08/05/2021
THE DEFEATIST SENTIMENT (PART 3)
A QUIET CHILD: Before digging deep into the life of
a quiet child, have this ππat the back of your
mind
" In the days of our fathers, when slaves were
bought, stamping them with a hot iron, putting them
in chains and feeding the mother ocean with some
of them are ways of killing the minds of surviving
slaves to gain their bodies for domestic and
commercial use "
THE EASIEST WAY TO KILL A CHILD IS TO GIVE
HIM/HER PUBLIC DISAPPROVAL especially a quiet child. Having given you
the background above, IT IS UNFORTUNATE THAT
THE QUIET CHILD WHO IS THE MAKER OF OUR
WORLD RECEIVES THE HEAT THE MOST
AMONG THE KINDS OF CHILDREN WE RAISE. It is
real that they appear DEPRESSED, WITH
SELF-CONDEMNATION, NEGATIVE SPIRIT,
INGRATITUDE, IMPOTENT/FRIGID, BUT IT IS NOT
TRUE.
We crucify them because they create a dull
atmosphere and don't charge us up: when in
the truth they are the THINKERS AND INNOVATORS OF
OUR WORLD. They love to conserve energy. NO
CHILD TYPE HAS THE POTENTIAL LIKE A QUIET
CHILD.
They prefer to be approached than approaching
people when it comes to meeting new friends BUT
THEY BECOME FAITHFUL FRIENDS IN THE END.
Sometimes, they are forced to do what they are
wired to do. They shy away from responsibility
They use their time in quietness to power
themselves up for creativity BUT THEIR SILENCE
HAS BEEN TAKEN FOR INACTIVITY. AND THE
DANGER THERE IS THAT THESE CHILDREN
STRUGGLE TO BELIEVE IN THEMSELVES BECAUSE
OF THEIR LOW SELF ESTEEM. So, little attack
brings their fears upon them and that becomes their
reality.
THEIR QUIETNESS IS THEIR STRENGTH: they are
FAST-LEARNERS, GOOD SPELLERS ( because they
take mental pictures of what they see), HIGHLY
SENSITIVE, INQUISITIVE AND ANALYTICAL, SELF
DISCIPLINED, GIFTED AND INDUSTRIOUS THEY
ARE PERFECTIONIST WHICH SPURS THE WORLD
OF CREATIVITY IN THEM. They like to do so much
which puts them in trouble. THEY ARE THINKERS, INNOVATORS, ADVERTISING EXECUTIVES, PUBLIC RELATION DIRECTORS.
HOW TO RAISE A QUIET CHILD
π ENGAGE THEM: with more practicals, they come
up with findings that can bring them honour and
wealth in life
π ENCOURAGE THEM: Though, they don't need
rote learning for their area of interest but they have
low self-esteem so, they need to be motivated.
The mild and tender nature of our children HAS CONCEALED PAINFUL EXPERIENCES WITHIN THEM.
DO NOT WAIT FOR NEGATIVE ENVIRONMENTAL INFLUENCE TO BE OBVIOUS, DANGEROUS in them before you begin to take action.
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