Marital Tutor

01/10/2025

Don't let pity tie you to a destiny that isn't yours.
Marry right

27/09/2025

The question is: How ready are you? How prepared are you for Marriage?

There are three stages of marriage one should get acquainted with before venturing into the system...and that's thus:-
I) Before the Alter
II) At the Alter, and
III) After the Alter.

So when you say that you're ready, how have you prepared yourself for these stages?
Each of these stages comes with its own Thorns, and Roses though, meanwhile how ready are you? Anyway, one can't run away from war because of killing, otherwise you won't win it. But do ask yourself cogent questions, and ensure you answer them accurately. Follow Marital Tutor for more!

27/09/2025

Well I understand how it pains losing someone you once put all your mind on. Someone you've gone miles with, and beat all odds just to prove how much you love them. Someone on whose behalf you have gone through some uncontrollable limerence all in the name of love. It really pains!

But then, there's this point I would like to make: I mean, it is pointless confronting someone because you caught them probably cheating, with the person you love, whom you are just friends or courting with.

And It is not even necessary, wasting your precious time; confronting the ingrate who doesn't know your value. Yes, of course, I know how it feels, but do you think you can change anything at this juncture? You barely can't! When the person cheats in courtship, tell me the possibility that your marriage is safe? It's hard if not impossible.

However, the truth is that the person doesn't deserve you. You just have to trash such an unfaithful ingrate, and look for a way forward to get healed. Trust me, sometime in the future, the person must regret losing an Angel like you.

And instead of engaging any of the cheating partners on fracas, hold your peace and move on! The truth is, Cheating is an Addiction. Yes, it is! Or better still, what one does must surely come back to him/her.

Note: PLEASE this post/comment is exemption of married couples.
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07/06/2025

Marriage Will Stretch You.

©️ Examined by Ugo Ubili.

Who you marry is the biggest and most consequential decision in your life because marriage will stretch You. For the most part, it is capable of shaping and reshaping destiny. Since the exchange of blood is involved,it is capable of solidifying or destroying your present generation or generations to come.

Marriage is one of the most rewarding yet challenging journeys in life. While we often enter it with high expectations, the reality is that marriage is a lifelong learning process. It'll stretch you.

Many people enter a marriage thinking that their spouse will be their "everything" — their best friend, emotional support system, cheerleader, and problem-solver. While it’s natural to lean on each other for support, expecting one person to fulfill your every need is unrealistic.

Love alone isn't enough to hold a marriage together. Many couples believe that as long as they love each other, everything else will fall into place. But love doesn’t automatically solve differences in communication styles, personal values, or long-term goals.

What truly sustains a marriage is commitment, effort, and the willingness to adapt. Love can help keep the spark going, but it's the daily choices that really make a difference.

One of the biggest misconceptions about marriage is that truly compatible people don't argue. But not only is conflict inevitable, it’s also essential. In fact, the absence of conflict likely means that important issues are being swept under the rug. And it's not the fighting that damages relationships — it's how couples choose to handle their disagreements. Healthy conflict can bring partners closer by opening the door to deep, meaningful conversations about wants and needs, which can then lead to problem-solving.

Without constant maintenance, your marriage will crumble. Many couples underestimate how much work it takes to have a healthy marriage. The honeymoon phase may feel effortless, but over time, life’s responsibilities — work, kids, finances, health — often puts the relationship lower on the priority list. You are both going to change individually.You can’t expect the person you marry at 25 to be the exact same person at 45. People evolve, and priorities shift and life circumstances change. By embracing change instead of resisting it, you’ll come to realize the beauty and privilege in being able to witness this evolution.

The most successful couples are the ones who adapt and grow together because marriage is a place two people can look at the exact same thing
and see something totally different. We should know that just because two people argue doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue doesn’t mean they do. A great relationship is about two things: first, appreciating the similarities, and second, respecting the differences.

23/05/2025

When souls connect, even distance becomes powerless.

23/05/2025

TO THAT UNKNOWN WOMAN
From the new knowledge of Creation available everywhere on earth, it gladdens one to realize that in the natural order of things there's a woman somewhere standing back to back with me in this wonderful Creation. Who she is, where she comes from I may not know. Whether she is tall, short, black or white, I may not know. She too may not know me. It's possible we've, never met or seen each other before. Friendship, acquintance or marriage isn't necessary in this matter. What matters is the willingness of man to absorb spiritual radiations from her. In the course of sojourning on earth in search of spiritual awareness, Nature demands that man faces outwards while woman faces upwards. Naturally, a woman has delicate intuitive perception. This enables her to draw spiritual radiations from On High and uses same to support any man whose spirit is open to receive. I therefore salute the unknown woman standing back to back with me in this great Creation. Her unflinching support, loyalty and dedication to duty are highly commendable. Though we may not have set eyes on each other, it's reassuring to know she's always there, joyfully fulfilling the roles Nature assigned to her. One can liken her to a loving mother who forever cares, protects, understands and inspires her children. She supports me tirelessly with spiritual radiations needed to make my sojourn on earth a success. Recall, an adage that says "Behind every successful man, there's always a woman". Success here has nothing to do with senseless acquisition of material things but a successful return to Paradise as a developed human spirit after many years of sojourning on earth. Making female folk a special breed in Creation is part of the unlimited Love of GOD. Woman is created in such a way that her spirit is not only highly sensitive and receptive to spiritual radiations but is capable of absorbing same and passing it down to any man whose spirit is open to receive. That is for the benefit of men whose spirits have not been blinded, deafened and deadened by ignorance and mad pursuit for material things. The radiations from women are not only meant to support and strengthen the volitions of men striving for all that's pure and noble on earth but are largely meant to contribute in beautifying the earth. Women are indeed delicate creatures. Any woman still standing in the place Nature assigned to her is like a bridge between GOD and man. This is in contrast to the one who forsakes her place in Creation and chooses to stand side by side with man. Such a woman is like a broken bridge. In such a case a vital link is missing. For everything in Creation is like a chain. One thing is linked with the other. Where there's a missing link, disharmony occurs. The new knowledge of Creation reveals that women play vital roles in determining the nature of human spirits they attract to their homes or families as children. So any man worth his salt, must do all in his power to protect and guide womanhood especially those who have not abandoned their place in Creation. Women are not merely meant to bear children and satisfy the sexual desires of men as many wrongly believe. I therefore say more grease to the elbows of that woman standing back to back with me. May her volition for all that's pure and noble grow steadily. Sojourning on earth in search of spiritual development isn't easy. It's full of diversions, deceits and temptations. On the day of reckoning, may I have cause to go down on my knees and thank the MOST HIGH GOD for helping me to pass through the raging storms of this world successfully. And may the resultant peace and happiness flow back to the originator, that noble woman who stood back to back with me while sojourning on earth. Amen. THE END.
Justin Nwokoro

14/04/2025

MARRIAGE IS NOT BEAUTIFUL.

Marriage is ugly. you see the absolute worst in someone.
You see them when they're mad, sad, being stubborn. And when they're so unlovable, they make you scream.

But you also get to see them when they're laughing that tears run down their face, and they can't help but let out those weird gurgling noises.

You see them at 3:am when the whole world is asleep except you two, and you're eating in the middle of the kitchen floor.🥰

you get to see the side of them that no one else does, and it's not always pretty.
It's snorting while laughing; It's the tears when it feels like it's all crashing down; It's the farting; it's the bedhead and bad breathe/snoring; it's the random dances; it's the anger and the Joy.

MARRIAGE ISN'T A BEAUTIFUL THING, BUT IT IS AMAZING.

It's knowing that someone loves you so much, and won't leave you even though you said something nasty.
It's having someone have your back no matter what.
It's fights over stupid things, like; someone not doing the dishes, and picking up after themselves.
And it's those nights you fall asleep in each other's arms, feeling like there will never be enough time with them.
It is cleaning up their vomits, or just rubbing their back when they are sick... perhaps the dirtiest, hardest, most rewarding job therein.

Because, at the end of the day, you are going to crawl into bed with your best friend; the weirdest, most annoying, loving goofy perfect person that you know.

MARRIAGE IS NOT BEAUTIFUL, BUT IT'S ONE HECK OF A RIDE.

07/11/2024

(Perhaps a radical teaching, but however, true)
Never Let Someone Waste Your Time Twice. (Get Pregnant For Him,/ Or Get Her Same) Better Still, Don't Give A Second Chance, Time Is Not Replaceable.

13/06/2024

"MARRIAGE is like a shoe. When you wear oversize, be ready to drag it along through out life, and when you wear under-size be ready to feel the pains through out life".

One thing about marriage is that you don't drop your shoe or remove it at any point, no matter how painful or how stressful it is. That is why I thought it necessary to write you this letter.

Dear Singles, When you are ready to buy your own shoe please take note of these three things:

PHYSICAL APPEARANCE : Do not look for the beautiful ones, the nice ones or the cheap ones. Look for the one that is your size. Not every handsome, wealthy or intelligent guy is for you, not every beautiful woman is for you. Look for the one that is meant for you, the one that aligns with your values and belief, the one who you meet at your life's journey. It is important to know where you're going in life before you think of getting a wife.

POSITION : All sizes of shoes are not placed in the same place. There is a place for court shoes, laced up shoes, sport footwear, snickers etc. We have Children sizes, young people's sizes and the adult sizes. Know where to get your own shoe. Your size cannot be everywhere my brother, your type cannot be everywhere my sister. You cannot be a Christian, and be looking for a wife material at a club. Your wife or husband can't just be everywhere. Stick to your values and therein you shall find someone like you, but when your values are not defined anyone can just match you. Discover yourself and define your values.

PERCEPTION : In this kind of shoe purchasing enterprise, you are not permitted to try the shoe before you buy. This is why it is important to seek guidance and counseling, from people who have bought shoes before or are into the business of directing people to the right shoes (Pastors and Relationship coaches). And most importantly to avoid much time wasting time, simply consult the SHOE MANUFACTURER to tell you your size (GOD ALMIGHTY ).

"You do not prepare for wedding, you prepare for marriage." Ladies these days get so motivated when they attend wedding and they will quickly want to say yes to that guy.

Wait!!! It is not just the wedding oh. The wedding is just one day. After the wedding WHAT NEXT?

Finally, it is not something you rush to the market and just pick a shoe because you like or can purchase it. Ask questions -Where is this shoe made from? (Background) -What's the size (Values) -How much (His/Her interest) -How long will it last (His/Her Character) -Who made it? (Is she/He of the same faith This is compatibility) -Will it match me? (This is whether he/she love you and will accept you the way you are)

Dear one, remember many are dragging their foot and they would hardly reach their destinies, many are feeling endless pains and wish they could pull off the shoes but no way!!! I have seen people with beautiful shoes and when they show you their foot, you will see scars.

Beloved, it is not about the physical, it is the size, you can't know the sizel from afar so come close, build a relationship first but remember 'you are not permitted to try it before you buy it'.

And for those who have purchased the wrong shoes, you can still make it your size again if you'd consult the manufacturer and let have His way in your marriage. God bless us all.

By Unknown Author, copied from whatsapp

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25/05/2024

Parents listen

15/04/2024

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