Relationship today with Emmanuel Obayori

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Communication is the lifeline of any worthwhile relationship.
If you can't communicate effectively with your partner, nothing else is going to work.
If you are stuck with someone you can't discuss any and everything with, you are in the wrong relationship.

You must be able to communicate to understand your partner.
Remember I said, where there is no communication, there is no information and where there is no information, there is no understanding. If you don't understand your partner, you can't love him or her sincerely.

Communicating to understand each other is the major factor.
This can also be possible if you understand your partner's love languages.
You must be willing to learn your partner's primary love language if you are to be effective communicators of love.

If you want him/her to feel the love you are trying to communicate, you must express it in his or her LOVE LANGUAGE

Which of this LOVE LANGUAGE fits you best within your relationship?

1.I like to receive encouraging or affirming notes

2. I like to be hugged

3. I like to spend one on one time with my partner

4. I feel loved when someone gives me practical help

5. I feel loved when my partner gives me a reassuring handshake or hug

6.I like to go places with my partner.

7. Visible symbol (such as gifts ) are important to me

8. I enjoy being around my partner.

9. Words of acceptance are important to me

10. I feel loved when my partner take time to understand my feelings

11. I feel loved when my partner celebrates my birthday with meaningful words

12. I like my partner to look at me when he or she is talking

13. I really enjoyed the feelings I get when someone gives me undivided attention

14. I like it when you call me everyday and tell me you love me.

15. I feel loved when you trust me.

What is your love languages?
What is your partner's love languages ?
Find out, begin to communicate it and enjoy your relationship.

I have to go now. I will be back with other series on talking to your lover.

Your marital success is my concern

EMMANUEL OBAYORI

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In my precious post, we looked at the importance of talking or communication in a relationship. The feedback was massive with various questions in My inbox and whatsapp. Okay, let's take it further.

One of the proofs that your relationship is healthy is the strength of your communication. If a relationship is alive, there will be talking. A dead relationship is a relationship without communication.

When there is no communication, there is no information and where there is no information, there is no understanding. If you truly want to understand and love your partner, there must be mutual,indepth and free flow of expression. Both partner must be able to express themselves freely without pretence. Both partner must cultivate the habit of listening to understand each other.

When two lovers communicate and listen to understand each other, their love increase. The relationship progress.
I'm aware some partners are communicating but they don't understand each other. I may have to take take you through "The Act of communication" but not now.

Do you desire to communicate to understand your partner? See it here...

: Try to find a time when both you and your partner are calm and not distracted,stressed or in a rush. If your partner is a Man United fan, the right time to talk to him is not after his team just lost match. Wisdom is profitable.

: Avoid talking about serious matters or issues in writing. Text messages, whatsapp and bbm chats can be misinterpreted.
Talk one on one. Make calls. Talk in person so there aren't any unnecessary miscommunication.

If you are in a distance relationship, make calls and communicate to understand each other frequently.

I have to go now. I will be back with other series on taking to your lover.

Your marital success is my concern

EMMANUEL OBAYORI

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Love is about Talking...

The proof of love is communication. If you truly love someone, you will always eager to talk to the person.

If you are in love, you will always want to talk. Talk about what? Talk about everything 'talkable'
Love does not keep quiet, it's always ready talk.

If days,weeks or months goes by without talking to the person you love, something is wrong.
If your lover is always 'forming' too busy for days and weeks and no time to talk to you, there is fire on the mountain.

If you want to love, you must be ready to talk. Where there is no taking, there is no love.
Someone said, one of the reasons God created man was because He was looking for somebody to talk to. Before the arrival of Eve,Adam was alone because there was no one to talk to. As soon as Eve arrived, Adam began to talk "This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh". Relationship started.

When there is no talking, there is no relationship and marriage .
Where there is no talking, there will be loneliness and wrong assumption in the relationship .
When there is no taking because of disagreement and misunderstanding the devil is taking to each partner differently.

Relationship ends when there is no taking
Marriage crashed when communication is lost.

So keep taking, start Talking to your lover

Talk about the future
Talk about the 'recession' in the country
Talk about your finances
Talk about your career
Talk about your spirituality
Talk about a passage in the Bible
Talk about your worries and fear
Talk about child raising
Talk about your goals, vision and pursuit
Talk about some characters you don't like about each other
Talk about everything that's a concern to you.

Stop assuming. Talk about it.

I will have to go now, I will be back with other series on taking to your lover.

Your Marital success is my concern

EMMANUEL OBAYORI

Stop focusing too much attention on variable things when it comes to choosing a life partner. The God kind of Marriage is far beyond how perfect a man's look, his height, colour and accent. Don't be led by only physical attraction. Make sure the man is beautiful on the inside! True love is deeper than the physical appearance. Selah!

Your happiness does not depend on whether you are married or not, but on your relationship with God.

Your purpose is your ideal you! You should grow your love with someone who's purpose has already been discovered. In other words, don't settle down with a man or a woman who has no sense of direction.

Agape love is true love.

Work to develop yourself fully as a single
person before entering a relationship.

Adam was enjoying his companion with God
before the arrival of Eve.
Any relationship that pulls you away from God
is a distraction.