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: DeterminationEncourage Them To Take on a ChallengeFive-year-old Daniel showed his mother a drawing that he'd made wit...
15/05/2018

: Determination

Encourage Them To Take on a Challenge

Five-year-old Daniel showed his mother a drawing that he'd made with his new crayons. "That's very bright and colorful," she told him. "Nice job!" The child then ran to his room and dashed off another drawing to bring to his mom for praise — then another and another.

"Each one was sloppier than the last," his mother said. "I didn't know what to say." A good response might have been: "Well, Daniel, that drawing isn't as carefully done as your other one. Did you try your best on that?"

Determination is a value that you can encourage from a very young age. The easiest way to do so is by avoiding excessive praise and by providing children with honest feedback, delivered in a gentle, supportive fashion.

Another powerful way to help kids develop determination is to encourage them to do things that don't come easily, and to praise them for their initiative.

If your son is shy, for instance, quietly encourage him to approach kids on the playground, even if it makes him feel nervous and scared.

If your daughter is quick to blow a fuse, teach her strategies (such as counting to ten or taking a deep breath) for holding back a temper tantrum.

Congratulate kids when they manage to do things that are difficult for them. The child who hears "Good for you, I know that was really tough!" is bolstered by the recognition and becomes even more determined to keep trying.

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19/04/2018

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: Insist That Children Make Amends.At a recent family gathering, Temi and Ayo, 4-year-old cousins, were making castles...
12/04/2018

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Insist That Children Make Amends.

At a recent family gathering, Temi and Ayo, 4-year-old cousins, were making castles out of wooden blocks. Suddenly, Temi knocked over Ayo's castle, and he started to cry. Witnessing the scene, Temi's father chided his daughter and ordered her to apologize. Temi dutifully said, "I'm sorry."

Then her dad took her aside and asked, "Do you know why you pushed over his blocks?" She told him that she was mad because Ayo's castle was bigger than hers. The dad told her that though this was no excuse for destroying her cousin's castle, he could understand her feelings. He then sent her back to play.

The father's reaction was similar to that of many psychologically savvy parents: He wanted his daughter to identify and express her feelings and to understand why she behaved as she did. That's okay, but it isn't enough.

In order to help children internalize a true sense of justice, parents need to encourage them to take some action to remedy a wrong. For example, Temi's dad might have suggested that she help Ayo rebuild his castle or that she bring him some cookies as a gesture of apology.

Saying "I'm sorry" is pretty easy for a child, and it lets her off the hook without forcing her to think. Having a child make amends in a proactive way conveys a much stronger message. If you're aware that your child has acted badly toward someone, help him think of a way to compensate. Maybe he can give one of his trucks to a playmate whose toy he has damaged. Perhaps he could draw a picture for his sister after teasing her all day.

By encouraging your child to make such gestures, you emphasize the importance of treating people fairly-an essential value that will one day help him negotiate the complicated world of peer-group relationships.

: Don't Let The Child See Lie As An Option. When the mother of 5-year-old Sandra walked into the family room one after...
09/04/2018

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Don't Let The Child See Lie As An Option.

When the mother of 5-year-old Sandra walked into the family room one afternoon, she saw that her large potted plant had been toppled and that several branches had been snapped off. She knew right away what had happened: Once before, she had seen Sandra making her Barbie dolls "climb the trees," and she'd told her daughter at the time that the plants were off-limits. When Mom demanded an explanation, a guilty-looking Sandra blamed the family dog.
Sandra's mom reacted sensibly: She interrupted her child's story and said, "Sweetie, I promise I won't yell. Think about it for a minute, and then tell me what really happened." After a moment, the child owned up to her misdeed. As a consequence, Sandra had to help clean up the mess and was not allowed to watch television that afternoon, but her mom made sure to emphasize how much she appreciated her daughter's honesty. In doing so, she taught the child an important lesson: Even if being honest isn't always easy or comfortable, you-and other people-always feel better if you tell the truth.

Another way to promote the value of honesty: Don't overreact if your child lies to you. Instead, help her find a way to tell the truth.

: Help Kids Find a Way To Tell the Truth. Carol decided to limit the number of playdates between her 3-year-old son, ...
08/04/2018

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Help Kids Find a Way To Tell the Truth.

Carol decided to limit the number of playdates between her 3-year-old son, Chris, and his friend Paul. The boys had been fighting a lot recently, and Carol thought they should spend some time apart. So when Paul's mother called one afternoon to arrange a get-together, Carol told her that Chris was sick.

Overhearing this, her son asked, "Am I sick, Mommy? What's wrong with me?" Carol, taken aback by her son's frightened look, told him she had only said he was sick, because she didn't want to hurt Paul's mother's feelings. Carol then launched into a complicated explanation of the distinctions between the various types of lies, and Chris was confused. All he understood was that fibbing is sometimes okay-and that, in fact, it's what people do.

Your child takes his cues from you, so it's important that you try to avoid any kind of deception, even a seemingly innocuous one. (Never, for instance, say something like "Let's not tell Daddy we got candy this afternoon.") Let your child hear you being truthful with other adults. Carol would have been better off saying, "This isn't a good day for a playdate. I'm concerned that the boys were fighting so much last week. I think they need a break."

The best way to encourage truthfulness in your child is to be a truthful person yourself.

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