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TRAIN UP A CHILD!

The scriptural verse "Train up a child" is from Proverbs 22:6, which states:

"Train up a child in the way they should go,
and when they are old they will not turn from it."

(NIV)

This verse emphasizes the importance of teaching children the right values, beliefs, and behaviors from a young age, so that as they grow older, they will continue to follow the right path in life.

Here's a breakdown of the verse:

- "Train up a child" - This phrase means to teach, guide, and discipline a child.
- "In the way they should go" - This refers to the path of righteousness, wisdom, and morality.
- "And when they are old" - This means when they reach adulthood or maturity.
- "They will not turn from it" - This indicates that the child will continue to follow the right path and not stray from it.

This verse is often seen as a guidance for parents and caregivers to raise children in a way that will benefit them throughout their lives.




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Celebrating WOMANHOOD.

Kamala Harris
49th and current Vice President of the United State.

🥂🎉🕺💪👌

Dear woman,

Love yourself.
Your ability to "love your neighbour as yourself" is hinged on your ability and capacity to love and appreciate yourself.

You cannot give what you don't have, neither can you reciprocate what is unfamiliar.

Accept, appreciate and love yourself.

# Stop comparing yourself with others. Everybody has a different template for their lives.
# you are not as fat as you think but just incase you truly are,then do something about it and love your body.
But remember that your body percentage or BMI has no bearing on what makes your a remarkable lady. There are filth packaged in skinny body frames!

# give yourself a treat.
# dance
# laugh at yourself
# do something for people who can never repay you or thank you enough. You will feel good about it.
# Be kind
# Be humble
# let go of your past hurts and disappointment.
# Maintain social distancing from people and the things that dehumanize you.
# Do not covet what is not yours including someone else’s husband. If you have started, stop. You’ll have peace of mind.
# Fruits and veges are cheap now. Just so you know.
# take multivitamins
# exercise
# have a 'me time'
# smile
# respect yourself
# challenge yourself
# don't settle for less
# pray...

More than anybody, you deserve to be happy and fulfilled.
Do not concede your happiness and peace of mind to someone else.
That would amount to giving them too much power over you.

❤️❤️❤️❤️

15 STUPID THINGS A WIFE CAN DO TO MESS UP HER MARRIAGE…

1) DARING YOUR HUSBAND TO BEAT YOU:
You block the door way, then dare him to beat you up and see what will happen. A Lot of women have done this and end up regretting.

2) DARING YOUR HUSBAND TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER WOMAN:
You will be making a major mistake if you dare your husband to sleep with another woman. You may live to regret it.

3) NEGLECTING YOUR BODY AND LOOKS BECAUSE YOU ARE MARRIED:
“I am married i can relax, after all who is looking at me.?” He married you Slim, s*xy and trendy. Next thing you become obsessed, dirty and shabbily dressed.
It is the mistake of most careless married women.

4) DENYING YOUR HUSBAND S*X REGULARLY:
You are a career woman; You are an overly religious woman… Hmmm! You feel s*x in marriage is secondary, you deny your husband your body regularly, so he is s*xually starved and intimacy famished. His Secretary, colleagues and girls in church are seducing and begging him to come to them but you have padlocked your Jerusalem and expect him not to lust after others. His mind will drift from you towards them.

5) LEAVING YOUR HUSBAND FOR YOUR FEMALE FRIEND TO CATER FOR:
“My dear friend, please be my eye as I travel for this one week, help cater for my husband and my little kids”. By the time you are back, your dear friend has so really helped you by sleeping with your husband and expecting a new baby as continuation from where you stopped.
If at all she has not eloped with your man, leaving your children all alone.
It is very stupid to commit your husband into the hands of your beautiful and very active friend.

6) LEAVING YOUR HUSBAND IN THE HANDS OF YOUR HOUSE MAID:
Your maid is the one that cooks,cleans the house, cares for the children and your husband. You suddenly become a lazy bone since the arrival of the maid. All you do is shout and place orders. Not bad! But if your husband feels more love and care from the maid, sister that maid won’t struggle to sn**ch your husband. You are the one graciously giving him to her and those that need him.

7) EMPLOYING A FULLY GROWN, RED BLOODED LADY AS A MAID:
She is fully grown up and well endowed back and front very tantalizing. She dresses skimpily and s*xily like an actress, cat walks like a model and that is your own house maid?
What a mistake!

8) EMPLOYING A HOUSE GIRL THAT IS MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN YOU:
Employing a house girl more beautiful than you is a major technical mistake most women make. This means you are using your money to employ a rival for yourself. Don’t be foolish when getting a maid. They act dumb like maids to you for the time being but when your husband starts sleeping with them, you will be shocked they are more agile than you when they start fighting you.

9) USING ANALOG BRAIN TO LIVE WITH A DIGITAL HUSBAND:
Your husband is growing with ideas and all; you contribute nothing than sitting down at home to eat. He is dressing like a guy with jeans and face cap; you are celebrating the fact that you are a married woman to a Yuppy cute man. Your husband is on *Twitter, Facebook, Whatsapp, Skype etc;* the only thing you know about mobile phone is receiving and making calls. Your husband is talking about stock market; you only talk about tomato market. He’s talking about Forex; you are talking about fruit and vegetables only. He will see you so backwards, local and dumb. Upgrade please!

10) FAILING TO COMMIT YOUR FAMILY INTO THE HANDS OF GOD:
A wife won’t do well if she fails to commit her family into the hands of God regularly. Don’t make such mistakes of thinking you are in charge of your husband and marriage and you can handle things. Be prayerful, hand over your family to God daily. May you never labour in vain and another reaps where you have sown!

11) FIGHTING YOUR MOTHER IN-LAW CARELESSLY:
You may fight your Mother in-law dirty and think you have won especially if she’s innocent, you will end up losing. Her son and herself have been friends and lovers for years before you came; may be before you were born. She was the first ‘wife’ of your husband and also the first ‘girlfriend’. Her son cannot divorce her and she is more experienced than you in matrimonial battles, in fact she is a veteran of many conflicts. Yes i know that a wife becomes a priority and number one and some men try to place their mums above their wives . That is stupid and sickening! Apply wisdom and talk to God and your husband about it. But don’t come in with the intention to separate mother and son. Respect a worthy mother in-law. Not all of them are wicked. Not all are witches. You meet a wicked one, apply wisdom and avoid her ways.

12) TELLING YOUR FRIENDS ABOUT YOUR S*X LIFE:
When you tell your friends about your s*x life and how your husband rocks you, you are indirectly telling them to go have a feel of him. They can size you up and know whether your husband is hot or not, whether he is s*xually fulfilled or not. They may even know your Husband’s “turn on” and use it against him then grab your husband. Most women have carelessly lost their husbands as they boast to their friends “my husband is too s*xually demanding, he is an expert when it comes to s*x, he is a horse, he almost kills me in bed, he has a horse size” etc… Your friends will pick information like this and cover things up where you have been failing.

13) REPORTING YOUR HUSBAND TO HIS MUM:
It looks beautiful to report your husband to his Mum, but the end result will hurt you. Most mothers will support their sons any day; children are always right before their Mothers. Seek counsel in the right quarters, never report your husband to his Mum unless his mum is so god fearing, honest and impartial.

14) LETTING CHILDREN TAKE THE PLACE OF YOUR HUSBAND:
Many wives abandon their husbands, denying them of love, care and attention as soon as babies begin to arrive they transfer all affection to their kids. To sleep in bed, they put the Baby in between themselves making the man feel lost and the bond divided. No warm hugs, caress etc.

15) USING S*X WRONGLY:
S*x is supposed to bind you both together, it is supposed to create intimacy and love but in many homes it is the bone of contention. Some women do turn s*x to a tool of manipulation;
Some use it for trade by barter. *Some wives will suddenly become commanders at home when their husbands touch them for s*x, ordering the man around, “go and off the Fan” “go and lock the gate” “go and check whether our children are sleeping” “How about that money I asked you to give me?” Etc…*
This is just too bad.

Some wives sleep like log of wood in bed while some even wear Jean, knickers to bed.
Nothing s*xy
Nothing erotic
Nothing romantic
Nothing Inviting!
If you continue like this you will hurt your marriage deeply and you may destroy your future also. He will start lusting and chasing s*xy daughters of Jezebel out there who may fe**sh him out of home to themselves

A smart wife builds her home, the stupid ones are careless. I know you will be like…. Why can’t he have self control and stay faithful?

Forget it dear.

We are all humans and things push us to do things we never planned.

Be wise!!!

WOMAN SHINE .

YOU ARE LIGHT. Let your light shine brighter. You're not created to be hidden.
You are created to ARISE AND SHINE.

Isaiah 60:1-6

I AM WOMAN... Am unique, am strong, am phenomenal, am special, am complete.



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GOODBYE, MITCHELL OBAMA.
I WILL MISS YOU MORE THAN I WILL MISS YOUR HUSBAND.

Let me make a prediction today: some day, Mitchell Obama, (nee Robinson) 53, will contest American presidency ... and win, if she goes into politics the same way Hillary did after leaving the White House as First Lady. I dare say Mitchell will be the first woman and the second African American in the US history to occupy the White house. Mark my word today.

This woman has fascinated me in all areas of life. I have never seen a better female motivational speaker. Her contributions to the victory of her husband, especially the second term election was immeasurable. I recorded some of her speeches which I still listen to and study till date. A woman who could speak sense, almost extempore for over 45 minutes. Check the contents of her speech at the last Democratic rally in Charlotte just before the elections. She moved her audience to tears, even me in my library here in Ketu Lagos Nigeria. She was not even surpassed by the supporting speeches of Bill Clinton. In the 21st century, the place of the woman is not just supportive. Some women are pathfinders. *Guys, train your daughters.*

A story was told of this woman and her husband, Barack. Entering a restaurant, she saw a guy who had toasted before. Barack was said to have taunted her that if she had married that guy, she wouldn't be the first lady today. She was said to have said no, Barack wouldn't have been the President. That man, the bar tender would have been. Do you understand that? She was indirectly emphasizing that she made Obama what he is. I like such bold women. Not the Brazilian-hair, smartphone begging type.
*Train your daughters.*

I have seen so many women charting the path of greatness for their husbands. That ... what a man can do a woman can do better is a statement with provable certainty. Some of us are educated today largely because our mothers, even in their illiteracy and suffering state under their husbands, determined that their children must be educated. Some mothers sold all they had to train their children while some fathers go about basking in a glory they did not work for at convocation grounds. *Train your daughters.*

The place of the modern woman is not just cooking for the man and lying in bed! WAKE UP, my sisters. WAKE UP my daughters. If you cant get to the sun yourself, you can push your husband to the moon. You can make your man what you want him to be. Mitchell in far away US created a standard for women all over the world. *Train your daughters.*

Barack and Michelle Obama are one of just two presidential first couples in United States' history to have both earned Ivy League Degrees. While Obama graduated from Harvard School of Law, Michelle graduated from both Harvard School of Law and Princeton, becoming the only first lady in United States' history to have attended, or graduated from two Ivy League Schools. This makes her by far the most educationally accomplished first lady of all time. She came through so many challenges as an African American student. But she brushed herself up by saying she could be black and brilliant!
Listen to me, strive and reach the skies if you are married or not. Any man who is scared of you on account of your achievement is simply not fit for you. Let them go lower, you should go higher.
*Parents, train your daughters.*

I speak to you young woman. If guys around you know that you are an asset, they can't mess up with you. No man wants a liability. If you carry yourself with dignity, you can only attract guys of dignity. Most guys don't toy with babes of substance. Keep your legs closed. Zip up. Pursue your dreams. If your back is not bent, no one can climb on you like a horse.
*Daughters,* after your parents have trained you, *train yourselves.*

As i wave goodbye to this great African American daughter, i urge you the woman reading this to rise up and surpass the frontiers of Michelle Obama. Your lot is not being a baby factory. You are not created to only tend the kitchen or stay in 'ze oza room'. God did not stop creation until He finished with the woman. He created you and said THIS IS GOOD. You are good. Rise up today...

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HOW TO TREAT YOUR WIFE

Don’t shout at your
wife when you are
talking. It really
hurts her.
Proverbs 15:1

Do not speak evil
of her to anyone.
Your wife will become
who you call her.
Gen. 2:19

Do not share her love
or affection with another
woman.
It is called Adultery.
Matt. 5:28

Never compare your
wife to another woman.
If the other woman was
good for you, God would
have given her to you.
2 Cor. 10:12

Be gentle and
accommodating. She
has sacrificed so much
to be with you.
It hurts her deeply
when you are hash
and irritating.
Be tender.
Eph. 4:2

Hide nothing from her.
You are now one and
she’s your helpmate.
Let there be no secret
you are keeping
from her.
Gen. 2:25

Do not make negative
comment about her
body. She risked her
life and beauty to carry
your babies. She is a
living soul not just
flesh and blood.
Proverbs 18:22

Do not let her body
determine her worth.
Cherish and appreciate
her even till old age.
Eph. 5:29

Never shout at her
in the public and in
private. If you have
an issue to sort with
her, do it in the privacy
of your room.
Matt. 1:19

Thank and appreciate
her for taking good
care of you, the kids
and the house. It is
a great sacrifice she
is making.
1 Thesso. 5:18

All women cannot
cook the same way;
appreciate your
wife’s food.
It is not easy to cook
three meals a day,
365 days a year
for several years.
Pro. 31:14

Never place your
siblings before her.
She is your wife.
She is one with you.
She must come
before your family.
Gen. 2:24

Invest seriously in
her spiritual growth.
Buy books, tapes and
any material that will
edify her & strengthen
her walk with God.
That’s the best thing
you can do for her.
Eph. 5:26

Spend time with her
to do Bible study
and pray.
James 5:16

Make time to play
with her and enjoy
her company.
Remember when you
are dead, she’s gonna
be by your grave but
your friends may be
too busy to attend
your funeral.
Ecc. 9:9

Never use money
to manipulate or
control her. All your
money belongs to
her. She is a joint heir
with you of the
grace of God.
1 Pet. 3:7

Do not expose her
weakness. You will be
exposing yourself too.
Be a shield around her.
Eph. 5:30

Honour her parents
and be kind to her
siblings.
SOS. 8:2

Never cease to tell
her how much you
love her all the days
of her life. Women
are never tired of
hearing that.
Eph. 5:25

Grow to be like Jesus.
That’s the only way
you can be a good
and godly husband.
Rom. 8:29

SAVE A HOME TODAY,
PASS IT ON
TO ALL MEN PLEASE

LIKEWISE TO ALL WOMEN.

WHAT A PITY

She gave her car key to the youngest child in the car while she went to buy some stuff in the mall.

Upon her return, the boy had misplaced the key and the whole family was stranded on the road.

Observing her discomfort with innocent kids without a masculine shepherd, I joined the search party.

For each passing minute without the key, she landed the boy that had the key with a slap or a concentrated curse!

After few minutes, she strayed in frustration into a motorbike's way and was knocked down.

In the process of helping her up and picking the pieces of her belongings, the car key was found but she was dead.

She had already lost herself before the key was found!

Many people lose themselves in search of what is missing in their lives.

Many lose their moral limb while searching for the "missing rib!"

Some lose their health while searching for material wealth.

I know those who lost their message while searching for relevance and sponsors.

Some lose their marriage while searching for a mirage.

Some have lost their integrity while looking for affinity.

Don't get missing because something was lost. Sometimes, you just need to ignore the emotional missing link so you can remain spiritually connected.

Don't lose your mind because the job is lost.

Don't lose your children while searching for their school fees.

Don't lose your ministry while searching for tithes, offerings, first fruit and members.

Don't lose your mantle while searching for title.

When you eventually discovered or acquired those things, greater things (your life, relationship, character, values & virtues) would have probably dissolved!

The apostles were looking for peace in the midst of storm, but by the time Jesus restored calmness they had lost their faith just as Elimelech lost his life and sons in search of greener pastures.

When you eventually get the hammer, will your nail still be strong to hold the woods of your integrity in a frame?

By the time you become popular, would you not be strange to dignity?

By the time you get visa or fame, would your passport to purity not have torn?

When you eventually make the money, would your marriage, friendship and relationships still have meaning?

God bless you as you ponder on this.....

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