5D Couple

A lady sent this anonymous to me, I and my husband decided to answer it in a video

Check the comment section

After watching, share your thoughts in the comment section.

And don't forget to subscribe

One thing that I and my husband never did when we were courting is sharing of nudes.

Yes we never did that.

Even when he want to call me on video call, he will wear his shirt first.

Same with me, I always wear clothes

We shared pictures a lot to one another, but decent pictures

Some people because of ordinary relationship that you are not sure of marriage, you people have already seen each other nakedness on video call.

Set godly boundaries in your relationship.

Protect your dignity and keep yourself pure.

Dear Woman, don’t marry a dirty man ❌❌❌

During our courtship, my husband once asked me a funny question.

He said, “Babe, would you like me to always look good for you at home by wearing white singlet and boxers?”

I told him, “Why not babe?” because it is only a truly clean man that will confidently wear white singlet and boxer at home and still look fresh.

Ladies, let me tell you something sincere.

Not every man is dirty.

Not every man needs serious work before he can behave like a responsible adult.

Some men grew up with a strong sense of hygiene.

Some men understand neatness without being told.

And when you marry that kind of man, you will enjoy peace.

Let me use my husband as an example. Before we got married, I already knew he was a very clean person.

He brushes twice a day. I am even the one that brushes once.

He does not pile up dirty plates. He told me this while we were still dating, and I have seen it fully in our marriage.

In fact, for the whole first year of our marriage, I never washed the toilet.

My husband handled it. And he did not just wash it in a hurry, he washed it until it was sparkling clean.

I am talking about a man who values hygiene naturally.

So ladies, I want you to choose wisely.

Do not marry a man who refuses to brush his teeth, who does not care about smelling good, who scatters the room and expects you to clean after him like a maid.

Marriage is already a journey with its own challenges.

Adding a dirty partner on top will drain you emotionally and physically. ❌❌

Look out for a man who values cleanliness.

A man who takes care of himself.

A man who understands that hygiene is part of being responsible.

It will save you stress. It will bring peace into your home. And it will make your daily life easier.

Cleanliness is not a gender role. It is a mindset.

When you marry someone who understands that, you have already reduced half of the battles people fight in marriage.

A question for my single ladies, can you marry a dirty man???

Clear road for the hottest, cutest 2 year old

I still remember your first cry while I was lying down on the theatre bed…….

The moment I heard that cry, everything in me changed, I cried and kept saying “thank you Jesus” because I was so anxious before you came.

Thank you for coming into our lives

Thank you for making me understand what unconditional love feels like.

Thank you for loving me, always giving me hugs especially on the difficult days of my second pregnancy, you were there, very clingy and never letting me go.

Thank you for teaching me patience and thank you for letting me mother you…

I love you deeply my baby girl and pray for you that your days on earth will continually be beautiful…..

And as your name Zia means light, you’ll forever shine, nobody will dim your light…..

As your name Hildah means warrior and battle axe, you’ll forever be a battle axe in the hand of the Lord, you’ll never be misled, the Lord will forever be your shield and eternal reward.

Welcome to 2

Your daddy, your baby sis and I Love love love love you Zee baby…… ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Btw, I made the hair for her…………

You promised God that once He gives you a car, you’ll always carry people to church.

Now you have the car, and even your shadow hasn’t entered church.

Church members now look like suspects to you.

Tomorrow is Sunday are you taking us to church or not???

Aunty, you said once you hit 30, you’ll stop dating boys with no direction.

You turned 31 last month and you’re still managing Brother B.

Abi you too never get direction??

Bro, you said once you get a good job, you’ll finally ask her out.

You’ve been employed for 7 months now,

Abi HR is still processing your boldness?

Aunty, you confidently gave an ultimatum that
If by April ending he hasn’t proposed, you are done!

Today is May 2nd…
So what are you still doing there? Collecting overtime??

Just checking in because we remember what you said.

Love Beyond Valentine’s Day ❤️

Now that Valentine’s Day is over, what comes next?

Should we celebrate our loved ones only once a year?

Does a single date night or a special gift mean we've done enough?

Not at all! Love isn’t a one-day event, it’s a daily commitment.

True love is consistent, intentional, and ever-growing.

While special occasions help us shift gears and deepen our connections, the real magic lies in the everyday moments, the kind words, the small surprises, and the unwavering support.

So, let’s make love a daily habit. Let’s cherish, appreciate, and celebrate our partners beyond just one day.

After all, love is not just about grand gestures; it’s about showing up every single day.

When I and my husband were dating, we usually have the normal fights that lovers have….

And each time we have issues, I will say my mind the way it is,

Sometimes I use heavy words on him like “this thing you did disgusts me, it’s irritating etc just to communicate my displeasure

I noticed that every time we have issues and I react, my husband put on this defensive mode. I felt unheard, he wasn’t changing either, so my blabs were always a wasted effort 🥱🥱😒

I got fed up and reached out to one of my female mentors and told her what was happening to my relationship, and at this time, we were already in courtship and preparing to get married

She asked me a question that I will never forget

“Joy when this thing happened, how did you react?”

Then I showed her the messages I sent him and told her the things I said to him

She was shocked, and then she asked

“Are you sure you are not toxic?”

Because this your guy is very cool, calm and collected, and truly my husband is a perfect gentleman, that cannot even hurt a fly….

That day, a realization dawned on me that maybe I could actually be the toxic one.

When we got married, nobody told me to embrace the art of ‘silence’

I realize I whenever we have issues instead of ranting, talking, shouting, I just keep my cool because we are now in the same space, unlike when it was on phone…..

I have seen so many women spoil their relationships in the name of expressing their displeasure and grievances, lol 🤣🤣

Let me tell you for free, THOSE THINGS DON’T MOVE MEN

The love they have for you is one of the reasons they’ll adjust….

As a woman, you must learn to use wisdom to communicate your grievances, or else you’ll spoil what you are building…….

I’ll share more stories as the days go by…..

I want to ask you a question, if your partner offends you, how do you react? Do you say your mind the way it is doing you or you calm down and wait for the right time to express your displeasure??

Tell me in the comment section I’ll be reading.

Also, if you were inspired by my story and wish more ladies will read this,