20/07/2026
WHO IS YOUR PASTOR?
Rediscovering Biblical Shepherding in an Age of Digital Christianity
By Ebenezer O. Oke
"And I will give you shepherds after my own heart, who will feed you with knowledge and understanding."
— Jeremiah 3:15, ESV
Introduction: A Question Every Christian Must Answer
One of the experiences that unsettled me during my early years in pastoral ministry was not the workload, the late-night emergencies, or even the enormous responsibility of shepherding God's people. Rather, it was the way many members addressed me. In my first pastorate, where most members belonged to the middle and upper classes of society, many simply called me "Pastor," almost as though it had become my first name or surname. Before long, I realised that for many people, the title had become detached from its biblical meaning.
When I resumed my second pastoral assignment, another development emerged. Both young and old members immediately began calling me "Daddy." Although the expression was intended as a sign of affection and respect, it prompted deeper reflection. What exactly does it mean to be a pastor? Is a pastor merely a religious title? Is he simply an office holder? Is every minister automatically the pastor of everyone who listens to him? More importantly, can a Christian genuinely answer the simple but profound question: Who is your pastor?
That question became even more significant after I watched an interview with a well-known young minister. During the discussion, someone asked him, "Who is your pastor? To whom do you submit in your life and ministry?" Rather than answer directly, he carefully avoided the question. He explained that within his denomination, pastoral postings meant that no single minister remained long enough to provide continuous pastoral care comparable to what is often found in independent churches led by founders or General Overseers. Consequently, he suggested that identifying one personal pastor was not always straightforward.
His response reflects a growing reality across the Church today. Increasingly, believers receive spiritual nourishment from numerous preachers through television, YouTube, Facebook, podcasts, Instagram, TikTok, and other digital platforms. Many faithfully watch services online every week while gradually disconnecting from meaningful participation in a local congregation. Others have abandoned corporate fellowship altogether and now describe themselves as "online Christians."
While digital technology has become a remarkable gift for spreading the gospel, it has also introduced new pastoral challenges. Many believers now consume sermons from ministers representing widely different theological traditions, ecclesiastical practices, and doctrinal convictions. Without consistent pastoral oversight, many become spiritually fragmented. They possess abundant information but lack spiritual formation. They hear countless voices but belong to no shepherd. They admire many preachers but submit to no pastor.
The question, therefore, deserves serious biblical reflection. It is not merely, "Which preacher do you enjoy listening to?" Nor is it, "Whose books do you read?" The deeper question is this: Who watches over your soul before God?
The answer to that question has profound implications for spiritual growth, accountability, doctrinal stability, Christian fellowship, and lifelong discipleship.
The Biblical Meaning of a Pastor
The English word pastor originates from the Latin word pastor, meaning "shepherd." The biblical concept is rooted primarily in the Old Testament and reaches its fullest expression in the New Testament.
In the Old Testament, kings, priests, and spiritual leaders were frequently described as shepherds because they were entrusted with caring for God's people. David himself moved from shepherding sheep to shepherding Israel (2 Samuel 5:2).
The Hebrew word ra'ah literally means "to shepherd," "to feed," "to tend," or "to care for." It describes leadership characterised by protection, guidance, nourishment, compassion, and responsibility.
In the New Testament, the Greek word poimēn likewise means "shepherd." It appears in Ephesians 4:11, where Christ "gave some to be apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers."
A pastor, therefore, is fundamentally a shepherd before he is a preacher.
Preaching may attract crowds.
Teaching may increase knowledge.
Leadership may build organisations.
But shepherding cares for people.
This distinction is crucial because much of contemporary Christianity celebrates public ministry while neglecting personal pastoral care.
Jesus Christ: The Model of Every Pastor
No discussion of pastoral ministry can begin anywhere other than with Jesus Christ Himself.
Jesus described Himself as "the good shepherd" (John 10:11).
The imagery is deeply significant. Unlike a hired labourer whose commitment lasts only while conditions remain favourable, the Good Shepherd knows His sheep personally, calls them by name, leads them carefully, protects them sacrificially, and ultimately lays down His life for them.
Philip Keller, himself a shepherd before becoming a pastor, observed in A Shepherd Looks at Psalm 23 that sheep are entirely dependent upon their shepherd for food, protection, healing, guidance, and survival. Left to themselves, they easily wander into danger.
The same is true spiritually.
Christians need shepherding because spiritual life cannot flourish in isolation.
The New Testament repeatedly portrays believers not merely as students, consumers, or spectators but as sheep belonging to Christ's flock.
Can Social Media Replace a Pastor?
This question has become increasingly urgent in the digital age.
There is no doubt that online ministry has become one of the greatest missionary opportunities of the twenty-first century. Millions have heard the gospel through livestreams, podcasts, digital Bible studies, and Christian media.
These ministries deserve gratitude.
However, digital ministry was never intended to replace biblical fellowship.
A preacher on YouTube cannot visit you when you are hospitalised.
A Facebook sermon cannot lovingly confront your sinful behaviour.
A podcast cannot mediate reconciliation when conflict arises in your family.
An online livestream cannot administer church discipline, celebrate baptism, serve the Lord's Supper, officiate your marriage, conduct your funeral, or nurture your children personally in the faith.
These responsibilities belong to local shepherds.
The writer to the Hebrews reminds believers: "Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they are keeping watch over your souls, as those who will have to give an account" (Hebrews 13:17, ESV).
Notice the deeply personal language.
Pastors watch over identifiable people.
Likewise, believers belong to identifiable communities.
Anonymous Christianity was unknown in the New Testament.
Who Gives Account for Your Soul?
Perhaps the most searching question every Christian should ask is not, "Who inspires me?" but, "Who gives account to God for my spiritual welfare?"
Pastoral ministry carries enormous responsibility.
James warns that teachers "shall receive the greater condemnation" (James 3:1, KJV).
Similarly, Hebrews 13:17 teaches that pastors must one day give account before God for those entrusted to their care.
This accountability assumes a real relationship between shepherd and sheep.
It cannot exist where believers drift endlessly between churches, conferences, livestreams, and personalities without belonging anywhere.
If no one knows your spiritual condition, celebrates your growth, notices your absence, confronts your error, encourages your faith, or prays consistently for you, then an important dimension of biblical Christianity is missing.
The Rise of the 'Online Christian'
One of the unexpected consequences of digital technology is the emergence of believers who have gradually abandoned physical fellowship altogether.
Some left because they experienced genuine disappointment or abuse within churches.
Others became attracted to celebrity ministries.
Still others simply concluded that watching sermons from home was easier than participating in church life.
While these motivations vary, the long-term spiritual consequences are often similar.
Isolation slowly replaces fellowship. Preference replaces commitment. Consumption replaces service. Entertainment replaces discipleship. Eventually, faith itself may become increasingly individualistic.
Yet the New Testament consistently presents the Church not as an audience but as a family, a body, a household, a temple, and a flock.
Every one of these images speaks of belonging.
Submission Is Not Slavery
Because some leaders have abused spiritual authority, many Christians today instinctively distrust the language of submission.
Such concerns should never be dismissed.
History contains painful examples of manipulation, financial exploitation, authoritarian leadership, and spiritual abuse.
These practices contradict the teaching of Christ.
Nevertheless, abuse does not invalidate biblical truth.
Healthy pastoral authority is always exercised through humility, sacrificial service, sound doctrine, transparency, and love.
Peter exhorted elders:
"Be shepherds of God's flock... not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock." (1 Peter 5:2–3)
Biblical submission is never blind obedience to human personalities.
Rather, it is joyful cooperation within God's ordained order for spiritual growth.
So, Who Is Your Pastor?
The answer to this question should be clear.
Your pastor is not merely your favourite preacher.
He is not simply the minister whose messages you download every morning.
He is not necessarily the author whose books fill your shelves.
Your pastor is the shepherd who knows you, prays for you, teaches you faithfully from Scripture, corrects you lovingly, rejoices in your growth, mourns your failures, and will one day give account to God concerning his ministry among you.
Such a relationship cannot be replaced by algorithms, livestreams, or digital subscriptions.
God designed His Church to flourish through faithful shepherds and committed congregations.
Conclusion: Returning to Biblical Shepherding
The Church does not merely need more sermons. It needs a healthier shepherding.
Our generation has unprecedented access to biblical teaching, yet many believers remain spiritually disconnected because they have confused information with formation and influence with accountability.
Every Christian should therefore prayerfully answer this question before God:
Who is my pastor?
If the answer is uncertain, perhaps it is time to rediscover the beauty of belonging to a faithful local church where Christ is honoured, Scripture is rightly taught, shepherds care for souls, and believers grow together in grace.
The Chief Shepherd is still calling His sheep (1 Peter 5:4). His desire is not that they wander endlessly among competing voices, but that they be lovingly shepherded, firmly grounded in truth, and equipped to grow into the fullness of Christ.
May every believer know not only the voice of the Good Shepherd but also the blessing of faithful under-shepherds whom God has appointed to watch over His flock with humility, wisdom, and love.
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