30/08/2022
MARRY A WIFE NOT A VIRGIN
In a debate Post where I was part of, I've read about a lot of comments regarding about marriage in Islam posting by bogus thinker of Islam.
Now this is my reply to you guys, pros and cons reader.
I'm not a religious man nor an Ulama but I hope this will give you a little information where I really stand on it.
Some guys think virginity makes a good wife. Virginity is a pride to a woman. After your first copulation, it will exist no more. So don't marry because she is a VIRGIN, marry because she's a WIFE.
A good wife is a crown of the husband. Seek that good wife. Womanhood is a cycle: daughter to wife to mother. Any lady who fails as a daughter is a mistake for a wife. Because a lady is trained as a daughter to become the crown of her husband. Marrying a virgin is a pride but it does not guarantee successful marriage.
Seek the good qualities that make a woman a wife. To those of you guys who are single or married, find a wife, I mean a good wife. Don't ruin your marriage for the want of a virgin.
Virginity does not guarantee a successful marriage. And for the virgins acquire the good Qualities of a wife, don't make that pride you kept so long to the last day become a waste.
Don't misunderstand my post. Am not or condemning or discouraging keeping virginity. In fact they the best provided they are religious and posses other good qualities outlined by Islam
I just want to erase the notion of those that think only virgins are the good wives..
Keeping virginity is one of the best virtue a lady can attain that can even be the chance of her parent gaining admission into Al Jannah ( paradise) as it has been understood from the prophet saying.
"If a father gives his daughters proper upbringing till they get married,, He will enter Al Jannah"
So A Big Why should I condemn women with virginity... They are the best to marry provided they are religious.. Religious matters most
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