The Sparkling Marriage Academy

One of the solid rocks of a thriving relationship.

It gives one plenty energy to fly higher.

Be intentional about this.

This picture does not require plenty write up.

It only looks difficult to achieve and I know you are wondering if you can make the attempt now to start that conversation

Put the call through and have the conversation.

Make that visit so you can have the conversation.

Send that message across and start the conversation.

You alone know who this conversation will be with.

As you are staring at your phone or laptop and reading this message it is becoming clearer to you the person that you owe a conversation.

Make the step right away. It makes the healing process faster.

Have you ever thought that your partner just doesn't get it?

Look deeply you might just be the one not getting it.🤔🤔

There might be a lot of questions yet to be answered.

A lot of yearnings yet unfulfilled

A lot of what ifs

A lot of why me

....just because no one knows it all, it is good to maximise every experience and turn it into a booster.

A booster is something that propels you to be more, do more and have more.

What is that life's experience that has turned you into a mess?

When you look at the experience again and again with a uniquely different pair of lenses it gives you the booster and the issue will not be as mighty as you thought.

Would you let to get the lenses?

Hahaha, ooh sure it's not a physical pair of lenses, it's a uniquely different lense like I said earlier.

So do you want it?

We sometimes box ourselves in a space that makes us justified for not enjoying the life of our dreams.

Sometimes, we even blame it on our spouses.

Sometimes, we push the blame to our environment and the simple truth is just that we have the key to open that door to a thriving relationship.

Ready?

Relationships That Thrive

When parties in a relationship are not clear about a situation, they tend to handle it just anyhow.

Communicating effectively, as often as possible helps us to build stronger relationships.

It also saves our partners the stress involved in trying to read our minds.

Say no to mind reading.
Express yourself...but remember always that how you say what you say, when and where you say it matters a great deal.

A reminder for the babes out there🤣🤣🤣🤣tomorrow is Father's Day.

Please let's consciously celebrate our husbands and fathers.

Remember we have only one father's day.🙈🙈🙈

Meanwhile, let me go and prepare for my double celebration🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

My blackky😁😁😁😁

Do you know that marriage is a very good prunning ground?

When we allow ourselves to go through the right processing, we get better.

When we are ready to let go of pride and adjust we enjoy our relationships more.

The picture below says it all.

What do you think?

Over the weekend, I had a class on marital issues where I talked about life after marriage.

You know those things you experience after you got married that made you open your mouth wide in excitement, shock, pain or displeasure.

Ehen, you know how you had a picture of what you wanted your marriage to look like but you were faced with a totally different or slightly different lifestyle (reality).

Anyway, I am sure most of us had one expectation or the other that did not match the reality eventually.

So at the end of the class someone asked the question below.👇👇👇👇👇

Is it right for a husband or wife to give his family or friends money with out telling the partner?

What's your take on this?