14/08/2017
*PSYCHOLOGY OF ANGER*
I love this and I thought of sharing it
with you.
A professor while teaching, asked his
students, “Why do we shout in anger?
Why do people shout at each other
when they are upset?”
The students thought for awhile. One
said, “because we lose our calmness.”
But the professor asked again, “why
shout when the other person is just
next to you? Isn't it possible to speak
to him or her with a soft voice? Why do
you shout at a person when you are
angry?”
The students gave some other reasons
but none satisfied the professor.
Finally, he explained, "when two
people are angry at each other, there is
a distance in their heart
psychologically. To cover the distance,
they must shout to be able to hear
each other. The angrier they are, the
stronger they will shout to hear each
other through that great distance.”
Then the professor asked, ''what
happens when two people fall in love?
They don't shout at each other but talk
softly, why? Because their heart are
psychologically close. The distance
between them is very close.” The
professor continued, "when they love
each other even more, what happens?
They don't speak, they only whisper
and they even get closer to each other
in their love.
Finally, they even need not to whisper,
they only look at each other and that's
all...” So, next time you shout on a
loved one know that you are creating
distance between your heart and that
person's heart.
Pls share with as many friends as you
can. You may be healing a hot
tempered person today... Enjoy every
moment, life is easy...
*I love you*