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S*xual Intimacy Between Couples (18+)

Is it not funny how the only time some men have s*x with their wife is only at night? Some men have not seen their wife full nakedness before self. Same thing with some wives. If some wife mistakenly see their husbands cucumber, they will be like "Jesus" and they will throw their face in adjacent position. Like are you kidding me?

That thing will be hungrying you, the kids are at school or with a family relation for the holiday and instead of you to lure madam to bed, you will be waiting for night to come before you will do it. Who told you s*xual intimacy between couples should be at night alone? Some couple even see s*x at noon as a taboo self. SMH.

Some men have never had s*x with their wife at noon before but will visit their side chick at noon and will give it to her hard. Now who deceives who?

If you ask me, a s*xual intimacy between couples very early in the morning or late in the evening is more enjoying and engaging than s*x at night.

I heard early morning s*x keeps couples going brightly all through the day. Also, when you have s*x late in the evening, you can sleep peacefully and soundly all through the night without necessarily waking your spouse up around 2am in the night for s*x. Midnight s*x is most time sloppy and not engaging because one of the parties involved will be sleepy or feeling sleepy all through the act.

Early morning or late evening s*x helps housewives too, because from morning till evening they are most times attending to one house chores or the other

So, I think you should allow madam to rest at night most times. Imagine after all the days chores, she finally tucks the kids to bed around 10pm and when she sleeps within 2/3 hours, you will wake her up for s*x. That might be too tiring for her. That's the major reason why I said mid night s*x between couples is most time not engaging.

Anyway, You don't necessarily need to follow these my opinions. You should stick to which ever s*x routine works best between you and your spouse.

Have a nice day ahead ✌️

It's my prayer for you today, May the Lord smile on you & be gracious to you.

*ENJOY S*X IN YOUR MARRIAGE.*

S*xual dysfunction and dissatisfaction in marriage often stem not so much from a husband's or wife's inability or unwillingness to "perform" s*xually as to the couple's failure to be sensitive, aware, and responsive to each other's s*xual needs.
As with effective communication, remembering the little things is important where s*x is concerned also.

A Husband and wife have to be willing to look beyond his/her own feelings and perspective to those of his/her spouse. Just because you may or may not desire s*x at a particular moment does not necessarily mean that your spouse feels the same way. It would be unhealthy to your relationship to make that assumption.
It is very important that Husbands and wives learn how to speak up regarding their s*xual needs.

Wives, as far as marriage is concerned, it is right for you to be as "loose" as you want to be!

If you are not "loose" with him, possibly some other woman will be. Your husband has legitimate s*xual needs and if you do not meet them, someone else will. Use your imagination. Be bold. Don't be afraid to initiate a s*xual encounter occasionally. Surprise your husband with your aggressiveness. Remember that as a man your husband is hardwired for visual stimulation and arousal. Give him something to be stimulated about.

In the same way, Husbands, keep it in mind that as a woman, your wife too is hardwired aural stimulation and arousal. She craves your touch. Embrace her and hold her close. She needs you to tell her how beautiful she is, how s*xy she is, and how much you love her, how much you desire her, and how much you need her. She loves to hear you whisper sweet nothings in her ear.

Today I want to give full details and uses of bitter cola. Please note, am not asking anyone to pay me for this service am about to render, hence, I shouldnt be insulted by anyone...

I grew up in an island in Nigeria, I was fortunate to learn from my grand parents about herbs and their uses.. I should be paid for this, but no... I didn't pay to learn...
Straight to the point
Below is a picture of two samples of bitter cola...
The one on the green container is soaked in water.. While the one in the white container is soaked with dry gin..

Bitter cola is a strong and effective medicine to a lot of illments...

1.. Snake bite, if you encounter snake bite, chew it immediately to noilify the poison in your body..

2.. Seized me**es, if you're going through this, please, peel the bitter cola, slice it to shapes, soak in water for 1week and then drink it first thing in the morning on an empty stomach..
N/b if your me**es seized for years, get as many bitter cola as you can, grate it and put in a container, add dry gin, soak for 2weeks and take it twice a day, morning and night.. Drink for 2weeks..

3... Painful me**es, chew 3 piece of it first thing in the morning..

4... Blocked tubes... Grate and soak the bitter cola with ginger in dry gin for 2wks then take one short in the morning and one at night.. On an empty stomach.. At least your last meal for the day should end by 4pm

5.. For diabetes, chew at least 4 pieces everyday to help regulate your sugar level..

6.. For stomach pain and ulcer,
Slice and soak in dry gin, drink a short after meal everyday..

7.. If you step on charm, chew it immediately to subdue the dark spell in the charm..

8.. For low ej*******on or one minute man, soak bitter cola and cola nut in dry gin and give him to drink 2 shorts before having s*x to prolong his s*xual ability..

9.. For infection, grate bitter cola as many as you can, soak it in dry gin and drink 2 shorts first thing in the morning on an empty stomach, after one hour, you eat your food..

10.. For system cleaning, boil the bitter cola after peeling in a pot, add water to your desire and drain it to a flask and drink it warm every morning.. If you're pregnant chew it, it will help make you thirsty so you drink plenty of water and flush your system of toxins..

" This will work faster if you stop to eat bread, tea, sugary foods and eat more of unripe plantation for iron and beans."..

Please note, DO NOT TAKE BITTER COLA IMMEDIATELY AFTER TAKING DRUGS, IT WILL SPOIL AND SUBDUE THE POWER OF THE DRUGS..MAKING IT USELESS..

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FRIENDS, For the past 4 years I don't spend money to buy any chemical drug for my health.

I love organic because it is natural from God, for the past 4 years I have never taste any chemical drug, all what base is organic and natural from God.

Whenever I discover symptom of malaria fever I will boil neem leaf and lemon grass and drink half cup 3 time daily for 3 days and the Fever will disappear.

Whenever I have headache I will use fresh scent leave to rub my fore head and headache will run.

If I want to drink juice, I will blend carrot, water Mellon, cucumber, apple and ripe orange juice and drink, this is multivitamin ,minerals and amino acid.

Even in my room I put one Christmas Mellon or tagiri to prevent viral disease.

If I want to treat any kind of infection I will get garlic, ginger, cloves and tumeric add water and ferment for 3 days, it is very effective.

For pregnant woman under hard labour tell her to wash jute leave (ewedu) and mixed with small honey drink half cup within 2 minute she will deliver.

Instead me to use maggi to cook I will use locus beans and cray fish to make my food.

For woman that want to boost ovulation cut fresh okro and cut into small soak for 3 days and drink morning and night

Whenever I have cough I will chew bitter kola and drink honey and the cough will stop.

Instead of sugar I will use dates fruit or honey.

For typhoid fever I will boil neem leaf, mango bark, and unripe pawpaw and drink half cup 3 time daily for 3 days.

If am going to bed at night I will take 1 spoon of honey for me to sleep like baby and rest during night.

All these also good for birds and animals, village chicken don't use to fall sick because they spend all their life in organic.

Let us stop eating chemicals, start eating organic meat, organic fish, organic vegetables and fruits you will not spend money to see doctor.

Stay healthy in 2022.

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JUICE FOR QUICK EJ*******ON.

👉 Dates Fruit (Debino in hausa) Remove the seed and throw away and soak the body(flesh) for atleast 30 mins.

👉 Tiger Nut (Dried or fresh)

👉 Coconut.

👉 Ginger

👉 Banana

👉 Apple

👉 Dates ( debino)

👉 Pine-Apple Juice (to make it soft)

HOW TO MAKE:

Soak the dried Tigernut overnight but can use fresh Tiger nut without soaking. Blend separately with water above the size of the nuts in the jug. Add more water if need be to enable blending and softening.
Sieve to get the milk and throw away the chaff. Keep in a bowl separately.

👌 Chop the coconut into bits or shred. Blend with water of same quantity or little above the quantity.

👌Sieve to get your coconut milk. Keep in a separate bowl.

👌Remove the seeds from the DATE FRUIT. Throw away. Chop the flesh into bits and soak for atleast 30 minutes. Blend. It will form Syrup (like honey) after blending. Keep separately

👌Peel the back of the Ginger cut into pieces

👌Peel the Banana and cut into chunks

👌Optional: Squeeze the juice of the Pine-Apple or blend together with others

👌Mix up everything and blend.
Serve Chilled.

Ginger fight against infection of any kind, other fruits boost the immune system.

Tiger nuts, Dabino fruit & Coconut is for libido that's its good for weak er****on and quick ej*******on and boost s***m, it also help women who have infertility problem.

Take control of your health with simple and delicious smoothie recipes for:

Increased energy
Fertility
Physical fitness
Improved S*xual health
boost s***m production…
Improved digestion
Strengthened immune system
Weight loss
Detoxify
Reduce sugar cravings
Reduce and eliminate sickness
Meet daily allowance of fruits and vegetables

NOTE: it's good for both man and woman and kids.

THIS HELPS WOMANS OVULATION TOO.

Meet Dawson : The Man Who Faked Being Deaf And Dumb For 62 Years To Avoid Talking To His Wife.

A man from Waterbury in Connecticut faked being deaf and dumb for 62 years to avoid talking to his wife. 84-year old Barry Dawson never spoke a single word in front of his 80-year old wife Dorothy during their 62 years of marriage.

Upon learning about her husband’s decades-old deception, Dorothy filed for divorce. She said it took her 2 years to learn to communicate with hands so she could talk with her husband. She learned the truth via a Youtube video in which Barry was seen dancing and singing during a karaoke night in a bar.

“When he was at home, that j*** always faked being deaf. It wasn’t until I saw a Youtube video of him singing during a karaoke night in a bar while he was supposed to be at a meeting for a charity, that I understood everything.”

Dawson’s lawyer said that his client is quiet, but not a cheat otherwise he would not have stayed in the relationship for 62 years. He said the man wanted to save the relationship because his wife was ‘annoyingly talkative’ and had he not stayed quiet, their marriage would not have lasted more than 2 years.

Interestingly, Dawson’s family members also thought he was deaf and dumb. The couple still raised six children and has thirteen grandchildren, all of whom were also convinced that Dawson was deaf.

Dawson’s wife has decided to take him to court and demanded financial compensation for the ‘emotional stress and burden’ caused by his deception.

Secret of long lasting marriage 😂😂. Omo this man is something else.

What is your take on this?

ALL BECAUSE I SAID I LOVE HIM 😭

The day we met, I couldn't really back of this feelings in me. He so much adored me that I felt his presence every single seconds. He called me on daily basis. Checked on me. My welfare became his concern. He promised me heaven on Earth.

At first, he was the Best thing a woman could ever dream of having. I felt so much adored, cherished and loved.

Wow, I thought it was happiness.

A day came, he told me he can't do without me. I was the happiness woman on Earth.
We did things together.
We shared ideas together.
We walked to God together.

He promised never to leave.
I promised never to leave.

He said am everything he seek in Prayer.
I said his the only breathe I needed to breathe.

He said we are now one.
I said yes that's true

He told me that my body is now his.
I kept quiet for a while.

He looked at me and ask me if I didn't love him anymore.
I told him I do.

Moreover, I have taken this decision not to have s*x till marriage.

He started telling me how I was so precious, loving, adoring and what the Lord has used me to change in his life. He remind me that he was not going to disappoint or fail me.

I loved him and I don't want to lose him.
I replied him that my body is his.

We had s*x!!
I felt something leaving me 😩

Next time we still s*x!!

Oh! It was sweet!!!
What I had been missing!!

He changed his confession at me.
No longer cherishs me.
No regular calls.

His level of attention ran dry.

My life was always wanting him.
My body seeking him.

My vision gone😔
My direction gone😔

The light I thought I had became darkness!!!

We are still dating but we are no longer in accord.
The pleasure took over us.
Love died!!!!

The pleasure became love.

At a level, my life became a total mess.
The fire ceased!!!

I wanted to prove to him how much I loved him and right now am drowning 😔

Two abortions for him 😭😭

And I still tell my self I love him, that am not gonna give up.

Little did I know that I gave up the moment I had s*xual in*******se with him.
Little did I know that the love a claim to have for him was lust.
Little did I know that I sold my crown for a cloud full of cast.

Oh!!!!!

My soul wept😭😭😭😭😭
Because I love him, I overlooked my covenant with my first Love.

Because I thought I love him, I took over pleasure instead of treasure.

Oh!!!!!
The love I thought I had for him, took my life in wearing.

How I wish I could have another chance to tell him that we don't have to do it untill the exact time.

How I wish I submitted completely to Christ so that he will seek for me there.

I burn my world with sorrow and regret and I pray the ladies out there becomes a lady that when any man wants them, he will first seek them in Christ 😭😭😭

DON'T LET SHARING THIS TO 5 DIFFERENT FACEBOOK GROUP BE A BURDEN TO YOU,YOU NEVER CAN TELL WHO YOU ARE BLESSING AND SAVING BY SHARING

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*VALUE ADDED WIFE (VAW)*

Many think that Jacob loved Rachael because she was beautiful, beauty only attracts a man to a woman but what determines his true love for a woman goes beyond beauty. *Rachael was not just beautiful, she was industrious per excellent.*
Why do we have a lot of beautiful ladies today yet no husband? Because beauty without value and virtue is like a smoke. What impressed and attracted Jacob to Rachael was her industriousness.
While her brothers and elder sister Leah were at home, Rachael singlehandedly brought her father's flock to the well. That was where Jacob met her for the first time. *"No sensible man can resist a woman who is beautiful and industrious".*
What made a man worked for 7 years for the woman he loved and yet felt like he just worked for 7 days? *Value!*
My man doesn't respect me, is because you are not a Value-Added-Woman (VAW).
Do you realized that Jacob did not pay Leah's bride price? They gave him Leah as bonus. Because she had no value. This was why Jacob had no respect for her and her children, hence he set them as first entourage when he was going to meet his angry brother.
*If you forced yourself on a man, he may never respect you. If he got you cheaply, he will never respect you. If you are not adding value to his life, he will never respect you.*
Even after marriage, Leah was begging and buying the attention of her own husband. Rachael was practically in control of Jacob.
Rachael was a shepherd in the midst of her siblings, *a profession meant for men.* She was in control of her father's business. This was what glued Jacob to her.
*Gen 29:9* *_Jacob was still talking with them when Rachel arrived with her father’s flock, for she was a shepherd._*
How can boys be in the house and a girl (last daughter of the house) be the one to tend her father's flock and family business? *Industriousness!*
After Jacob slept with Leah, he still went for Rachael. *S*x doesn't keep a man, value does.*
Leah had 5 children, Rachael had none, yet Jacob still loved Rachael more than Leah. *Having children is good but adding value is better.*
*Don't ever think you can pin a man down with children. If you like give him a nation, if you are not adding value to his life, he will walk away someday.*
*I'm pleading with parents not to raise their daughters in a way they will be liabilities to men.*
*Make your daughter a shepherd before her Jacob arrives. Give her a source of livelihood before marriage. If you want her husband to respect her, give her quality education and hopeful future. Don't train her merely because of the bride price you want to collect on her head.*
Laban wasted the bride price he took for his daughter. But he lived on the flock kept by his daughter even after she was married out.
This is why many men fall for their ugly hardworking housemaids than their beautiful house wives.
We indirectly train our housemaids to be industrious while we train our daughters to be lazy and dependants. The Future will tell.
*Be a Value-Added-Woman and your man will respect you.*
While single ladies should stop advertising themselves online and get industrious, get entrepreneurial .

*DIVINE MESSAGE*