Relationship talk with Moses Joseph Uteno

Relationship talk with Moses Joseph Uteno

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23/04/2026

Why Ladies Ignore Your Messages on Social Media

if you've ever found yourself staring at a message you sent to a lady that went unanswered, you might wonder why.

Here are some common reasons that can help you understand this situation better.

1. Profile Picture Matters!

First impressions count, and your profile picture is the first thing they see. If it’s a blurry selfie or a random photo, it might not inspire attraction.

Ladies often look for someone who seems friendly and approachable. So, if your picture is just you with sunglasses and a serious face, you might want to consider updating it to something more inviting!

2. What You Post Says a Lot

The posts you share reveal a lot about you. If your timeline is filled with negativity or controversial topics, it can be a turn-off.

For example, if you’re always posting about your bad days or complaining about everything, it might make someone think twice before responding to your message.

3. The Kind of Posts You Share

Not just any post will do!

If you’re sharing memes or jokes that don’t resonate with their sense of humour, they may not feel connected. Think about it: if you send a funny meme to someone who doesn’t find it funny, they might just ignore your message altogether. Find common ground in your posts—something relatable that sparks interest.

4. Starting the Conversation Right
How you start a conversation is super important!

A simple “Hey” can feel too casual, while a long, drawn-out message might feel overwhelming. Try to find a balance. Instead of just saying “Hi,” ask something engaging like, “I saw your post about premarital s*x. I really want to know more."

This gives them something to respond to and shows you’re genuinely interested.

5. Timing is Everything
Sometimes, it’s just about timing. If they’re busy with work, school, or life in general, they might not have the time to reply. Don’t take it personally!

We all get caught up in our own worlds. A little patience goes a long way.

6. They Might Be Unsure
Finally, they might not know how to respond! If your message is too intense or deep, it could leave them feeling uncertain. Keep it light and fun, especially in the beginning.

It’s not always about you; there are many factors at play. Keep being yourself and don’t be afraid to reach out in a way that feels genuine.

23/04/2026
22/04/2026

LADIES THESE ARE THE 4 SIGNS YOU SEE IN A GUY WHO LIKES YOU.

Most girls often ask how do they know a guy truly likes them, some ladies are really into a guy but they are scared of revealing how they feel so the guy doesn't take them for granted or think that they are desperate.

Most ladies would love to know if a guy is feeling them just the way they are feeling him. Most guys could have feelings for a lady but wouldn't be able to tell her how they feel, telling a woman how a man feels about her is one of the most difficult task in the life of a man but there are certain ways he shows he is into a particular woman unconsciously. So ladies take now of these 4 signs.

1. When a guy smiles at you alot, he really likes you.

When a guy smiles at you immediately he sees you, everytime you're with him he is always smiling, most time for no reason, he isn't like that with anyone else but you, it means he likes you. Men smile unconsciously to the woman they really like.

2.When he acts akwardly towards you, he is trying to hide his feelings.

When a man acts funny anytime you're around him, he is trying so hard not to reveal his true intentions towards you. Most men are well behaved and they know how to comport themselves when they are in public but when they are around someone they like, it is very difficult for a man to comport themselves, he can't behave well, he will be trying to give a nice impression but in the midst of doing so he may act akwardly, this isn't a bad act it's just him indirectly telling you he likes you.

3. When he is always trying to make you laugh.

When a guy likes you, he tries all he can to make you laugh, he would make fun of you, he would tease you, he would come up with different ways to make you laugh. When you're with a guy and he makes you laugh all the time, it's a sign that he likes you.

4. When you catch him staring at you always.

Men only stare at something that has attracted them, men don't stare at anything they don't admire, they only stare at a woman when they admire her, when they think she's beautiful and when they are attracted to her. If you catch a man staring at you several times and when you catch him staring he is trying to remove his face and act like he isn't looking at you. It means he likes you.

Ladies look out for this 4 signs you may have found a man that likes you.

Relationship coach
Moses Joseph Uteno
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21/04/2026

LADIES HOW TO IDENTIFY A GUY WHO JUST WANTS TO USE AND DUMP YOU.

Ladies as you keep searching for a life partner, below are some red flags or warning signals to identify a wrong or fake suitor:

1. S*X: All he wants from you is s*x, s*x and s*x. Every time he meets you, it is s*x he demands. If you refuse to yield to his s*xual advances, he gets angry with you and start to threaten or leave you or to cheat on you.

2. FAMILY INTRODUCTION: He is always postponing introducing you to his family members, Under normal circumstances, if a man loves you and wishes to spend the rest of his life with you, he will introduce you to his family, friends and relatives, if he keeps postponing or gives you flimsy excuses, he is not serious.

3. WORK: The man you are dating does not have any specific job he is doing. He keeps promising you marriage but he is not working. He is not serious in starting something. He seems to have a dream but cannot start anything.

4. MONEY: He is always asking you for recharged cards and money. He even gets angry with you if you don’t accede to his requests.

5. MEETING: The guy meets you in hotels, friend’s place or restaurants. He refuses to give you his house address.

6. LIES: He is full of lies. Everything he tells you cannot be relied upon.

7. OTHER WOMEN: He has a job but flocks around with other women. He tells you those women are just friends. Sometimes when you visit him without notice, you find other women in his house.

8. TELEPHONE CALLS: When he is with you, he switches off his mobile phones. He may even refuse to answer some calls if he is with you for fear of exposing his secret relationship with you. He padlocks his phones and you cannot have access to it.

9. ATM CARDS: He maintains several bank accounts. He has over 10 ATM cards with different banks but his source of livelihood is shrouded in secrecy. He does not allow you to know his sources of incomes but keeps spending money lavishly at all times. Such a guy may be a criminal.

10. FEAR: Anytime you are with him, he is always afraid of law enforcement agents. When he sees policemen around, he is not comfortable. He is always in a panic mood. He is restless any moment he sees policemen around. Such a guy may be a criminal.

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21/04/2026

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20/04/2026

LADIES HOW TO KNOW IF A GUY TRULY LOVES YOU.

Ladies are you tired of getting hurt and you have tired your best to stop getting hurt yet you keep getting hurt?

I understand your pain, the reason why you get hurt all the time is because you can't tell which guy loves you and not just pretending to love you.

I've taken my time to write down in this article how to know if a guy truly loves you, you can run a quick check on your husband/boyfriend or other guys approaching you to know if they really love you from the following ways.

1. He shows he loves you(he proofs he loves you in every given chance).
2. He care alot about you.
3. He would do anything to make you happy.
4. He always creates time for you.
5. He is concern about your goals and visions in life.
6. He loves and cares for anyone related to you.
7. He supports you physically and mentally.
8. He spends on you.
9. He is proud of you, he shows you to the world.
10. He protects you for anything and anyone.

Go through this list and rate your man with it.

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18/04/2026

NEVER REGRET BEING A GOOD PERSON BECAUSE OF A BAD RELATIONSHIP.

Never regret being a good person to the wrong people in your relationship. Your behavior says everything about you, and their behavior says enough about them.

If you have dated a bad person or been in an abusive relationship and you were the one doing most of the good till you parted with the person, Never regret it.

This is because I am sure that God will definitely connect you to the right person who will pay you up for all the commitments and good you gave in the previous relationship.

They too will paid with a partner that fits their bad attitude. Whatever anyone sews, they reap.

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Moses Joseph Uteno
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