09/07/2022
Posted • 💁🏻♀️I’m Bryana & I teach you how to connect more deeply with your children.
Most parents want to avoid the meltdown at all costs, and as a result, end up fueling the fire.
We try to avoid the meltdowns by redirecting the child immediately, trying to cheer them up before they’re ready, or giving them everything they’re asking for so we don’t have to deal with any shenanigans.
👋🏼I’m a toddler mom of 2 toddlers. Believe me, I get the allure.
And, I want to see this amazing community of conscious parents find more confidence with the big feelings.
🔑We ALWAYS start with connection. To connect with kids, we have to:
🔑Understand ourselves: why am I bothered by this? Why do I want to make this stop? What’s this about for me?
🔑Understand the child’s experience: what is my child trying to tell me with their behaviors? What’s the underlying need that requires my support?
From this place of checking ourselves & then joining in our child’s experience flows all the “solutions.”
🔥This is why I don’t believe in hacking our way through parenthood.
🔥I believe in healing our way through parenthood.
Because most of us had parents who aimed to “solve” our emotional problems, but didn’t actually teach us how to be WITH our emotions.
They “solved” by threatening us, spanking us, humiliating us, ignoring us, or rewarding our passivity, giving us a complex about being an emotional burden on others.
✅I want to teach you a more evolved way to consciously manage your child’s meltdowns and big feelings.
✅If you’re ready to learn, enroll in my new LIVE workshop CONSCIOUSLY MANAGING MELTDOWNS. I’m offering it this Friday, March 4th, at 1p PST. There will be live captions, and it will be recorded for later viewing.
✅I’ll teach you how to discover your own needs, how to respond in supportive ways to your child’s underlying needs, and my ABC approach to tantrum management. You don’t want to miss this. Link in bio.
👇🏼Have you tried to appease your child out of a meltdown before? How did it go?