Baptist College of Theology Jos.

HAPPY INDEPENDENT CELEBRATION

THINGS YOU MUST NOT DO AS A PASTOR'S WIFE
- Being a pastor's wife is not easy, you don't just marry pastor because you want to be addressed as mummy, first lady, or spiritual mother.
Marrying a pastor is a calling with brutal responsibilities. All eyes are on you, people want you to fail, some want to take your place, even when you are right they will condemn you.
You are always afraid of losing your husband to the church especially NOWADAYS that ladies are fighting to be pastor's favorites.
To avoid all these, mummy follow my advice below!
1. DON'T BORROW MONEY FROM YOUR CHURCH MEMBERS.
2. DON'T GOSSIP YOUR MEMBERS OR WITH YOUR MEMBERS.
3. DON'T DISCUSS YOUR HUSBAND'S SECRETS WITH MEMBERS.
4. DON'T BE EXTRAVAGANT IN SPENDING.
5. DON'T BE JEALOUS WHEN LADIES COMES AROUND YOUR HUSBAND.
6. DON'T BE A DIRTY MOTHER IN THE LORD.
7. DON'T COMMAND RESPECT, BECAUSE IT'S EARNED.
8. DON'T ATTACK OR RAISE YOUR VOICE AT YOUR HUSBAND PUBLICLY.
9. DON'T SPEND CHURCH MONEY WITHOUT ASKING QUESTIONS.
10. DON'T QUARREL OR FIGHT WITH CHURCH MEMBERS.
11. DON'T HAVE FAVORITES IN YOUR CHURCH, EVEN IF YOU DO, PLEASE DON'T SHOW IT.
12. DON'T ALLOW TRIBALISM AROUND YOU, BECAUSE IT WILL KILL YOUR HUSBAND'S MINISTRY.
13. DON'T LET LADIES DO YOUR DOMESTIC JOB, EXCEPT YOU ARE TIRED OF MARRIAGE.
14. DON'T BE TOO CLOSE TO BROTHERS IN YOUR CHURCH, ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN MUMMY.
15. YOUR HUSBAND'S FRIENDS SHOULD NOT BE YOUR CLOSE FRIENDS, BECAUSE THEY MAY USE YOU AGAINST YOUR HUSBAND.
16. PRAY FOR YOUR HUSBAND MORE THAN YOU GOSSIP HIM.
17. LOOK FOR SOMETHING TO DO MUMMY, BECAUSE TITHE AND OFFERING IS NOT FOR SHAWARMA AND ICE CREAM.
18. DEFEND YOUR HUSBAND NO MATTER THE SCANDAL, MISTAKES AND WEAKNESS BUT REBUKE HIM AT HOME.
19. PACKAGE YOUR HUSBAND, OR DO YOU LIKE THE WAY YOUR HUSBAND DRESSES LIKE AREA BOYS? HELP HIM TO LOOK LIKE A SPIRITUAL LEADER AND NOT A YAHOO BOY.
20. DEVELOP YOURSELF, A PASTOR'S WIFE MUST LEARN HOW TO LEAD PRAYER, PREACH/TEACH, SEE SMALL VISIONS, LEAD SERVICE, BLESS THE OFFERING A

PLEASE READ AND BE inspire.

My salary came yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid.

Oga thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him.

It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it.

That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much, he struggles to pay without asking me.

He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions.

I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility, he married an helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single.

I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband.

Omo, oga went to the market without even telling me, stocked up the home.

Cooked and served me o, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about.

I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not supermarket. Men needs our support too

Written by a virtuous woman!

KEEP YOUR HUSBAND . EVERY WOMAN SHOULD READ THESE 30 RULES FOR GODLY WOMEN
26 June
1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1)
2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other's keeper.(Eph 5v12)
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.(Prov 15v13)
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22)
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.(Gen 2v24)
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.(Eph 5v33)
Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.(Deut 3v28)
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband s*x. You must give it to him how he wants it. S*x is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over your duty. No man can withstand s*x starvation for too long(even the anointed ones)
11). Never compare your husband to your one time s*x mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.(Prov 31v23)
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.(Eph 4v31)
14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.(Provides 1

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