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3 MOST POWERFUL WORD THE NARCISSIST USES TO CONTROL THEIR VICTIMS

I LOVE YOU

SORRY

I PROMISE

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Narcissist

Someone who has little to no empathy,
manipulates others, gaslights (makes others
doubt their reality), lies incessantly, believes
their own lies. They make you doubt your
emptinosavekother-fall you crazy. They rage
for absolutely no reason and you end up
apologizing. It can be a parent, friend, brother,
sister, boss, spouse. In the beginning they love
bomb you into believing they are
prince/princess charming. Then they slowly
start to abuse you to have you believe you are
insane. It's all to control you. They will isolate
you from your family and friends. You will leave
the relationship someone you weren't. You will
appear confused, unable to make your own
decisions, depressed, anxious and with
complex PTSD. So, RUN FAR AWAY.RUN

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The dropping of the bomb is a common tactic of our kind. It is something that happens with regularity. It is an act of manipulation and one which you will recognise. Do any of these scenarios seem familiar?

The day before you are due to travel to the wedding of one of your childhood school friends, we cause an argument in order to avoid going, inventing some reason why this cannot happen. You are accused of not caring about us if you still wish to attend. You eventually end up not going, having to make some excuse as to why you cannot attend.

You are about to have a night out and we create some kind of emergency which delays you from going out or even prevents you from going. There is no emergency.

You have invited friends over for dinner. Shortly before their arrival we will create an almighty argument.

The night before an important interview we keep you awake all night, jabbing you with our elbow and insulting you so you are unable to sleep.

You are about to go away for a few days when we accuse you of having an affair, thus creating a scene, tension and upset.

Whilst the fact that we create arguments, cause confusion and generate drama is standard behaviour, when we engage in dropping the bomb, it is done at a time which is regarded, from your perspective, as a terrible time to do it. It coincides with something special or important happening which leaves the victim wondering why this always seems to happen when they are about to go somewhere or do something.

Dropping the bomb is an instinctive response by us to such situations. When something of importance is about to happen, we respond by creating a drama which appears to be designed to spoil the important or enjoyable event. There is no appears about it. It is a deliberate act. Why does this happen...

You will be familiar with the fact that one day you are c**k of the walk and the next day you are a feather duster. You are atop the pedestal and in a flash you have been thrown from it and you are lying in the dust as we stand over you berating you. The sudden switch from hero to zero, from princess to pauper, from “good person” to “bad person” is perhaps the most confusing, bewildering and upsetting.

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