building a relationship with the woman, it will not work. Also intimate relationship and marriage benefits men more than women. Married men live longer, they are healther, they have increased income of time because capitalism support married men. A man who is married is perceived as responsible therefore likely to get a job contract or a promotion. So at the end of the day,if any group is to be working toward keeping a partner, it is men. Men are the ones who are benefiting when it comes to intimate relationship with women and in marriage. Many women have d€str°yed themselves trying to keep a man.
Dear women it is not your job and your responsibility to do anything to keep a man. A man who wants to be with you, will put in the effort and the consistency because relationship is work! Whatever you fill to nurture and pour into it will not work out and relationship take two people for it to work not one person. It is this mind set that has boosted the kayamata industry. That is why women will go and get different kind of kayamata, f~€k me and stay, love me alone and types of kayamata to be able to keep a man. That is why some women (African women) are spiritually b°und@ge because you expect a woman to do everything to keep you and some of these women will go for kayamata to be able to keep you.
Dear men unlearn this your over estimate importance in the life of a woman.
"Oh what are we going to do to keep a man"
As if a man is the essence of our existence as a woman. It is 2025 and we have decented men. We don't care about keeping a man. We Care about our meπt@l health, our emotional health and keeping ourselves and making money. 💥
