BenVille Kiddies Club

01/07/2019

'Fun-ning ' the right way. A childhood without fun is not worth remembering. Give your kids something to always remember. Give them fun... Give them adventure.

20/01/2019

Being a good partner to your spouse, does not make you a good parent.
You don't become a good parent because you have the money to provide your child with life luxuries.
Because you're pious to your religion, does not make you a good parent.
Good parenting requires attention and time on your child without being overprotective. It requires your conscious effort to become a better parent, it requires your accepting you were wrong when it's obvious and letting your child feel deservedly justified.
Good parenting means sometimes seeking the opinion of your child and making him/her feel important and involved in the family decision making and politicking.
Good parenting means not getting your child involved in your fights with your spouse - Their other parent.
Good parenting means coming to the understanding that your child must not identify with your view about life, you don't intrude into their private life just because you want to control their every step. What they need is your guidance and not your decree.
Children are the gift of God to parents and guardians, whether by birth, adoption, etc. So they have to be treated like one.


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16/12/2018

We've ended it for the year. The kids and staff of BenVille Kiddies Club wish you a wondrous merry Christmas. This year was a blast.



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13/12/2018

It can be hard to tell what's going on behind a child's misbehavior at any given moment.

Graphic by GoZen: Anxiety Relief for Children

13/09/2018

True Educators improve other educators,
True Educators make those around them better,
True Educators are the teacher's teacher(s)
True Educators are more precious than precious stones.
Mr Joseph Aisida is a true Educator and he lives on.
Death took your physical essence but your legacy lives on.
TRUE EDUCATORS, EVEN WHEN THEY'RE NO MORE, THEIR LEGACY ON EARTH KEEPS THEM ALIVE.

10/09/2018

Today marks the beginning of a new academic year. Through our weekend programs, BenVille Kiddies Club is here to help make your kids even smarter and give them a fun-filled academic experience.

08/09/2018

08/09/2018

It's International Literacy Day; drop your phone and pick up a book.

05/09/2018

SILENT TEARS IN THE CLASSROOM

Anytime it's school time I get sad.
Yes I mean sad not because I don't like school but because I feel I don't belong there.

My teachers say everyone is better than me because they get better grades in tests and exams.

My teachers always compare me with others but how can I dare tell them that am different from them.

My teachers always say I don't do well even though they teach me well but how can I tell them that the teaching method they use doesn't favour me even though it favours the majority.

How can I tell my teachers that I just need motivation not condemnation.

I wish I can be bold to tell my teachers that I have to be understood not to be compared.

My maths teacher says I am 'good for nothing' because am not good in calculations.

My science teacher says 'I am useless' because I always get low grades.

My English teachers say 'I have no future' because I can't express myself fluently in the white man's language.

They seem to have forgotten that I am the one that led the school soccer team to win that trophy.

I am the same student that always play those drums to the admiration of all.

Sometimes when I ask why they don't consider what I do as important they tell me "WAEC doesn't ask those in examinations"

Tears always fill me but I can't pour them because no one understands me.

My parents can't even understand me because my teachers make them believe I'm good for nothing.

I thought my parents will tell them that I repair most of the electrical appliances in the house without any training.

Who will hear me now because I and many who are like me are being destroyed

Who will help tell them that even though we might not be able to get the certificate, we have great talents?

Who will help tell teachers that they should not force their dreams on us but guide us to nurture our God given talents?

Who will hear our cry?

I am one of the voices of the many silent voices in the class.

NB: Copied and felt it should be an eye opener for Parents,teachers,Administrators and all lovers of growth and development of our future leaders with different and rare talents.