Family issue

*Stop Making Excuses, Take Charge Of Your Responsibilities As A Man*

Greetings, hope you are doing fine at this moment?

What are your responsibilities as a MAN? Think about it. When a man marries a woman, there are some certain responsibilities that she and the society expect him to deliver.

For instance, they expect him to:

* Satisfy Her S*xually
* Take Care of Her Needs and Protect Her. Etc

Now, either you like it or not, those two responsibilities above are not the same.

I am writing this post after reading the story of a woman who divorced her husband because he was not satisfying her s*xually.

Of course, the man was providing for all her needs but he was unable to meet her primal, natural and her inborn needs which is *Good S*x Of Course!*

In reality, not every woman will divorce their husbands because they cannot satisfy them s*xually. Some will keep quiet and suffer the pains throughout their entire lives.

Habaaa, this is just unfair! There is never a problem without a solution, if we can just put aside our pride and dig for them.

Stop making excuses, I'm tired, I'm sleepy, I have a headache, I have to get up early tomorrow, I have to work the next day, I don't feel well, I have body aches, I am too stressed etc, just because you are not a good s*xual performer.

Good s*xual performance is exceedingly important to man as it touches on his ego and natural instincts to procreate. The ability to satisfy your lover, the ability to impregnate her, are part and parcel of masculinity.

A man who feels he is a poor s*xual performer will probably suffer from low self-esteem. Good s*xual performance is a show of sound s*xual instincts which can validate and boost man ego

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Talk to you soon,
Stay Enlightened Always!!!
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*Rasaq Akindele *
Menshealth Educator.

GUYS are all over the place complaining that there is no good woman out there for marriage. Ladies are there asking for God to give them husbands and doing everything within their power to have a husband. Prayer contractors are smiling to the bank as they keep taking advantage of their vulnerability. Prophets now collect money from sisters to get them hooked to brothers through prophecy. Many have even gone the way of rituals, going to bath in the river, going naked before pastor/prophet/Imam just because they are made to believe that there is one spiritual husband somewhere and the spiritualist has to engage in s*x with her to drive the evil spirit away. Atrocities going on… all in the name of God.There is more to marriage than what we see and what we are made to believe it is. If you don’t understand this word marriage, being married will make your life more complicated and that is when you see yourself wishing you were single; that is when you see yourself still thinking of all your ex boyfriends or girlfriends; that is when you turn angry each time you set your eyes on your spouse. You cannot tell me you are ready for marriage just because you are thirty-five; you can’t be ready for marriage just because your friends and age mates are all married and you are tired of being a bridesmaid and wearing ‘aso ebi’ (colour or material specially selected for the bride or groom); you cannot decide to get married just because your mother wants you to get married and she is in need of grandchildren. Marriage is serious business and only those who are prepared for it go through it happily.It’s not about the celebration; not about the Vera Wang wedding dress; it’s never about the number of guests present; not about the number of bishops present at the wedding; it will never be about the different colours of ‘asoebi’; it’s never about your honeymoon destination, it’s about the two individuals coming together in marriage and how determined they are to make it work.

a marriage starts with courtship, agreement to get married, planning and the marriage ceremony. Thereafter, the couple comes together and continue work on their marriage. If not it deteriorates and may collapse.

What on earth will make a lady go down so low to beg a man to marry her? What on earth will make you push a man into sympathy marriage? You are in a dating relationship with him, the man never said he’s going to marry you it’s just what it is-a dating relationship which must not lead to marriage he’s set to move on because he has found what he wants and all you can do is cry and beg him not to leave you? I know it hurts to see a relationship go, but I still can’t imagine a woman begging a man not to go Men beg women for marriage, not the other way round. I know you call it civilization but I hold on strongly to that religious saying that the man finds a woman. I see it more as women losing their pride of womanhood. Begging a man to marry you; luring him into that sympathy marriage is the beginning of your misery in life. If you do the begging, get ready to keep doing the begging if you want to keep him I got a message from a lady who was in serious pain. She foolishly dated this guy for eight years (eight years free s*x, nothing given to mama). When the guy was ready for marriage, he made it clear to her that she was not what he wanted. She cried and threatened to take her life Instead of him being guilty of murder, the guy agreed to marry her. They wedded in December and by February, I got this call. The guy wakes up every morning to remind her that he never wanted her. He tells her how miserable he feels having her as a wife. He stopped eating her food. Ladies, this is what you are going to be faced with when you force a man to marry you. You can use that pregnancy to tie him down; you can threaten him with your father’s wealth; you can promise to take his job away if he leaves you, he knows where his heart belongs.

It is only normal for every woman to want the heat to remain the way it first started, but that could be hard sometimes. getting a guy interested and keeping him interested is not the same thing. Many women tend to make mistakes that only drive the men away Guys love mystery, and so you always want to be mysterious. Do not let this new guy learn everything about you, ever! Whenever he feels he knows all about you, show him a different part of you, which he was completely unaware of.This will always keep him interested and he will look forward to discovering more about you. In fact, little mysteries maintain sparks in all relationships, new or old.There is something about you that caught this guy’s attention in the first place. Maybe it is your independence, the way you spend time with your family, demonstrate allegiance to your job, and so on.If you start changing yourself and try only spending time with him, while avoiding all other things, this will not attract him further. Instead, you will make him loose interest

You’re always told what a “perfect” relationship looks like, but the reality is that relationships come in all different shapes and sizes. You can’t freak out when one little thing goes wrong, because a few mistakes shouldn’t cause you to break up. If you’re right for each other, then you can make it through anything. So don’t stress about the little things that go wrong

Many ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure. Many ladies of nowadays dislike cooking and doing home chores This is mainly just because they have been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family.Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a man to desire to marry her when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than a helper for himself?How do we explain a single lady whose only desire in life is to acquire the latest clothes in town, the latest mobile phones and ipads to the detriment of her woman worth? How do you expect a man from a responsible family background, and who is in his right senses, to propose marriage to a lady whose utmost desire and concern in life is to acquire costly electronic gadgets, clothes, jewellery, perfume majority of men would like to date such a trendy lady for fun and show-off, but would not want to propose marriage, even if she is earning the money herself, because her expensive lifestyle already is a big turn off to most responsible, serious-minded single men Only men that are out to catch fun will be closely attracted to her, and her chances of getting a marriage proposal from them is as slim as a camel passing through the eye of a needle.

money is at the root of many troubled marriages. Our troubled economy has brought trouble to many marriages. Sometimes trouble comes from how the available resources are managed those who have plenty of money have little time for themselves and family, while those who have plenty of time on their hands have little money.it takes plenty of time and efforts to make money and very little time is left for family and other endeavours. Therefore, if you want a husband who will be with you round the clock, go and marry a person, who works from 8am to 3pm and is free on weekends But you should be contented with a simple life at least in the early stages of your marriage. But if you want the good things of life—exotic holidays, designer clothes, expensive jewelry,you will spend many cold nights alone because your spouse will have to work very hard and smart to provide these I maintain, scarcely does a young man have plenty of time and legitimate money at the same time. So young ladies need to carefully make their choices and be prepared for the consequences of their choices; you can’t have your cake and eat it. Happy Mothers day

A LOT of people wonder why their relationships start fast and fade quickly. They do not understand why they are not fulfilled and happy with someone or with themselves. They question why their relationships last for a few months or a couple of years and then they have to start over again and again.

divorce is still a “taboo” and a last option for many couples. Some couples stick together even when the marriage has broken down because of the children, family and what people will say. I would rather they found the will and resurrected their marriages rather than cling to a dead horse. Sometimes, marriage is a hot and stuffy kitchen, but you have to hang in there and look after your food (all that you have laboured for) or it will get burnt. Open the windows, install air conditioners; look for ways to reduce the heat (explore ways to make your marriage work). The truth is no marriage will survive in the absence of forgiveness, patience, tolerance, perseverance and sacrifice For Christians, from the beginning the Bible sets the tone on divorce: “a man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife and the two of them become one body” Jesus Christ then added: “what God has joined, man must not put asunder St. Paul amplifies further To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife. Marriage is tricky, so it is difficult to understand fully what goes on in the other person’s abode