Posh School of Etiquette

“Don’t turn your knife into a sword.”

Yes, you heard that right.

When you are having a conversation at the table, avoid waving your knife around or pointing it at others while making a point. Place it down before you gesture and continue your conversation.

When drinking from a glass, try to sip from the same spot, especially if you are wearing lipstick, to keep the rim looking neat.

And remember: fine dining is not just about the food. It is a social experience. The goal is to connect, engage, and make those around you feel comfortable.

Good etiquette is found in the smallest details.

POV: You came to burn calories, not listen to someone else’s family meeting.

The gym is a shared space. While taking an urgent call is understandable, shouting over loud music or using speakerphone can disrupt everyone around you.

Etiquette tip: If you need to take a call, step aside, keep your voice low, or move to a quieter area. Respect the space. Respect the people.

Notice the difference?

Same person. Same outfit. Same destination.

But one walk says, "I hope nobody notices me."

The other says, "I belong here."

Lift your chin. Relax your shoulders. Carry your bag by your side. Add a gentle smile.

Because confidence isn't always about what you say.

Often, it's about how you show up before you say anything at all.

Many people are waiting for an opportunity before they start looking the part. But often, opportunities come to those who already carry themselves like they belong in the room.

If you aspire to be a leader, a professional, an entrepreneur, or a person of influence, ask yourself: Does your appearance reflect that vision?

The way you present yourself is not about pretending to be someone you're not; it's about preparing for where you're going. Dress with intention, carry yourself with confidence, and let your appearance support your aspirations.

Sometimes, the first step toward the role you desire is looking ready for it.

Etiquette Tip!

Need to leave the table during a meal?

Don't place your napkin back on the table. Instead, loosely place it on your chair seat or drape it over the chair's backrest.

Why? It quietly signals that you're not finished with your meal and plan to return.

A neatly folded napkin on the table can suggest that you're done eating, while a napkin left on the chair keeps things clear and courteous.

Remember: Your napkin communicates even when you don't.

Small detail. Big impression.

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When food or drink touches your lips, resist the urge to wipe your mouth across the napkin.

Instead, gently pick up your napkin, unfold the inner section, and dab your lips. Dabbing removes residue neatly and discreetly, while wiping can spread food, draw unnecessary attention, and appear untidy.

Good napkin etiquette isn't just about you,it's about making everyone at the table feel comfortable. Small details like these reflect poise, consideration, and good manners.

Remember: At the dining table, dab, don't wipe.

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People spend years studying, sacrificing, and working hard to earn professional titles. If someone prefers to be addressed as Doctor, Professor, Chief, or any other title they have earned, it is courteous to respect that preference.

Etiquette is not about showing superiority, it's about showing respect.

Don't assume familiarity. Don't decide for people how they should be addressed. Until they tell you otherwise, address them in the manner they prefer.

Professional courtesy begins with getting someone's name and title right.

What's your view? Should professional titles always be used, or only in formal settings?

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Your phone speaks before you do.

Constantly checking your screen during meetings can make you appear distracted, disengaged, and unprepared, even when that’s not your intention. Executive presence is not only about how you dress or speak; it’s also about how present and respectful you are in the room.

If you’re expecting an urgent call, proper etiquette is simple:
Inform your host or the people in the meeting beforehand.

That single act shows professionalism, emotional intelligence, and respect for everyone’s time.

Presence is power.
And sometimes, professionalism looks like putting the phone away.

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