Adesoji David Aderibigbe

Adesoji David Aderibigbe

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I am Adesoji David Aderibigbe, A lecturer, Librarian (Catalogue and Classification, indexer) and Counsellor (Marriage). Call me for any of these services

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23/07/2025

Joshua 10:6-12
[6]And the men of Gibeon sent to Joshua at the camp at Gilgal, saying, “Do not forsake your servants; come up to us quickly, save us and help us, for all the kings of the Amorites who dwell in the mountains have gathered together against us.”
[7]So Joshua ascended from Gilgal, he and all the people of war with him, and all the mighty men of valor.
[8]And the Lord said to Joshua, “Do not fear them, for I have delivered them into your hand; not a man of them shall stand before you.”
[9]Joshua therefore came upon them suddenly, having marched all night from Gilgal.
[10]So the Lord routed them before Israel, killed them with a great slaughter at Gibeon, chased them along the road that goes to Beth Horon, and struck them down as far as Azekah and Makkedah.
[11]And it happened, as they fled before Israel and were on the descent of Beth Horon, that the Lord cast down large hailstones from heaven on them as far as Azekah, and they died. There were more who died from the hailstones than the children of Israel killed with the sword.
[12]Then Joshua spoke to the Lord in the day when the Lord delivered up the Amorites before the children of Israel, and he said in the sight of Israel: “Sun, stand still over Gibeon; And Moon, in the Valley of Aijalon.”

The meaning of Joshua is Jehovah Saves.
Jesus means saviour.

Jesus my great alley, I cry to you for help. Arise for my deliverance. Arise and save me by you mercy

Photos from Adesoji David Aderibigbe's post 03/07/2025

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Value What You Have
I asked my husband to give me some money to make my hair but he told me he didn't have much on him, so he gave me just #2,500. I was so ángry with him. We have been married for a year and each time I asked him for money, he would always give me an amount that would not be sufficient for what I needed it for.

I had not gotten a job since I relocated to his place after the wedding, so I wasn't financially buoyant. I only lived on the stipends my husband gave me monthly which wasn't even enough to cater for my personal needs. As at that time, I was already six months pregnant.

"What will I do with #2,500? I told you I want to braid my hair. The attachment alone is 6k. My hairdresser will collect at least 4,500 to make the hair. What will I do with this money?" I asked angrily.

"Babe, you should understand how much I'm struggling to take care of expenses in this house. The money I spent on our wedding ceremony has really affected me because I exhausted all my savings. The fact that I'm still able to put down money in this house is because of the soft loan I get from work every month. I've told you about this before. Please, bear with me. It's just a season in time. We will soon get over it." My husband pleaded.

"Bear with me! Bear with me! This is what you say all the time! What kind of hair will I make with 2,500?" I hissed angrily and walked out of the house.

It was a sunny Saturday afternoon. I went straight to my hairdresser's shop but unfortunately, she was not around. Her shop was locked. I was disappointed.

"Where on earth did this one go to on a weekend like this?" I wondered.

I didn't want to go back home without making my hair, so I decided to try the other hairdresser who was on the third street to my house. I have never made my hair there but I once heard my neighbour mention that she was good at making nice styles... I just wanted to avoid going back home to my husband because I was still very ångry with him.

I got to the salon and thankfully, only one customer was on seat. She was almost done making her hair. I greeted the hairdresser and she offered me a seat.

"Mama Ibeji (a name pregnant women are usually called), will you like to have some water? The sun is hot." The hairdresser offered.

"No... I'm fine, thank you." I declined politely.

The lady making her hair came with a friend. They both continued gisting as the hairdresser continued with the lady's hair.

Few minutes later, I heard the lady who came with her friend say,

"Hey, Salome, see the guy I've been talking about. He's the one driving that car."

The lady making her hair quickly turned her neck to peep through the door and I followed her gaze to see the person being talked about. I was surprised to see my husband, driving slowly past the shop. He slowed down the vehicle as he approached the bump that was across the road.

"That is the guy..." The lady continued. "There is nothing I have not done to attract his attention but he would not even give me a second of his time. Every evening, he visits his friend's shop and they would gist till he would later go home. Since the day I met him there, I've been coming to that man's shop every evening just to make friends with this guy but he never gave me the attention I desire. He would just greet me and carry his face. His friend told me he's married and I'm like, so what? Does that mean he shouldn't make friends with other ladies? Sincerely, I envy his wife. His attitude made me believe that there are still married men who are still faithful to their wives." The lady concluded.

I was shocked... Shocked was an understatement. The guy being talked about was my husband. My lawfully wedded husband! I blinked my eyes severally... I continued to listen to their conversation. The other lady making her hair replied,

"I think his wife gives him peace of mind at home. That is one thing that could make the man so focused on his wife... I mean, what other reason would have made him ignore a beautiful lady like you?"

"I agree with you." The hairdresser spoke for the first time since the conversation started.

None of these ladies knew that the man who just drove past was my husband. I couldn't speak. I watched them argue about whether his wife gives him good s3x, good food or peace of mind at home... They were arguing about me and they didn't know!

I questioned myself if truly I gave my husband any of these three things and if I would be sincere with myself, I wouldn't score up to 50% in each because I knew I could nag! If there's an award for nagging, I should get one. I don't make nice delicacies for my husband either and talking about our s3xual life, it has been epileptic since I got pregnant.

"There are still faithful men, sincerely." The hairdresser's voice cut into my thoughts.

"I wish that guy is mine!" The other lady who wasn't making her hair exhaled.

"God forbid!" I said spontaneously.

They all turned their eyes to my direction.

"What's that?" The lady asked.

"Oh no... I just got a message from someone. I didn't know I was so loud." I l¡ed.

I was sweating where I sat. Before I got to the hairdresser's shop, my husband had called me twice but I refused to pick up because I was still ångry. I picked my phone instantly and dialled his number,

"Babe, I did not see you at your usual salon. Where are you making your hair? I've been calling you, but you didn't pick up." My husband asked as soon as he picked my call.

I gave him the description of the salon where I was.

"Okay. I'm coming there right away." He replied.

In less than three minutes, my husband arrived. He parked his car and entered the salon. The lady who was crushing on my husband was excited to see him.

"The guy is coming here!" She whispered excitedly.

I watched as she set her seductive eyes on my husband. As he opened the transparent glass door, I walked up to him and he gave me a hug. The ladies were shocked, likewise the hairdresser. They could not look at me in the eye. The fumbled with their phones as my husband planted a kiss on my forehead.

There was a perfect silence as my husband and I chatted on.

Soon, the lady got through with her hair and they left the salon shamefully... My husband was the only one that didn't know what was happening.

"Madam, which hairstyle are you making?" The hairdresser asked me, trying to use a fake smile to cover up what just happened.

"I'm okay with a simple cornrows style, please." I replied.

In less than an hour, I was done. I paid the hairdresser and I asked my husband to take me to the neighbourhood market. I added some money to the balance from the money my husband gave me for the hair and I got some pepper soup ingredients with goat meat.

We went back home and I made a nice delicacy for my husband who was surprised at my sudden change of action. He had earlier come to the salon to keep my company and appease my ånger. He was marvelled to see me loving up on him and making him some pepper soup.

In the night, I gave him the best bedroom treat he hadn't accessed from me in a long time. He was so happy that he bought me a fashionable bag and a pair of shoes the following day.

"Where did you get the money to buy these?" I asked him happily.

"I don't mind taking more soft loans at work to make you happy. Last night was a memorable one!" He smiled brightly as I tried the shoes on.

Since that day, I never took my husband for granted again. I stopped nagging around the house and I was contented with whatever amount he gave me to cook or do other things.

I don learn my lesson, biko. The husband I felt was not doing enough was another person's prayer point. 😦😮

He is the perfect man I ever wanted from God. He is my imperfect perfection. 🥰🥰

I hope you learnt something from my story. Value what you have, some don't have it.

14/01/2025

Luke 21:34-36 NKJV
[34] “But take heed to yourselves, lest your hearts be weighed down with carousing, drunkenness, and cares of this life, and that Day come on you unexpectedly. [35] For it will come as a snare on all those who dwell on the face of the whole earth. [36] Watch therefore, and pray always that you may be counted worthy to escape all these things that will come to pass, and to stand before the Son of Man.”

Hallelujah. Amen.




25/12/2024

*This Christmas season, we celebrate you specially for all you do for us.*
We are truly grateful for your constant love, care, prayers, support, and patronage. Your continued presence brings warmth and joy to our hearts. May the joy of this season fill you with peace, happiness, and countless blessings. Thank you for being a cherished part of our journey!

From all of us at the *SOREM-ADERIBIGBE Family*,
We wish you a *Merry Christmas and a Prosperous New Year in Advance*.

14/03/2024

Happy birthday to to my son Nehemiah and my Treasure Oluwaremilekun ADERIBIGBE

Photos from Adesoji David Aderibigbe's post 07/10/2023

Day 1



Studio image of a beautiful black lady selling pepper on the street

Photos from Adesoji David Aderibigbe's post 07/10/2023

Day 1


Studio image of a beautiful black lady selling pepper on the street

26/09/2023

The Veil Torn: Understanding the Symbolism and Spiritual Implications of Christ's Sacrifice
Dear brothers and sisters in Christ
Today, we embark on a journey through the pages of Leviticus 16:1-6, and as we explore this passage, we'll discover profound insights into the amazing grace we have through our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. In doing so, we'll also examine Hebrews 10:19-20 and Hebrews 4:16 to unveil the glorious significance of Christ's sacrifice for our lives.
Leviticus 16:1-6 (ESV) reads:
“1 The Lord spoke to Moses after the death of the two sons of Aaron, when they drew near before the Lord and died, 2 and the Lord said to Moses, 'Tell Aaron your brother not to come at any time into the Holy Place inside the veil, before the mercy seat that is on the ark, so that he may not die. For I will appear in the cloud over the mercy seat. 3 But in this way Aaron shall come into the Holy Place: with a bull from the herd for a sin offering and a ram for a burnt offering. 4 He shall put on the holy linen coat and shall have the linen undergarment on his body, and he shall tie the linen sash around his waist, and wear the linen turban; these are the holy garments. He shall bathe his body in water and then put them on. 5 And he shall take from the congregation of the people of Israel two male goats for a sin offering, and one ram for a burnt offering.'"
In these verses, we witness the solemn rituals of the Day of Atonement. Aaron, the High Priest, had to meticulously follow God's instructions to approach the Holy Place. This was a reminder of the separation between a holy God and a sinful people.
Hebrews 10:19-20 (ESV) says "19 Therefore, brothers, since we have the confidence to enter the holy places by the blood of Jesus, 20 by the new and living way that he opened for us through the curtain, that is, through his flesh..."
This passage showcases the glorious transformation that Christ has brought into our lives. Just as the High Priest entered the Holy Place with the blood of bulls and goats, we now have the confidence to enter the very presence of God through the blood of Jesus Christ. Not yearly like Aron who was restricted not to come in into the Holy of Holy regularly, but for us we have daily access to the throne of grace through Jesus Christ. He is the new and living way, and His sacrifice tore the veil that separated us from God. Through His flesh, we have direct access to God, forgiven and accepted.
Hebrews 4:16 (ESV) says "Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need." This verse encourages us to boldly approach God, knowing that we will receive mercy and grace in our times of need. It's a privilege we have because of Christ's sacrifice.
Now, why is this so significant? It's because of the incomprehensible love and grace God has poured out upon us through Jesus. He willingly became the ultimate sacrifice, shedding His blood to cleanse us from all unrighteousness, making it possible for us to draw near to God. We can now boldly say we have peace with our maker through Jesus who reconciles all human back to God.
Beloved brethren, the reason to give your life to Jesus is crystal clear. He is the bridge between sinful humanity and a holy God. His sacrifice provides access to the throne of grace, where we find forgiveness, mercy, and help in our time of need. Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life (John 14:6), and through Him, we have eternal life and an unbreakable bond with our Heavenly Father. Embrace this wonderful gift of grace and experience the transformation that comes with surrendering your life to Jesus. He is the way to true and everlasting peace, love, and joy. Amen.
God bless you all.

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