Eu Aristos: Sex Education

Do you know that you can spell the buttock as "Arse" and still be correct?

Now you know.
So please, ass may seem so vulgar but 'arse' isn't.

Surrogacy was never meant to be used arbitrarily by women.

But because this generation 'aken' to abuse, have set their hands on it, this too shall be abused.

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The same you shouting you won't send your kids to boarding school will be the same parent with badly raised kids.

Being a boarder is one of the best things that happened to me in life. Luckily enough I'm teaching in one now. A beautiful experience.

Know what you want. If a school inculcates values that seem right to you and you buy into it, then fine, send your kid there!

When they also come home, engage them, get to know what the hell happened and what their experiences were. As them specifically if anyone did them wrong, bad or evil. Engage them in healthy conversations.

Do not be a lazy parent by just "paying the bills" and letting another person do the work unsupervised.

Reckon that the rates of sad news will reduce if we take responsibility.

IS INDECENT DRESSING A FACTOR FOR R**E?

Yes! and No!

Indecent dressing is simply the appearance of anyone in an immodest way which inmost cases, involves the undue exposition of vital s*xual organs.

With that in mind not all victims were dressed indecently and so, NO, indecent dressing cannot always be a factor for r**e.

But Yes, because the content of the mind is fed by the many materials it consumes from the outside. Empirically, every knowledge comes from what is seen and the many experiences one has.

A ra**st, may have been fed a huge dose of materials from what they see and are drawn to carry out their plots on victims. One of ways their minds are fed is through visible s*xuality exposed by indecent dressing.

There are stories of one-time ra**sts littered everywhere who say they were drawn because their victims were always indecently dressed.

That being said,

***There's no excuse for you to r**e.

***There's also no excuse for you to be indecently dressed.

***You may not be the victim, but when you are indecently dressed, you indirectly help the ra**st build momentum. You give the ra**st a tool to mule over.

Be responsible.

©Aristos

Mr Ekene had ten staff. 5 guys and 5 ladies.
They worked from Mondays to Fridays.

Now, he noticed that the five ladies had menstrual flow which affected their work rate for three to five days in a month. So he offered them a break during those days (5 days tops) on the condition that they would work on the Saturdays of every month if they were to accept the condition.

The guys on the other hand, were to work from Monday till Friday through the month except on Saturdays.

Now the ladies were not happy. They questioned the reason why they'd have to work on Saturdays while the guys "rested". Mr. Ekene was furious and as such he instructed that they must come to work on the period days too and that he expects them to give the 100% required of them during those days too or face a sack.

The question now are:
👉 Was Mr. Ekene inconsiderate?
👉 Would you take that option as a woman?

© Eu Aristos: S*x Education

We've been talking Menstruation for a while now.

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"When i first saw it, i wasn't shocked because my mom has already taught me about it in my primary six.

Plus i knew the definition from my basic science class.

I was 15 that year but even though mom lectured us girls about it, i still felt shy and angry because..we don't talk about stuffs that is private..

We didn't use words like bum-bum..we use back,we don't say private part, my parents are religious..they protect us but they are not open, they are not free with words.

So i didn't know how to tell my dad, cos mom was not around then, and when she came back, i didn't know how to initiate the talk. I just used tissue paper and padded my self.
I said i will tell her later, but i never did..that was my jss3.

She was worried that e never show oo, but she no ask me, cos we don't discuss that, it's shy.

She found out in my ss3 in one of those holidays when i complained one day that my tummy was paining me,and she was happy and said it should be my menstrual cramp.

I summoned courage and said no, that i had menstruated the previous week, in school before coming back home.. meanwhile, it was the cramp. But i was shy, i didn't know how to tell her that i was menstruating.

She was happy shaa,and asked me why i didn't tell her, that she was getting worried..i laughed it off because I was shy."

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"...Nobody prepped me o.

One day during the end of summer lesson, the owner of the school came to have her last home economics class and one thing led to another and she talked about how her sister experienced menstrual pains and had to roll on the floor for hours in pains and agony.

The next day,I just finished taking my bath and wore my white shorts and one purple shirt (I can never totally forget)I sat down to watch a movie on the desktop then. I felt something hot slip through me like I p*ed on myself. Then I got up and saw blood everywhere

My mom was home that day so she gave me some wooly milk coloured stuff to put in between my legs after I took another bath. Na there I know say e don show.

When my elder sisters came back and my mom told them, they just dey laugh me dey shout *if you like go make boy touch you* ..."

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“I was very excited about starting secondary school. My mom took my sisters and I to the hospital for check-up. While we were waiting I had the urge to p*e and I went to p*e. I saw a dark stain on my pants and I was surprised. I thought it was poo from not cleaning my buttock well.”

“So I wore my pants back and hid it from everyone. When I went back home and I tried washing the pants but I couldn't. So I soaked it in a bucket of water over the night. The next day was Saturday and my mom was washing. She saw my pants in the bucket and called me to ask why I had not wash my pant. I told her there was a dirt I couldn't wash out.”

“She looked at the pants and asked me to check if there was a similar stain on the pant I was wearing. I said yes. So she took me inside her room and advised me on hygiene concerning my underwear. She told me it was menstruation and I had become a woman and hence I could give birth if I slept with a man. She told me to report anyone that touched in any inappropriate place to her. I had already had lessons on menstruation so I knew what to do. I just didn't know how it would come.”

[On whether she thinks her mum’s approach was healthy] “Yes it was. She was a bit upset that I didn't tell her at first I told her I didn't even know what it was. I was 10years old.”

~ Joy

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Information is really power.

Assuming you came to me years back probably 3 years back with an issue of what drugs to take to prevent S*xually Transmitted infections, I'll blatantly say

"Nothing! All you have to do is to wait for the infections to manifest if there's any"

The rate of bacterial STIs keeps increasing amongst s*xually active individuals. So behavioral strategies like use of protection alone don't seem to be working to decrease these rates hence there's need for prophylaxis to prevent these infections and diseases from occurring.

There are some questions coming about the use of prophylaxis for STIs.

Some are arguing about the higher risks of antimicrobial resistance. This is true.
Others say, giving out these prophylaxis which are antibiotics by the way is like putting band-aid on s*xual wellness as it will encourage more unprotected s*x.

Then, there's this group 'yasssing' the prophylaxis agenda. They sited a research done with men living with HIV that were placed on prophylaxis of doxycycline. It resulted in a 70% drop in chlamydia infections and a 73% drop in syphilis. In science, facts is all we know. Clinical trials to prove them.

There are selected antibiotics that can be used as prophylaxis against STIs.

Your doctor and pharmacist knows them.

The Chemists and Patent drug dealers doesn't.

Have you gotten a personal pharmacist yet?
You haven't?

Go get one hunny! They sabi all these things.

Get a CD but when you're in the moment and forget to wear one. Reach to your doctor or pharmacist asap.

~Nwafor Martins