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28/07/2024

Assalamuaikum
Sisters, Whenever your husband is returning home, the moment he enters the house, as a wife, halt whatever you are doing immediately:

-If you are on a call, end it.
-If you are surfing the net, drop the phone.
-If you are on a chat, suspend it.
-If you have visitors, leave them and walk up to your husband.
-Whatever chore you are doing, abandon it, if it can't be abandoned, say something positive.
-If you are in an online live event, suspend it.
-If you are watching TV, abandon it.

For indeed, your husband is your king and if a king enters his palace, it's not befitting that he shouldn't be welcomed, so hurry up to welcome your king, collect his brief case/load, sit him down, switch on the fan/AC for him, clean the sweat on his forehead, collect his car/bike keys from him and place them on the table, remove his shoes and socks, prepare the bathroom for his bath and serve his meal.

Brothers, Whenever your wife is returning home from work or the market too, whatever it is you are doing, suspend it if possible:

-Collect the load from her.
-Give her a warm hug.
-Give her a kiss or a peck.
-Shake hands with her.
-Remove her Hijab or Niqab.

For indeed, the Prophet salallahu alayhi wassalam used to welcome even His daughter Fatima radiAllahu anha by walking up to meet her, kissing her and making her sit in his place.

All these and more will make your wife feel relieved and cherished, it will make her forget the stress she passed through out there.

It's an act of disregard for your husband to return home, and you keep doing whatever you are doing, for you never can tell what he passed throughout there while hustling for the family.

As long as we refuse to implement these 'little' things in our lives, many marriages will not stand the test of time, for its the combination of stones that makes a mountain and droplets of water makes an ocean.

May our homes be rectified. Ameen Ya Hayyu Ya Qayyum

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28/07/2024

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A BIG DISRESPECT TO THE HIJAB 🧕 & Niqob Assalamualaikum warahmohtullahi warahkahtuh brethren A storm of disrespect has g...
24/07/2024

A BIG DISRESPECT TO THE HIJAB 🧕 & Niqob

Assalamualaikum warahmohtullahi warahkahtuh brethren

A storm of disrespect has gathered, seeking to diminish our dignity and faith. But we stand strong, united, and unbroken.

Our hijab and niqab are not costumes, but symbols of our devotion and strength. We will not let ignorance and mockery dictate our narrative.

Let us rise, dear sisters, and claim our right to faith, freedom, and respect. Let our voices echo, our pens write, and our hearts beat as one.

Together, we shall weather this storm and emerge victorious, our faith and dignity intact.

Let us raise our voice in solitude
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If you love her because of her eyes, lips or body,it's not "Love", it's "LUST"If it's because of her intelligence or ins...
06/06/2024

If you love her because of her eyes, lips or body,it's not "Love", it's "LUST"

If it's because of her intelligence or insight about life, it's not "Love", it's "ADMIRATION"

If it's because she cries every time you try to leave her, it's not "Love", it's "PITY"

If it's because she makes you forget to study and sleep, it's not "Love", it's "INFATUATION"

♡ Love is, when you don't know why you seem to be attracted to a person.
Love is when the heart sees what's invisible to the eyes. Love is when you really can't explain how you feel about her to her, and to yourself.

Love has it's reason and that reason is UNKNOWN!!!

And I want to know that i love you because you love ALLAH ♡ and This is love for the sake of Allah Ta'Alaa & it should be halal.❤️❤️

03/06/2024

This scare the s**t out of me like may allah guide us .

When a father gets er****on while playing with his daughter, does it mean something is wrong with him?

Some men, get er****ons at any time, for no apparent reason. It is possible a thought came to him about something else, deep in his mind, that was totally unrelated to the child he was playing with. A man must be discipline and decent, because his nature does not allow unnecessary contact with opposite s*x.

Every active man, irrespective of his religiousity or level of education wakes up every day with er****on, that is when he is not thinking or seeing a woman in front of him. But if you notice you get er****ons often seeing someone who is naturally forbidden for you, then you need to be worried.

No doubt, it is easy to get an er****on when cuddling with a mother. Your mother is a woman, soft and feminine. While most people do not get er****ons while cuddling their mothers, it does happen to some young boys or adults.

We cannot rule out abnormal cases where lust or in**st happens in the family between father and daughter, mother and son, etc this is highly forbidden morally and religiously. It is wrong for two children of opposite s*xes to be kept in the same room, especially when they are attaining maturity. That's why keeping wives and children in a small room will cause doom.

As a sister, you should be careful when interacting with an intending partner, you most times get too close to these brothers that they can get erected, if you observe most brothers love privacy and s*x chats which you must not allow. The idea of making yourself too available for him will give him reason to be s*xually attached to you, instead of choosing you on merit, he is only longing to see what you've got, and after that, he runs with his errors.

Always pay attention to details.

Abu Sheikh

31/05/2024

U married 3 or 4 wives in the name of Sunnah.yet they are the ones feedin u & ur kids.what kind of Sunnah ar u practicing.

30/05/2024

When some brothers complain that our ma sha Allah sisters are too materialistic, I see it as an emotional statement.

These sisters do not use hair attachment, fix nails or eye lashes, they do not ask for summer holiday visitation to the London, attend parties, buy expensive clothes etc many of them live within the confine of what the religion permits.

As a man, pray to Allah to bless you with rizq, it will make a lot of sense if you are the one doing the spending. When we see Niqabite or Khimarite sister in a nice car on the highway, we feel excited even if they're not our wives, but seeing them hawking under the hot sun in public, makes us uncomfortable.

30/05/2024

"Why do you want to marry him? I want to marry him because of the Deen."

This statement is so deep than the way we take it. We should by now know that there is a big difference between religiousity and compatibility. The deen for some people ends with the appearance of the person they want to marry, while others think once you can copy and paste Qur'an and Hadith or recite, then you have the Deen.

We have to differentiate between knowledge and understanding of the deen, most times, we fall for the knowledge of the intending partner, but pay less attention to understanding of it. This is a big mistake. There are Muslims you cannot marry, not because they are bad, but due to the level of their understanding of the religion, if you go ahead and tie the knot with them, you might have problem.

The individual wearing the appearance is more than important, look out for how he or she relates with people, then you will understand what you are going to. The real character of your wife is the one she shows to the house help, you can see how derogatory she goes while talking to other people, obviously, the favour she gets from you might determine the way she currently honours you.

You have to search for a man of character, not the one that wears the appearance without proper understanding. When a man wants to catch a 'lady', he pretends, but after the game, he shows you the red card. Today, we are seeing Niqabite sisters dancing to hip hop on TikTok. We have recently seen a person who traveled to the holy Land, dancing in front of ka' bah.

Remember, the character of the brother or sister you intend to marry must mirror the religion. The problem is that, intending partners tend to pay attention to appearance and neglect character, the result of this error is in the public domain.

Always pay attention to details.

Abu Sheikh

05/06/2023

To whom should a married man should give much preference, either his mother or wife?

Answer
Praise be to Allah.

The Muslim should always give preference to his mother, because it says in a hadeeth that a man said to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): “Who among the people is most deserving of my good company?” He said, “Your mother.” He asked, “Then who?” He said, “Your mother.” He asked, “Then who?” He said, “Your mother.” …

(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5514; Muslim, 4621).

But the wife takes precedence over the mother in one case, and that is the matter of spending. If the husband cannot afford to spend on both his wife and his mother because he is poor, then in this case he should put his wife before his mother. The Muslim has to give what is due to each person who has a right over him, and he has to help the one who is oppressed. If his mother mistreats his wife, he has to put a stop to it, in a kind and fair manner.

And Allaah knows best.

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