19/08/2026
Have you ever had to deal with a girl that you liked, and she has been giving you headache to the point that if you threaten and want to leave her because of her bullish!t, she will put herself in order and start being serious with you, but when you do a re-think and come back, she starts her 'shakara' again?
Okay. Now, let me tell you whatsup!
See... She's manipulating you, big time. She's using you to get validation i.e to have hope that someone likes her and she is desired by a man.
She's toying with your emotions, and the attention you are giving her is swelling and inflating her ego, and she's enjoying it. Not that she really likes or wants you. She's just using you to give herself hope.
That's why when you want to pull away, she will behave herself and pretend as if she is serious. But when you come back, she starts her nonsense.
Remember I said the other day when I was talking about the Beauty vs Attention Card.
That.. The ATTENTION you give to a whoman is her power over you. When you threaten to pull out (your attention), she behaves herself, but when you come back (with your attention), she misbehaves again.
Does that ring a bell? 🔔
Plus... You could also have a fault somewhere around there. You could be displaying some sense of desperation and needing her more than she needs you.
And that also will transfer power to her. Weemen are NOT good with handling power (in relationships especially)... I keep saying this.
So, you can't expect anything less than this from her, when she has seen from all indications that you need her and the relationship more than she does. Such a girl doesn't like or want you. She's just using you to catch cruise.
I know that weemen can be dramatic and stubborn, especially a girl that likes you. But at the same time, she will curtail her stubbornness and behave herself most of the time and put up the drama just once in a while.
And you too... if you are NOT over-pampering, and you show ruthlessness when you need to... She will have no option but to behave herself because she will be scared of losing you, and she will know that if she misbehaves, you will replace her, ASAP.
Do with this information whatever you will. Me I have said my own.. 😂
🏇 Vamos
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