Life is very simple:-

POISON THAT KILLS MEN

Once upon a time a beautiful girl got tired of her marriage life and wanted to murder her spouse.

One morning she ran to her mother and say to her " mother, I am tired of my husband I can no longer support his nonsense. I want to kill him but I am afraid Law of the land will hold me responsible, can you please help me mother?"

The mother answered:

- Yes my daughter I can help you, but, there is a little task attached.

The daughter asked "what task? I am willing and ready to assume any task attached in order to get him out"

OK, said the mother,

1..You will have to make peace with him, so that no one will suspect you when he is dead.

2.. You will have to beautify yourself in order to look young and attractive to him

3.. You have to take good care of him and be very nice and appreciative to him

4.. You have to be patient, loving and less jealous, have more listening ears, be more respectful and obedient

5. Spend your money on him and don’t get angry even when he refuses to give you money for whatever

6. Don’t raise your voice against him but encourage Peace and love so that you will never be suspected when he must have died.

Can you do all of that?
Asked the mother.
Yes i can. She replied
OK, said the mother.

Take this powder and pour a bit in his every day meal, it will slowly kill him.

After 30 days the lady came back to her mother and said.

Mother, I have no intention of killing my husband again. As of now I have grown to love him because he has completely changed, he is now a very sweet husband than I ever imagined.

What can i do to stop the poison from killing him?

Please help me mother.

She pleaded in a sorrowful tone.

The mother answered;
Do not worry my daughter. What I gave you the other day was just Tumeric Powder. It will never kill him.

In reality, you were the poison that was slowly killing your husband with tension and dispassion.

It was when you started loving, honouring and cherishing him that you saw him cha

*NEW YEAR POST*

*WHAT IS A RELATIONSHIP?*

A relationship is not based on the time you’ve spent together, but the foundation you’ve built together.
The greatest relationships
are the ones you never expected to be in.
The ones that swept you off your feet and
challenged every view you ever had. Let's stop
fighting in our relationship. A simple talk can
save millions of conflicts; If both sides will be
open to make things right. The couples that are
meant to be are the ones who go through everything that is designed to tear them apart and come out even stronger than they were before.
A little jealousy in a relationship is healthy, It’s nice to know someone’s afraid to lose you.
However, don't be a possessive guy or lady! When a girl thinks of her future with her boyfriend, It’s normal. But when a boy thinks of his future with his girlfriend, he’s serious.
You shouldn’t cheat. If the feelings aren’t there, you shouldn’t be either. Please respect people’s relationships.
Their are so many other fishes in the sea, so why mess with the one that’s already been caught?
Find someone who can change your life, not just your relationship status.
Don't be a lady who is only associated with
Mr Biggs, KFC, Tasty Fried Chicken, Mc Donalds,
Crunches, Shoprite, Item 7 etc. That wasted funds can as well be used to cook real meal in your guys home.
Be Wise.
Guys, let's stop lying!
Lies don't build a relationship,
What will you do when she realizes your lies? Be a *leader*, Not a *liar*!
God Bless Our Relationships.

DON'T LET YOUR EX DESTROY YOUR RELATIONSHIP & MARRIAGE

One of the most delicate relationship problems is the issue of EX LOVERS.
Keeping a close contact with your EX is not advisable if you have started another relationship. Also friendship with an EX cannot continue after marriage. Have you ever thought of why they left or behaved the way they did? The truth is that if they truly loved and missed you, they shouldn't have abandoned you or dumped you, they would have either married you or break up with you mutually.
My beloved pals, be careful how you relate with your Ex, never discuss your current relationship with your EX. It is a dangerous path to thread.
If you have started a new relationship or you are married, please keep your EX at a distance. They should please step aside while you enjoy your relationship, dating or marriage.
Now pay attention to this bitter facts, Some EX lovers are very crafty, smart, wicked, stubborn and can as well blackmail you to do his or her bidding. They can be very desperate.
Most of them behave like something that's being controlled by AMADIOHA. Most times they can suddenly wake up, and start hunting for you under the guise of let's come back together, you are my life, ever since I left you, I haven't known peace, is the work of the Devil, I don't know what came over me, I need you back, please give me a second chance blablabla.
If you find yourself in such a situation, do not be naive to fall for his or her crap if you have found a new relationship that you are happy with or if you are already married.
EX Lovers always come with stories that touches the heart so don't give a hut. Because it can ruin your happiness the second time and forever. I have counselled a good number of single and married people who end up having affairs with their EX. To be candid, most EX wrecked their homes leaving them frustrated and in perpetual agony. Once you are caught, your relationship and marriage wouldn't be the same again.
Let me be candid with you, we are humans, and emotions don't die. It is not easy to forget an EX. Especially the ones you shared your heart, body, soul, money, time, affection, attention, love and togetherness with the person.
So the feelings you have for your EX lovers haven't died completely but for you to move on and enjoy your relationship, dating or marriage with your new partner, you need to keep your EX Lover away, restrict communications if possible and love your Man or Woman like they are the only one in the world.
Most times, you may bump into your EX Lover, you need not turn back to look twice, because if you do, you may suddenly discover that you still have hidden feelings and passions for an Ex and any mistake may trigger an affair which doesn't end peacefully.
Little wonder some Men and Women still sleep with their EX while still under a new relationship or in their husband's house.
What did you really miss in your EX? Is it the abuse, the heartbreak, s*x, p***s, va**na, money, swag, romance, etc? Are you really being fair to the new person you are with.
Can't you calmly teach him or her how you like it, how you desire to be cared for, romanced, kissed, touched, smiled at and given attention all the time, can't you make it work? Why going back to your vomit?
Say no to an Ex relationship, unless you are with no one and you see genuine repentance and change in him or her, then you can give it a rethink.
Keep your EX Lover off your relationship, dating, marriage and all that has to do with your private life.
Better watch it, they always come back when you are happy, when you are about to marry and when someone has given you what they couldn't offer you which is true love.
Your EX Lover took a decision to turn his or her back on you, its his or her choice not to marry you and now that you are happily married or in a good relationship, they should leave you alone and let you enjoy your relationship, dating, courtship and matrimony.
Beware Most Ex are manipulators. Shine your eyes. You don't resolve
heartbreak by having an affair with an Ex lover thereby breaking your partners heart.

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ADVICE TO THOSE FALLING IN
LOVE:
1. When you fall in love make sure it's with somebody who treats you exactly how you deserve to be treated.
2. Love somebody who wants to know everything about you,from your favorite color to your childhood memories how you managed to survive all those years.
3. Love somebody who can make you laugh,who kisses your forehead and who notices all your flaws but chooses to see past
them.
4. Love somebody who listens to whatever is on your mind,who protects you and always reminds you how blessed they are to have found you.
5. Love somebody who you can't stay mad at for more than an hour because you miss speaking to them,who knows every freckle on your face, every stretch mark on your thighs, every scar and every tear.
6. Love somebody who you can plan your future with,and most importantly love somebody who is God fearing.
7. And lastly don't forget to make them feel loved in return.

*If you agree that those 7 reasons,i have listed above should be considered
type {Yes}. if u don't type. {No}

You all need to read this 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

I got married at the age of 24years to my husband who was a medical practitioner just like I was. We both focused on our carrier and of course we were both successful in all we did but not in the parenting of our own flesh and blood.

We had two children, Kunle as the first and Tola the second. Kunle was a very inquisitive boy and asked questions on everything. He even had a nick name "the examiner". His father and I got tired of his questions that we started locking up the door to our bedroom once we came back from work. How I wish I knew better, how I wish I read those posts of yours then.

By the time Kunle was four years old, he was much more intelligent than his colleagues and he was so lively, you would never have a dull moment with him. He loved his sister so much and we were always proud of him. His father and I were so sure Kunle was also going to become a medical doctor just like we were.

We loved our children so much and had plans to give then the best of everything although we were always busy and were not always at home because of the nature of our job. This made us hire a nanny and we also had one of my brothers in-law with us.

On day, I came back from work very tired and my son ran into my room with me and asked,
"why do you always close your door anytime you and daddy are in the room?"

"Do you like kissing my daddy?"

"why don't you kiss me too?"

I got so upset with him that I beat him severely and reported him to his teacher the next day. We believed some of his friends were already exposed and may be watched bad movies at home. By the end of that term, we withdrew Kunle and Tola from the school.

We did not allow him and his sister watch the television at home and also stopped them from visiting their friends and neighbours. We did all this to preserve our children's sanity but hardly did we know what was happening right under our roof.

Some two years later, I got home unusually early to pick up a document. I noticed the door was not shut and everywhere was quiet. I sneaked in to give my children a playful surprise when I realised that their uncle and nanny were in the sitting alongside with my children watching po*******hy. I hate remembering that day. Not only were they watching po*******hy, but they were all naked, practicing what they were watching.

I drove out the nanny and my brother in-law but the seed was already planted. When I was crying, my six year old son came to me and said, mummy why are you crying, uncle and aunty are only teaching us how to be good mummy and daddy. I was shocked as I never even knew that this had been going on for over two years and my children had be indoctrinated into this messy life style at their tender ages.

We never realized the impact this had had on their lives until we caught both of them having s*xual in*******se on uncountable occasions. Tola and Kunle did not only continue with this but became obsessed with each other.

Their father and I kept this as our "little secret" as we were well known in our carrier. We tried correcting them in love with tears streaming down our faces whenever we caught them in the act. They promised us they were going to change. We had had done two abortions for our daughter, since we could not face the stigma of in**st.

On a fateful day, Tola walked up to her father and I and told us she was pregnant for Kunle again. Her father insisted on an abortion as usual but this time we lost our twenty year old daughter in the process. Kunle on learning Tola had died never spoke to neither his father nor I again. He eventually left home.

Three months after he left home, we received a call from an hospital telling us our son was in a terrible state in their ICU. When we got there, Kunle was lying unconscious. He had poisoned himself.

Finally, he got conscious and we were so happy, he looked at us as we sat by he bedside and told us how much he hated us for killing his sister. We pleaded with him and apologized.
We got to the hospital the next day to see his co**se, he had suffocated himself by removing his oxygen mask.

I am now 74 years old and a widow, my husband could not forgive himself and died of depression three years ago. I regret my years of ignorance everyday. I wish I could start afresh.

I have never opened up my family "little secret" up till today. I don't know if my story can be of help to other parents, I am tired of carrying this burden without telling a soul.

I am happy I finally surmounted the courage to open up to someone today. Oh, my life is a great mess.

Kindly do me a favour of posting this on your page for parents to learn how expensive their actions today could be tomorrow.

Thank you. Dear Ladies, Pls Kindly Share with your Networks & Contacts, We Never Know Who Might Be Helped by Reading This, God Bless u r

A WOMAN...
Is fully capable of being faithful, temptation is not her weakness. All she wants is love, attention, honesty and loyalty. Before she cheats, she will wine, cry and complain about all the things that makes her unhappy, a warning before destruction. Pay attention to your woman, never make her feel single or she will act as such.
Show her the best love ever.
Give her the best kiss ever.
A peaceful marriage is a marriage full of LOVE.
Let everything you do speak love.

Agree or disagree?

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✋These WORDS surprise me✋

☆When you were born,
You don't know who bring you out from your mother's belly.
☆and when you died,
You don't know who will put you in your grave.

A surprise for you, o you son of man,
☆when you were born,
You were washed and cleaned.
☆and when you died,
You were washed and cleaned.

A surprise for you, o you son of man,
☆when you were born,
You don't know who was happy and glad for you;
☆and when you died,
You don't know who cries for you and felt for you.

A suprise for you, o you son of man,
☆in your mother's womb,
You were in a tight and dark place;
☆and when you died,
You will be in a tight and dark place.

A surprise for you, o you son of man,
☆when you were born,
You were wrapped with cloth to cover your body;
☆and when you died,
You will be wrapped with cloth to cover ur body.

A surprise for you, o you son of man,
☆when you were born and grown up,
People would ask you about your certificates (professions) and your stories;
☆and when you died,
The Angels will ask you on your good deeds.

Hmmmmmm.....
O you son of man,

What have u gathered for your end?

REMEMBER:
Its not too late for YOU!!!
SEEK FOR FORGIVENESS AND HAVE A GOOD ENDING.

🌀26 LIFE PRINCIPLES*

*A*
✍🏽
*ACCEPT*
Accept others for
who they are and
for the choices they
have made even if
you have difficulty
understanding their
beliefs, motives
or actions.

*B*
✍🏽g
*BREAK AWAY*
Break away from
everything that
stands in the way
of what you hope
to accomplish
with your life.

*C*
✍🏽
*CREATE*
Create a family
of friends whom
you can share your
hopes, dreams,
sorrows, and
happiness together.

*D*
✍🏽
*DECIDE*
Decide that you’ll be
successful *&* happy
come what may, and
good things will find
you. The roadblocks
are only minor
obstacles along
the way.

*E*
✍🏽
*EXPLORE*
Explore & experiment.
The world has much
to offer, and you
have much to give.
And every time you
try something new,
you’ll learn more
about yourself.

*F*
✍🏽
*FORGIVE*
Grudges only weigh
you down and inspire
unhappiness *&* grief.
Soar above it, and
remember that
everyone makes
mistakes.

*G*
✍🏽
*GROW*
Leave the childhood
monsters behind. They
can no longer hurt you
or stand in your way.

*H*
✍🏽
*HOPE*
Hope for the best
and never forget that
anything is possible
as long as you remain
dedicated to the task.

*I*
✍🏽
*IGNORE*
Ignore the negative
voice inside your head.
Focus instead on your
goals and remember
your accomplishments.
Your past success is only
a small inkling of what
the future holds.

*J*
✍🏽
*JOURNEY*
Journey to new worlds,
new possibilities, is
mostly by remaining
open-minded.
Try to learn something
new every day and you
will grow in Knowledge.

*K*
✍🏽
*KNOW*
Know that no matter
how bad things seem,
to be they will always
get better.
The harshest Winter
always follows the
Warmth of Spring.

*L*
✍🏽
*LOVE*
Let love fill your
heart instead of hate.
When hate is in your
heart, there is *NO* room
for anything else,
but when love is in
your heart, there’s
room for endless
happiness.

*M*
✍🏽
*MANAGE*
Manage your time and
your expenses wisely,
and you’ll suffer less
stress and worry.
Then you’ll be able to
focus on the important
things in life.

*N*
✍🏽
*NOTICE*
Never ignore the poor,
infirm, helpless, weak,
or suffering people.
Offer your assistance
when possible, and
always your kindness
and understanding.

*O*
✍🏽
*OPEN*
Open your eyes and
take in all the beauty
around you.
Even during the
worst of times,
there’s still much
to be thankful for.

*P*
✍🏽
*PLAY*
Never forget to have
fun along the way.
Success means nothing
without happiness.

*Q*
✍🏽
*QUESTION*
Ask many questions,
because you are here
to learn & be informed.

*R*
✍🏽
*RELAX*
Refuse to let worry
and stress rule your
Life, and remember
that things always
have a way of working
out in the end.

*S*
✍🏽
*SHARE*
Share your talent,
skills, knowledge,
and time with others.
Everything that you
invest in others will
return to you many
times Multiplied.

*T*
✍🏽
*TRY*
Even when your
dreams seem
impossible to reach,
try anyway. You’ll be
amazed by what you
can accomplish.

*U*
✍🏽
*USE*
Use your gifts to
your best ability.
Talent that is wasted
has no value. Talent
that is made into
efforts will bring
unexpected rewards.

*V*
✍🏽
*VALUE*
Value the friends and
family members who
have supported and
encouraged you *&* be
there for them as well.

*W*
✍🏽
*WORK*
Work hard every day
to be the best person
you aspire to be, but
never feel guilty if you
fall short of your goals.
Every *sunrise* offers
a second chance.

*X*
✍🏽
*X-RAY*
Look deep inside the
hearts of those around
you and you will see
the goodness and
beauty within.

*Y*
✍🏽
*YIELD*
Yield to commitment.
If you stay on track
and remain dedicated,
you will find success
at the end of the road.

*Z*

✍🏽
*ZOOM*
Zoom to a happy
place when bad
memories or sorrow
rears its ugly head.
Let nothing interfere
with your goals.
Instead, focus on
your abilities, in
your dreams, and
a brighter tomorrow.
D Have a fruitful life.
have a sweet morning .

*DEFINITION OF ONE DAY*

*One day, you will lock your door but you will not be the one that will open it.*

One day, you will wash that your best clothes and you will not be able to wear it.

*One day, your best food will be prepared and you will be unable to eat it.*

One day, you will eat and drink what you will never excrete.

*One day, your curriculum vitae will get an expiry.*

One day, the person that seems to love you most will never dare to move closer to you.

*One day, you will think of what you can never accomplish.*

One day, you will be regarded as “That thing”
One day, you will be isolated in a place called “grave”

*One day, that thing you love most will come your way but you will not be able to give any attention to it.*

One day, you will hold your breath and forget to release it.

*One day, you will become a defendant before GOD.*

One day, housefly/ termites will come your way and you will be unable to chase it.

*One day, you will receive a call that can never be declined.*

One day, your name will be called, but no one will answer

*One day, the assets you cherished most will be taken by another person.*

One day, your deed on earth will be presented like a CD.

*One day, a title will be added to your name “Late”*

One day, The Great Allocator will allocate you to an appropriate place.

*One day that your beautiful skin will turn to its original nature-sand.*

One day, your entire body will cease operation.

*One day, you will be given an infinite apartment, either palace or hell.*

*"In Summary, take life easy and remember that “Life is just an episode, but it can determine your eternity”*

*Always Remember ONE DAY.*

Lessons from this picture: 1. Not all opportunities are to be taken. Some are traps.
2. A person can become so determined to destroy another person that they become blind and end up destroying themselves.
3. You fight best in your natural element and environment. Here the bird has advatange in his natural element.
4. Know your limits, we all have them.
5. Sometimes the best response to provocation is not to fight.
6. Sometimes to accomplish something you need team work, you will not always win alone.
7. Stick to what you do best and don't pursue what will kill you.

Always Remember that LIFE IS VERY SIMPLE

THE SCHOOL CALLED MARRIAGE

Marriage is the only school where you get the Certificate before you start.

It's also a school where you will never graduate.

It's a school without a break or a free period.

It's a school where no one is allowed to drop out.

It's a school you will have to attend every day of your life.

It's a school where there is no sick leave or holidays.

It's a school founded by God:

1.On the foundation of love.

2.The walls are made out of trust.

3.The door made out of acceptance.

4.The windows made out of understanding

5.The furniture made out of blessings

6.The roof made out of faith.

Be reminded that you are just a student not the principal.

God is the only Principal.

Even in times of storms, don't be unwise and run outside.

Keep in mind that, this school is the safest place to be.

Never go to sleep before completing your
assignments for the day.

Never forget the C-word...Communicate.

Communicate with your classmate and with the Principal.

If you find out something in your classmate (spouse) that you do not appreciate,

Remember your classmate is also just a student not a graduate,

God is not finished with him/her yet.

So take it as a challenge and work on it together.

Do not forget to study the Holy Book (the main textbook of this school).

Start each day with a sacred assembly and end it the same way.

Sometimes you will feel like not attending classes, yet you have to.

When tempted to quit find courage and continue.

Some tests and exams may be tough but remember,

the Principal knows how much you can bear and yet

it's a school better than any other.

It's one of the best schools on earth;

joy, peace and happiness accompany each lesson of the day.

Different subjects are offered in this school, yet love is the major subject.

After all the years of theorizing about it, now you have a chance to practice it.

To be loved is a good thing, but to love is the greatest privilege of them all.

Marriage is a place of love, so love your spouse.
More grace from God.

Send this to all your married friends to encourage them, and to your unmarried friends to counsel and educate them.