22/08/2026
READ THE ROOM
A few years ago in the North, I went for a job interview.
I answered every question correctly. I was confident.
Then one panelist brought up politics.
I spoke my mind. Honest. Direct.
I said I believed the American government obeys the rule of law more than the Nigerian government.
We laughed... but I felt it.
I had just disagreed with the belief system of the man deciding my fate.
I got home and realized:
My certificate got me into the room. But my lack of wisdom almost kept me out of the job.
Lesson I learned that day:
In every setting, understand the culture, the values, and the unspoken rules.
Sometimes being right is not as important as being wise.
Sometimes you support.
Sometimes you stay silent.
But always, _read the room first_.
Have you ever lost an opportunity because you spoke too honestly? 👇