23/09/2026
It's really not wisdom to be hating on a person that God wants to show love.
Ofcourse, there are reprobates that God uses to make an example of paths that must not be taken, but by default, He loves His creation. Even before He declares you reprobate, He must have tried everything - including giving Himself for you.
So, if God is still putting in the effort to redeem a person, wisdom demands that your thoughts align with God. If you still don't understand what I'm saying, I'm saying that just because you're angry with someone who offended you doesn't mean the person offended God. And even though God is angry with the wicked, it doesn't mean He expedites their judgment. Even in His anger, He's still patient with them - hoping they'd change.
That's unlike many of us, a little disrespect or dishonor to us and we're ready to rain hell on the perpetrator. Some of us will even pray to God to punish the person. And when nothing is done, we conclude that God is not fair. Haba! Is it that God is not fair or we don't have spiritual sense?
Value people! Learn any course or subject that would help you have better relationships with people. Let your thoughts constantly be about how to add value to lives, even to those who are mean to you. God is angry with the wicked everyday yet He still supplies them with Sun and Rain. Honestly, if human beings were God, some people will never see the sun nor rain.
So learn human psychology, learn sociology, learn emotional intelligence, learn anything that will enhance your appreciation of people. Learn until you start thinking about people exactly how God thinks about them.
Perhaps I should add this; God has a special bias for anybody who sincerely desires to lead His people right. Think about Solomon, God was amazed when he asked for wisdom to lead His people. He didn't just give Solomon wisdom, He also gave him praise and fame to match. As long as you're all out for people, God's backing will be with you. This is the secret of great men, not just in the kingdom, but also in the market place.
Remain ever blessed!
Coach Anslem
