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17/04/2022

While men always and will always like bad girls, the good girl is the one they fall in love with.

11/04/2022

*Tips to Kick Bad Habits in Ramadan*

Few things are more demanding than eliminating bad habits, since they are part of our daily routines and personality. It takes days of patience and practice to break old habits.
However, the good news is, Ramadan offers a perfect and natural environment for moral training. Interestingly, researches from “positive psychology” (scientific study of successful people) have repeatedly shown it takes 30 days to kick a bad habit and develop a new one.
In addition to the physical discipline in the 30-day boot camp of Ramadan, the increased spiritual exercise and connection with Allah Ta'ala, can transform your habits for life.

Try these proven techniques for a successful positive change in your habits (during Ramadan and beyond!):

*1️⃣ Acknowledge and identify your bad habits:* First step is to admit you need to change. If you are in a state of denial, you won’t recognize that you have a bad habit to change.

*2️⃣ Pick a habit for 30 days:* Prioritize your bad habits and focus on one for 30 days. Take a 30-day trial to re-condition your habits. If you are committed to changing at least one habit every month, you will see remarkable results, Insha’Allah.

*3️⃣ Strategize* : Look at all the things that might prevent you from breaking your habit and try and find a way around them, for example if you want to get up for Fajr, then look at the things that will prevent you from waking up, eg,
-switching off your alarm clock and going back to sleep , for that you can put your clock away from you so that you will have to get out of bed to turn it off

*4️⃣ Remember, Allah loves those who commit mistakes and repent* : Prophet Muhammad(Peace Be Uopn Him) said:
“ *By Him in Whose Hand is my life, if you were not to commit sin, Allah would sweep you out of existence and He would replace (you by) those people who would commit sin and seek forgiveness from Allah, and He would have pardoned them.”* (Muslim 2749)

11/04/2022

For whoever might misread this, this is it's meaning;

In Islaam, there are many things Muslims are prohibited to do. Like eating riba (usury, interest of all kinds), eating dog and pork, gambling, investing in a business with a startic ROI (which Islaam describes as a form of riba as well) and many other limitations.
Selling of dogs or cats and alcohol is prohibited too. Working in any institution that makes their earning from these, even if one isn't directly involved, like writing for a p**n company, or a riba company and helping them to broadcast or create contents is prohibited in Islaam.

Non Muslims do these and make it big and these things are big industries in today's world. Their religion didn't limit them. Or at least, Muslims take more caution on religious issues.

But Muslims have limitations on what to eat or do business with or even make money from.

A lady was announced yesterday to quit her 300,000 (three hundred thousand naira)/monthly job, because the company decided to diversify into gambling. She quitted without alternative on ground. She's my Facebook friend.

A brother here in Ilorin here, whom I know very well, got a job to create content for a “marketing” company to be paid 3,000 USD monthly. That's almost 1.7 million NGN (naira).
He later found out the company is a p**n industry.
He didn't proceed to start even. A non-Muslim will find no issue in these, since he's not directly the one involved.

This is where our limitations is and this is what ALLAAH is telling not to allow get into our heads and that we shouldn't allow it deceive us. It is just a little enjoyment.

I hope this message is understood.
May ALLAAH ease our affairs.

30/03/2022

21/03/2022

11 Reasons You Should Never Marry!!!

1. Never Marry Because You Feel All Your Mates Are Getting Married. Marriage Is Not A Competition. Sometimes Those You Feel Are Your Age Mates Are Even Older Than You. Nevertheless, How Prepared Are You Is What Matters Not Age!

2. Never Marry Because Your Supposed Spouse Is Rich. What Happens When They Go Bankrupt? What Happens When The Supposed Rich Spouse Is A Tormentor Instead Of A Companion? Money/Luxury💸💰Can Not Be Compared To A Couple Who Loves, Agrees And Compliments Each Other.

3. Never Marry Because You Just Like The Idea Of Marriage! Many Have Entered And Wished They Were Single Again.

4. Never Marry A Man Or Woman Out Of Pity. What If What You Pitied Him/Her For Was A Pretence? Infact You Pretended To Love. True Love Did Help/Strengthen Out The Weakness Of The One Loved.

5. Never Marry Just For The Purpose Of Proving To Your Ex You Have Moved On And Found Someone Better. When You Marry An Incompatible And Or An Unbelieving Partner, Your Ex Did Be Chilling With The Big Boys While You Be Running Kitikiti Katakata In Your Matrimonial Home 🏠🏡.

6. Never Marry If All You Envisage Is A Marriage Filled With Lots Of Kisses 😘😘, Bed Of Roses 🌹🌹, Breakfast 🍳🍳 In Bed, And All The Romantic Stuffs. My Brother, My Sister, Marriage Is Filled With Seasons Which Only The Holy Spirit Will Guide, Teach, Help And Empower You To Stand Strong Against All Odds.

7. Never Marry Because Out Of The Blues Someone Is Saying Will You Marry Me After A Long Break On The Flocking Of Admirers. My Dear, Marriage Will Shock You If You Decide, "Any One That Comes I Will Just Accept I Don't Care Anymore"

8. Never Marry Because Of How Sweet The Sister Sings And How Strong The Brother Speaks In Tongues. My Bethren, The Real Man Is On The Inside Not The Parade Displayed.

9. Never Marry Out Of Pressure! Pressure From Parents, Pressure From Friends, Pressure From The Supposed Spouse When You Have Not Gotten A Go Ahead From Deep Within.

04/03/2022

It's really been a while