Madrasatu ibn Qoyyim

VIRGINS AND MA********ON:
I get lots of questions on ma********on most especially from ladies -yes, ladies ma******te a lot, especially virgins. Guys also ma******te.

There is no debate on that. I'm not here to argue about who ma******tes most, I need to deal with a serious issue. Sexual urge for virgins is strong. What makes it stronger is the novelty, newness, the mystery and the hear says about s*x.

Ma********on is fondling your ge****ls consistently to achieve or**sm. Ladies may stroke their cl****is while guys rub, massage or caress their p***s. I decided to give explicit explanation because some ask me what ma********on is.

Some ladies especially non-virgins use candles, banana, small bottles, sticks, di**os or whatever represents a p***s and do solo s*x (having s*x by yourself).

From teenage upward, you will have a strong desire for s*x. It's a sure sign you are normal and capable of having and enjoying s*x in marriage. In your 20s it will be stronger and intense!

You may wake up feeling h***y for no single reason in the world or go hot on spotting a curvy lady! You may start noticing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image off.

You may get worked up on watching a romantic movie and discharge something. You check up and discover you are wet. All these are normal, you haven't committed any sin.

So what then do you do when you get hot and h***y? Have s*x? I know you know my answer and some singles will never be caught dead sleeping around, so what do they do?

They ma******te! They give themselves release and pleasure through solo s*x while claiming virginity at metatheses time. Ma********on is completely wrong and not the way out. Let me explain:

1. Ma********on is not done in isolation. It is done with the image of someone in mind. It can be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having. You imagine having s*x with them while ma********ng. That is MENTAL FORNICATION

2. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you may mistakenly deflower yourself and also introduce infection into your ge****ls and womb. It will be very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had s*x with man except objects during your solo s*x.

3. You kill your ability to enjoy s*x in future. Millions of women don't enjoy s*x in marriage which leads to s*xual frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism.

If you are used to getting or**sm by yourself, you won't be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to objects in your private part, you won't have feelings for your husband's p***s.

You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger and completely unrealistic! Women who complain their husbands' p***s are too small didn't marry as virgins. They must have been promiscuous as singles.

4. You will not have a good s*x life as a man. You will experience pre-mature ej*******on and your wife won't enjoy you leading to acute s*xual frustration in marriage.

You need self control to fully enjoy s*x and give your wife maximum s*xual pleasure. A woman enjoys s*x when the man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ej*******ng.

Because you are used to instant release from ma********on, you may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated.

She may close up, become frigid and stop having s*x altogether which may lead to you having an affair, she having an affair or both of you having an affair.

Self control before marriage helps you enjoy s*x to the maximum. You are able to delay ej*******on, go on for a long time and have excellent or**sm while giving your wife pleasure too. That is why total virginity pays!

5. If you do not suffer premature ej*******on, you may have serious problem with delayed/ re****ed ej*******on. A situation where you get er****on for several hours without ej*******on or or**sm.

What is the benefit of s*x without or**sm? Rough ma********on with your hands kills your ability to feel/enjoy s*x with your wife. It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable to ej*****te.

How will the woman get pregnant? It's the reason some women are seemingly "barren" and can't talk to anybody out of embarrassment. Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated and hating s*x altogether.

You have so much to lose s*xually when you ma******te. Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal s*xual in*******se and enjoy the pleasures that comes with s*x IN MARRIAGE!

6. You start having s*x in the dream with a known or unknown person (demonic entities other wise known as spiritual spouse).

7. You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless and powerless after each act.

8. You start getting unsatisfied and wants the real thing. You fantasize more about s*x and start longing for the real act.

9. You get a warped view of the opposite s*x. You see them as s*xual objects and start having s*x with anything in skirt or trousers -you become promiscuous.

10. You get damaged, hurt and broken.
These and more are the consequences of ma********on.

They damage you and shatter you to pieces! What then should you do with your s*xual urge? How do you handle the constant hunger for s*x?

1. Avoid all dirty pictures, po*******hy videos, pictures and hot, romantic movies -they are powerful s*xual triggers!

2. Avoid friends who say dirty,lewd and obscene things. Stop all s*xy banters with friends and say only things that are pure, holy, needful and helpful.

3. Get busy with your life, education and career, there is more to life than s*x.

4. Transmute your s*xual energy: Channel your s*xual energy into something great.

5.Avoid po*******hy and romantic movies.
Ma********on is wrong, bad, demonic, destructive and sinful. Avoid it and end it with speed if you are deeply involved in it. God bless you.


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آداب الجماع :

جاء في السنّة النبوية تبيان لذلك ، قال الإمام ابن القيم رحمه الله تعالى في كتابه زاد المعاد :
( وأما الجماع أو الباه ، فكان هديه فيه - صلى الله عليه و سلم - أكمل هدي ، يحفظ به الصحة ، وتتم به اللذة وسرور النفس ، ويحصل به مقاصده التي وضع لأجلها ، فإن الجماع وضع في الأصل لثلاثة أمور هي مقاصده الأصلية :
أحدها : حفظ النسل ، ودوام النوع إلى أن تتكامل العدة التي قدر الله بروزها إلى هذا العالم .
الثاني : إخراج الماء الذي يضر احتباسه واحتقانه بجملة البدن .
الثالث : قضاء الوطر ، ونيل اللذة ، والتمتع بالنعمة ، وهذه وحدها هي الفائدة التي في الجنة ، إذ لا تناسل هناك ، ولا احتقان يستفرغه الإنزال .
وفضلاء الأطباء يرون أن الجماع من أحد أسباب حفظ الصحة ) . الطب النبوي ص249 .
و قال رحمه الله تعالى : ( ومن منافعه أي الجماع - : غض البصر ، وكف النفس ، والقدرة على العفة عن الحرام ، وتحصيل ذلك للمرأة ، فهو ينفع نفسه في دنياه وأخراه ، وينفع المرأة ، ولذلك كان النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم يتعاهده ويحبه ، ويقول :
( حبب إلي من دنياكم : النساء والطيب )
رواه أحمد 3/128 والنسائي 7/61 وصححه الحاكم .
وقال صلى الله عليه وسلم :
( يا معشر الشباب من استطاع منكم الباءة فليتزوج ، فإنه أغض للبصر وأحفظ للفرج ، ومن لم يستطع فعليه بالصوم فإنه له وجاء ) رواه البخاري 9/92 و مسلم 1400 ) . الطب النبوي 251 .
ومن الأمور المهمة التي ينبغي مراعاتها عند الجماع :
1 - إخلاص النية لله عز وجل في هذا الأمر ، وأن ينوي بفعله حفظ نفسه وأهله عن الحرام وتكثير نسل الأمة الإسلامية ليرتفع شأنها فإنّ الكثرة عزّ ، وليعلم أنه مأجور على عمله هذا وإن كان يجد فيه من اللذة والسرور العاجل ما يجد ، فعن أبي ذر رضي الله عنه أن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال :
( وفي بُضع أحدكم صدقة )
أي في جماعه لأهله - فقالوا : يا رسول الله أيأتي أحدنا شهوته ويكون له فيها أجر ؟ قال عليه الصلاة والسلام :
( أرأيتم لو وضعها في الحرام ، أكان عليه وزر ؟ فكذلك إذا وضعها في الحلال كان له أجر ) رواه مسلم 720 .
وهذا من فضل الله العظيم على هذه الأمة المباركة ، فالحمد لله الذي جعلنا منها .

2 - أن يقدِّم بين يدي الجماع بالملاطفة والمداعبة والملاعبة والتقبيل ، فقد كان النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم يلاعب أهله ويقبلها .