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Happy International Day of the Girl Child!

Today, I had the incredible opportunity to speak at Tomade Nursery/Primary School, where we celebrated the resilience, strength, and potential of girls. Alongside another guest speaker, we engaged with the students on this year’s theme for the International Day of the Girl Child, while also shedding light on the importance of s*x education.

My passion for empowering the girl child runs deep. Through my work as an educational consultant, I have been intentional in ensuring that every girl I encounter understands her worth and believes in herself. I am dedicated to creating spaces where girls are encouraged to see themselves as powerful individuals, capable of making a difference in the world.

I firmly believe that the education and empowerment of the girl child is a key driver for a brighter future, and I am committed to helping every girl see herself as a force to reckon with!

Let’s continue to raise strong, confident girls who know their value.

Six months ago, the journey began, and today, in just a few hours, my mentee and others like her will graduate from the Seed Teachers-In-Training Fellowship Mentorship program. It has been a truly fulfilling experience witnessing Enibukun's growth and progress. My heartfelt thanks to seed Care & Support Foundation for creating this incredible program. Together, we are committed to transforming the narrative of the Nigerian education sector.

The air crackled with unspoken tension as David slammed the door to his room. It was a familiar routine these days - slammed doors, monosyllabic answers, and a constant air of resentment hanging over David and his mom, Morenike. David, on the cusp of thirteen, felt like he was adrift in a sea of changing emotions. One minute he craved independence, the next he yearned for the comfort of his childhood.

Morenike, struggling to navigate the choppy waters of pre-teen hood, felt like she was constantly walking on eggshells, she shouted, beat, like the first time he slammed his room door, she gave him a beating he will never forget (or so she thought) but here we are again, now when she spanks him he sort of shrug it off, that is the scariest part for her. “Oh, how I wish your father was around” Morenike mustered to herself as she rested her head on the back of the seat thinking of what next to do. “How did we even get here?”
It all started with the new haircut. David had begged for it, a desperate attempt to shed the remnants of childhood and embrace the cool facade of his classmates. But when Morenike, worried about the spiky style, expressed her reservations, it ignited a firestorm. Days turned into weeks, filled with passive-aggressive comments and sullen silences.

One morning, after a particularly icy exchange, Morenike found a crumpled drawing on the kitchen counter. It was a crude sketch of a boy with spiky hair, standing alone on an island, surrounded by storm clouds. A single word, scrawled in the corner, hit Morenike like a punch to the gut – "Alone."
Morenike knew she had to bridge the gap. That evening, after dinner, she sat on the edge of David's bed. "Can we talk?" she asked gently. David shrugged, avoiding her gaze.
Morenike took a deep breath, drawing on years of parenting experience. "I know things have been tough lately," she began, "and I want you to know that I hear you. You're growing up, and it's scary and exciting all at once."

A flicker of surprise crossed David's face. This wasn't the lecture he'd expected. He mumbled a barely audible "okay."
"I may not understand everything you're going through," Morenike continued, "but I want to try. I miss my little guy sometimes, but I also want you to feel confident exploring who you are."
Silence hung in the air, then David spoke, his voice barely a whisper. "I just want to fit in."

Morenike reached out and rested a hand on his shoulder. "You do fit in," she said softly. "You fit in here, with me, and you'll find your place out there too. But remember, no matter what, you're always loved and supported, no matter your hairstyle."

A tear escaped David's eye, and for the first time in weeks, he looked at his mom. A hesitant smile played on his lips. The storm clouds weren't gone, but a glimmer of sunlight peeked through.

Responsive parenting, Morenike realized, wasn't about controlling the weather, it was about holding an umbrella together when it rained.

This story raises so many questions.

How do you communicate your disapproval in a way that will be well accepted?

Will all our values be accepted by our children?

Did Morenike handle this situation well?

What will you have done? Or what's the best approach?

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Years ago, I worked in an organization that didn't prioritize staff Learning and Development. Taking matters into my own hands, I pursued my own learning, but I noticed that many of my colleagues were unaware of the importance, which showed in their teaching methods. Unable to ignore the potential negative impact on students, I proposed to management that we implement a training program. After approval, a training calendar was established, marking my first foray into training.

This experience ignited a passion for training that has lasted 15 years, during which I've had the privilege of training over 2,000 educators and school leaders. Being inducted as a Full Member of the Nigerian Institute of Training and Development National is a testament to my dedication to learning and development. As Abigail Adams said, "Learning is not attained by chance, it must be sought for with ardour and diligence." I am committed to continuing my learning journey and helping organizations grow through learning and development.

This remarkable community played a pivotal role in shaping the success of 2023 for us, and we sincerely appreciate your presence within it.

Your contributions, likes and comments were instrumental in sustaining the vibrancy of this community.

Thank you,

Omotinuolawa Orukotan Lead Consultant Pecroyal Educonsult

In 2016, I entered into a consulting contract with a school. At the time of taking up the contract, the school had approximately 120 pupils, but they faced difficulties in paying their staff's fourth-month salary, necessitating them to rely on termly loans. This situation was concerning to the school's owner, who was seldom present on-site.

Subsequently, in the following term, the school's enrollment decreased to around 90 students, yet they managed to generate a substantial profit exceeding one million naira.

The school in a bid to retain their population had been operating on a charitable basis due to the absence of a robust fee collection system.

Presently, the school boasts an impressive 98% debt recovery rate on a termly basis.

Is your school facing similar challenges and requires guidance on achieving a "debt-free" operation, we invite you to attend our free seminar. Join us on Saturday, 29th July 2023, at 4:00 pm, where I will share valuable insights to help improve your school's debt recovery strategies.

A successful teacher isn't one that seeks to dominate the class but one who gets involved in the learning process.

In 2016, I entered into a consulting contract with a school. At the time of taking up the contract, the school had approximately 120 pupils, but they faced difficulties in paying their staff's fourth-month salary, necessitating them to rely on termly loans. This situation was concerning to the school's owner, who was seldom present on-site.

Subsequently, in the following term, the school's enrollment decreased to around 90 students, yet they managed to generate a substantial profit exceeding one million naira.

The school in a bid to retain their population had been operating on a charitable basis due to the absence of a robust fee collection system.

Presently, the school boasts an impressive 98% debt recovery rate on a termly basis.

Is your school facing similar challenges and requires guidance on achieving a "debt-free" operation, we invite you to attend our free seminar. Join us on Saturday, 29th July 2023, at 4:00 pm, where I will share valuable insights to help improve your school's debt recovery strategies.

Send a message Tinu on 08055257050 to join.

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