Courtship school

Relationships are so beautiful when you and your partner are actually good friends. You show up together, share inside jokes, talk openly, have fun, and totally vibe like besties. They shouldn't replace your actual friends but it's so amazing when the dynamic isn't just romantic.

WIVES WHO SOLD THEIR HUSBANDS INTO THE HANDS OF THEIR HOUSE MAID AND STRANGE WOMEM IN OFFICES
~Evangelist Mike Bamiloye

There are a lot of WOMEN who have no TIME to take care of their HUSBANDS because of their CAREERS and AMBITIONS.

They have SOLD their husbands into the hands of their house MAIDS and STRANGE WOMEN in offices.

There are WIVES whose JOBS and PROFESSIONS have taken them away from their HOMES and HUSBANDS for two, three, four and five months; even some wives are away from their husbands for close to one or two YEARS...for whatever reasons...

They have sold their husbands into the hands of EMOTIONAL TORTURES and immoral battles of the minds.

SOME HUSBANDS are sold into the hands of INTERNET PO*******HY...while some are sold outrightly into the hands of STRANGE SISTERS and LADIES who fill the open space crested BY THE WIFE whose hingernand thirst for career and professional ambitions have sent far away from her marital inheritance.

WOMEN!

GUIDE YOUR MARRIAGE WITH ALL DELIGENCE!
FIGHT FOR YOUR HOME!
FOR THE DEVIL HATES YOUR MARRIAGE WITH A PASSION!

MAY THE LORD DESTROY THE PLAN OF THE devil AGAINST YOUR MARRIAGE IN JESUS' NAME.

I dont care what people say but marriage is an achievement for both women and men.

The fact that it didn't work for others it doesnt mean that it wont work for you..

*MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR SMALL BOYS!*

"I used to interpret the saying "Marriage is not for small boys" to mean small boys in terms of age, until I visited a female mentor that has been in marriage for 47 years.

I asked, so what is the secret of your over 47 years in marriage?
Beaming, she retorted; My son, the expectations you bring into marriage will either spell its doom or success. I married my husband without expectations of enjoying his money or buying cars for me, but with time, my patience, hard work and God-fearing attitude yielded results of getting cars, houses, taking care of our children and all that.

You see, if a married lady keeps on nagging in the house, she pushes the spirit of her husband from the home. If you make the man unhappy, you make the house uncomfortable.

So, I married without high expectations from my husband but simply to make him happy always.

Yes, for the past 47 years, I would be the first to get up from bed and the last to go back to bed. I bath the kids, do devotions with them, prepare breakfast for my husband and boil hot water for him to bath. I iron his clothes he would take to work, kiss him and wish him the best in his daily endeavors.

I asked my old woman, so then what does the man do in return? She laughed all heart and hearty and replied; You see, this is the mistake you young ones make in marriage.
YOU DO SOMETHING FOR YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE AND EXPECT SAME REWARD FROM HIM OR HER, THIS IS WRONG!

When it becomes your attitude to only please your husband or wife always, the other person responds naturally. Indeed, if nothing touches the palm tree, it doesn't rattle.

She continued, my son, never carry "how rich or poor your family is" into marriage. After all, you knew very well the status of your family and decided to marry that man or woman.

Love only compels/leads would-be couples into marriage but it doesn't sustain marriage. Rather, understanding, patience, communication and most importantly, forgiveness sustain every

FOUR (4) ENEMIES YOU MUST CONQUER IN MARRIAGE .
By: Daniel Akpai

If your marriage must last according to intent of God you must deal with the following major enemies.

1. Deal with covetousness:
What is covetousness? It’s a strong wish to have something, especially something that belongs to someone else.
Don’t have strong desire to have someone you’re not married to, don’t have strong desire for things God has not given you.

2. Deal with your WEAKNESS. Don’t ever say “my spouse will get use to me”. Nobody gets use to non*sense so do all you can to accept your flaws and work on it.

3. Deal with Inlaws’ influence. Dont allow your Inlaws be in control of your home. Learn to handle your misunderstandings within your home.

4. Absence of love making. Some couples are starving se*ually because their spouses feel love making us not food. Couples must create time to make love as a matter of fact you must prioritize it if you want to bond with your partner .

These will help you to a large extent!

DEAR LADIES...✍🏾

You will come across many men in your life and you will be tempted to fall in love, don’t be lured to giving your heart to any man just because he is handsome, popular, rich, dresses well, etc.

Physical attraction and s*xual impulses are short lived. Give your heart to a man who know your heart just like he know his own and feel your pain just the way you feel it. Give your heart to man who understand how much strength you have gathered to overcome a bad past.

Give your heart to a man who understand your mind. Someone who appreciate the way you stand tall despite all the mess in your life. Give your heart to man who touches your soul before he touches your body. He is the one who will never leave you alone and hold on you till the end of time.

Long lasting relationship marriage are not based on SEXUAL PLEASURE and PHYSICAL INTIMACY, they are based on TRUE LOVE and understanding.

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WHY SOME PEOPLE DON'T ENJOY SEX...✍️

1. LACK OF LOVE
Love is the greatest aphrodisiac; when you are in love with someone, you find everything about them s*xy, you surrender to pleasure. S*x is more than getting to the climax, it's an act of intimacy, it's also about the journey that leads to the climax and the reason why the climax is special. That's why you should marry the one you are in love with.

2. THINKING TOO MUCH
When you are making love, free your mind and pleasure will follow. Put the stress aside, stop thinking about the baby, about the bills, about your responsibilities, whether your skin is too sweaty, whether you're making too much noise, whether you're doing it right, whether you are hard or wet enough. Stop worrying, you and your spouse deserve this moment of pleasure. Pleasure is first sought after in the mind.

3. COMPARISONS
When you compare and make your expectation of what good s*x is based on what you read in magazines, what you read online and what you hear from friends; when you compare the size of your hubby's tool with what you hear from friends, compare your wife's body and tricks with what you hear; you will not enjoy s*x with your spouse. S*x is custom-made for every couple, leave the world behind, it's just you two.

4. PO*******HY
Po*******hy confuses you, it plants images of strangers in your mind. Po*******hy becomes addictive as you are ever searching for the next steamy scene by strangers on screens. Slowly you become numb to your spouse's s*xiness as you drool over strangers; even when you climax, it's not because you are thinking about your spouse but because you are thinking of p**n stars. Po*******hy is like taking a walk with your spouse in the streets and desiring every person who passes your way, you wouldn't do that in the streets, why do that on screens?

5. PROMISCUITY
Sleeping with many people drains you, eventually, you feel lost. Eventhough s*x takes you to a form of high, s*x comes with deep feelings of emptiness

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