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Children cry for food while adult make their food.....
Just a food for thought.

poverty is a state of the mind...

She called off her wedding just few days to the date. She felt humiliated and assaulted.

A man she thought she was going to spend the rest of her life with had the effrontery to pour water on her face and clothes because he was angry.

She knew he had a bit of anger problems . But it never occurred to her he could unleash the anger on her publicly.


This happened in an eatery while they were having a meeting.

The introduction have been done few months back and invitation cards shared to family, friends ,colleagues and church members.

The wedding comes up ,first week of March.

Besides, lot of money have been spent in preparation for the occasion.

Last week, dude invited the babe to meet him in one of the eateries so they could sort out some issues.

She came as agreed not knowing that the meeting would be the last between both of them.

somehow, there were argument between them and dude out of anger poured the water he was drinking on her .

She stood speechless, dazed and confused. Somehow, she managed to pull herself together and walked out of the spot with her wet clothes.

She got home broken but made up her mind to discontinue with the marriage.

Of course, she didn't waste time to let her mom and sisters know about the this strange development.

And her decision was to call off the wedding.

Sadly, her mom was not completely in support of her decision but with the backing of her siblings, they were able to convince her .

The whole family are backing her. To them ,the marriage is over.

However, dude and family would not take any of that. They have been begging and sending emissaries to her and her family.

The pastor of her church is not left out . He has invited her but she is still holding her ground. No marriage.

She is a bit lucky, because she and her family are together in this decision.

What do you make of this ?
Please house what advice would you give to this lady?

Hmmmm...bad marriage is the worst thing that can happen to anyone.....
It reduces your POTENTIALS,destroy the investments of your single years,leads to untimely DEATH and above all deny you HEAVEN......so my friends don't just marry rather consider your heavenly goal,your future and the future of your unborn children cause you can't bring forth these innocent children into a world of pains...consider your purpose..and let GOD guide you...from the table of SWITE16..

Hmmmm..the long awaited 2017 has come...
Jonah in the ship caused a storm but Jesus in the ship calmed and still the storm...2017 is a ship...who and what is in your ship this year...mind you...your direction is what determines your ship And who should be on the same ship with you..DO you have a direction or destination that this ship called 2017 must take you to?...who are the fellows in your ship...do they believe in your dreams,vision and pursuit?are they willing to support you?.....for safe sailing in this ship called 2017 with desired results achieved...you need Jesus In this ship....trust me...
See you at the top..

Ladies in the house hear this...
What makes you complete as a lady.is not marriage,husband,money,career e.t.c
You were created and redeemed complete according to col 2:10
"You are complete in him (Jesus) who is the head of all principalities and power..
Even as a single you are complete and whole..
Don't become desperate or fall in love too quickly..first of all fall in love with yourself,your personhood,personality,gift and celebrate your uniqueness..
Appreciate yourself and spend time alone building the future you want to see from the scriptures...
GOD bless you..

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Nothing cancels insult like RESULT...

Time spent alone help you access yourself better..

Three enemies of progress to watch out for:
Past achievement
Past failures
Present circumstances...

Once the devil succeed in changing your CONFESSION.. he becomes empowered to steal your miracle....say this to yourself and put the devil in his place...