Responsible Parenting

As you strive for financial success, take time to reflect on whether you are inadvertently sacrificing irreplaceable elements like health, family, and love.

Little advice sisters.Some wash their husband's clothes and it works for them. Others don't and amazingly it works for them too.
Some cook for their husband and it works for them. others don't and shockingly, it works for them.
Some are full time house wife and it works perfectly for them. others are not and trust me, it also works for them.

Some know their husband cheats and it works for them. others don't know and don't want to know and it works for them.
Some contribute to the upkeep of their home and it works for them, others don't and it also works for them.
Some are in distance relationship and it works for them, others are in a close relationship and it works for them.
Some sleep in the same room and it works for them, others don't and amazingly it works for them.

Every relationship works and will only work if everybody understands that no two marriages are the same, no two individuals are exactly the same, and no two situations are exactly the same.

Even when the situations are the same, the individuals are not and even if the individuals are the same, the circumstances surrounding those marriages are not the same.

We come online daily and read tons of articles about what people do in their marriage, the one that don't wash is calling the one that Washes a slave, the one that washes is calling the one that don't wash bad marriage (wife) material.

One of the major destruction to 21st century marriage is social media counselors, articles, posts and testimonies.

What works for you? How sure are you that the person you are copying is happy? My dear, you are not mad, you are not a slave, you are not rude for seeking happiness.

One of your major goal is to seek happiness and peace of mind in your marriage, it can only be gotten if you understand that even if your name Is Amaka married to Emeka, you are not the same as Your Amaka neighbor that her husband also bears Emeka. You guys are different and unique in your own ways.

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A friend of mine called me some weeks ago.

The first thing she said was;

"Kosi, I lo$t the baby. I almost di-ed."

My jaw dropped. My heart sank.

I knew this my friend's journey. The first time she got pregnant, she lo$t the baby due to n£gligence by the nurses.

God blessed her with another child and he is doing fine.

Only for her to get pregnant again. She was due for C$, but the baby dr0wned in her w0mb before they could get it out.

I cried terribly that night.

Why am I telling you this?

Many a time, I see a couple of you men coming online to type n0ns€nse and ask what women bring to the table.

I'm going to tell you this and you can choose to take or leave it.

In terms of what both genders bring to the table, none can be compared to what the woman brings.

Nothing can be compared to the birth of a child. Be it your money, your time, your attention... You cannot compare pregnancy to what you as a man brings.

You might want to argue that pregnancy is a natural phenomenon, but how can you say something is natural when one in ten women d-ie from it?

You think carrying a baby for nine months is easy? Ask your m0ther what she went through birthing you.

I nearly lost my own mother when she was giving birth to my now 6 year old sister. This was someone who never had any complications when giving birth to three of her children, but had to be operated on when giving birth to the last one.

50000 Women di-e every year in Nigeria during childbirth.

If that doesn't give you something to think about, then there's a problem.

Guys, respect the other gender. If not for anything, but the fact that they could bear children for you one day.

Childbirth is a big ri$k. Women go through so much pains trying to deliver. Pregnancy me$ses up their hormones, their bodies... They are never the same way after giving birth.

Yet, many of them still d.ie or lose the babies.

Nature is not fair to wom€n.

Think carefully about this when next you ask a woman what she's bringing to the table.

©Kosi Ugo.

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