27/12/2021
Your Child is struggling. She refuses to wake up for school. When forced to attend, she stares out the window despite the Teacher yelling ๐ก at her to pay attention. At home, she tries doing her homework, but in truth, the difficulty is far above her level. She gives up and watches videos instead.
You look at her most recent exam paper. A big red โญ๏ธ is written on it. When confronted, your Child's eyes become red with tears and she stares silently at the floor.
You have no idea what to do, and in your heart you know it'll get worse ๐ซ.
This is a story we hear too often. Fortunately, our Students do not suffer like this.
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20/12/2021
I want to tell a story about the ๐ฆ๐๐๐ข๐ก๐ biggest bane to success - ๐บ๐ฒ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ผ๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐ (or, being wishy washy and settling for being average)
A friend consulted me, in despair, "Kean, one year ago, I lost RM320,000 (~USD80k) in a scam. The thought of losing a decade's savings still kills me every day, even one year later. I just want to be productive and happy again."
After helping him feel better, he nodded his head and said,
"Yes. RM320,000 is not a life changing amount. I don't need to be rich. I just need enough to survive."
Ah, this is the point where I slapped him (not literally haha!), and I will slap any of you who says the same.
Pardon my language, but screw that. Our past failures are painful, but they should be lessons, NOT an excuse for us to settle for MEDIOCRITY.
Before we say things like, "I don't need that much money..." or "I can be happy alone," be ๐ญ๐ฌ๐ฌ% ๐ต๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ๐๐ and ask yourself if that's what you really want, or if you're trying to give yourself a backdoor to escape from future heartbreak.
Don't say, "I just need enough to survive." Instead, say, "I want to be filthy rich, and I will get the knowledge / skills to get there."
Don't say, "RM320,000 is not a life changing amount." Instead, say, "I lost RM320,000, it was really painful, but I've learnt to be stronger."
Don't say, "I don't need a companion, I can be happy alone." Instead, say, "I deserve a loving partner and I'm becoming someone I love, too."
Don't say things if we don't mean them, just to avoid future pain. We'll become sick from contradictions.
No matter what mistakes we've made, no matter who we've hurt, no matter how much we've lost, we mustn't "comfort" ourselves by settling for being average.
State what you want, hold that image in your mind, and get the skills or mastery to get there.
Don't worry. I'll slap you if you stray.
14/12/2021
Ah everyone is talking about chopsticks in Malaysia. Well, I have an inspiring story to tell about language and leadership.
Some weeks back, I was asked by a repeat client to design and deliver a Bahasa Melayu course on Leadership.
As a former lawyer, I was confident. Although some technical terms were headscratchers (flash quiz: what's the BM word for "Alignment"?), my (mostly Malay) participants enjoyed translating together.
I thought I did a swell job until their boss, a wheelchaired young Chinese man, thanked me at the end of the session, stood up on crutches, and delivered a speech in PERFECT Bahasa Baku, swapping seamlessly to informal Northern BM for heavy doses of humor.
Needless to say, the crowd was thrilled and enraptured, myself included.
I later found out that he was struck by a mysterious bacterial infection last year. The disease ate away most of his lungs and had even reached his heart / brains. At the time, doctors told him that he would never walk again.
And yet, here he was, standing on his crutches (struggling and ignoring the pain), telling BM jokes to us amidst a compromised immune system.
Later, I asked him why he took the risk of contracting Covid by coming to see us physically. He replied, simply,
"I'm their leader. How can I ask them to serve, when I'm hiding at home behind a Zoom screen? Well anyway this hotel serves pretty good lunch."
Sir, heroes like you are what makes Malaysia great. Leaders like you make it easy for me to say,
"Saya sayangi Malaysia, dan Malaysia sayangi saya."
โๆ็ฑ้ฉฌๆฅ่ฅฟไบ๏ผ่้ฉฌๆฅ่ฅฟไบไน็ฑๆโ
I love Malaysia, and Malaysia loves me.
A few days later, I had to deliver the same course, but in ๅ่ฏญ, and you can bet that it was inspired, and enriched, by that brave, young wheelchaired leader who spoke to us in seamless BM.
23/11/2021
Yesterday, I got some news which served as a wake up call. It broke my heart, too.
My son, Shearn (6) is graduating from kindergarten. Soon, he'll have to put on his adorable kindy uniform for his graduation photos.
A uniform he hasn't worn for around 20 months now, due to the pandemic.
** Why am I sentimental about this? Well, I want to tell you a story. A story which changed the life of my older son, Kye.
When Kye was younger (4), he was a bit sullen and stubborn in kindergarten. His teacher was concerned. I asked, sincerely, if we could do anything.
She said, simply, "Bring him to school 30 minutes earlier so he can play and jostle with his friends in the playground."
And that made a huge difference in Kye's temperament and personality. Those daily 30 minutes made him kinder, more vibrant, and friendlier. What a huge difference a bit of physical play-time makes in our lives!
This experience also made a profound impact on me, and shortly thereafter I started my journey as an educator.
** While it's awesome that Shearn has picked up awesome coding and video editing skills at home, I can't wait for the pandemic to be over so all young children can play together in school again.
In the meantime, here's my gentle plea to you: Please spend time and PHYSICALLY play with your children at the playground whenever you can. Let's put our phones down for just a second, and build with them a childhood worth remembering amidst these challenging times!
05/11/2021
"Do I need to take care of my health?" Well, to be honest, a couple of months ago, I told myself, "Nah!" (Not you Aly Alias Stephen Nah teehee)
Yes, I talk a ton about self-love, but never about physical health.
That was until I had to pull an all-nighter for work. Well, for 2 whole weeks, my eyes were deep red (which really affected my training sessions), and I felt terrible all the time. A simple all-nighter impacted me so badly!
Well, that was a wake up call for me to start a food therapy regimen. Yesterday (Happy Deepavali!) I completed the regimen, I felt GREAT, and I truly understood how a healthy body gave me the freedom to:
๐ ๐๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ผ๐ฝ ๐ฆ๐๐ฟ๐ผ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ๐ป๐ฑ๐ ๐๐ถ๐๐ต ๐๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฑ๐: I met up with the fantastic Marilyn Yim and I was so touched to receive a copy of her wonderful book, "The Little Black Heart" as well as other amazing gifts!
๐ฅง ๐๐ฎ๐ ๐ช๐ต๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ (๐ช๐ถ๐๐ต ๐ ๐ผ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป): I met up with dear friend Andy Cheah Chor Min and we ate the most mouthwatering PIES! Thank you for sharing your experience my friend, I enjoyed every second!
๐ช ๐ช๐ผ๐ฟ๐ธ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ฃ๐น๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฑ: If I had to spend a public holiday working, I can't imagine better mates than you guys, Cynthia Chiam, Charlene, Yuriah Chong and Kimmy, or for a more worthy project than the !
๐จโ๐ซ ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ ๐ง๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ป๐ถ๐ป๐ด๐ ๐๐ถ๐๐ต ๐๐น๐น ๐ ๐ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ฆ๐ผ๐๐น: Thank you to the lovely Emily Cha for organizing an training session with the team: OyMoon Ng, Gyen, Shen, Joyce Gan and Chee Meng. You guys are amazing!
Yes, we often focus on sharpening our minds, and nurturing our souls, but we can't get there and help more people if our vehicle is broken and tattered.
Do get in touch with these amazing coaches like Coach ken, Shen Choo or Jessie G Chan, or you can pm me directly for more details on the food therapy session I went through (highly recommended!)
04/11/2021
"๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฑ๐ผ ๐ ๐๐๐ผ๐ฝ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐บ๐๐๐ฒ๐น๐ณ ๐๐ถ๐๐ต ๐ฏ๐ฎ๐ฑ ๐บ๐ฒ๐บ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฒ๐?" asked the Hare. You see, when the Hare lost that fateful foot race to the Tortoise precisely one year ago, his life collapsed.
He was devastated, of course, and the ridicule and harassments came.
"You deserved to lose, you braggart!"
"Go sleep at home instead of on the race track, you loser!"
The Owl raised his eyebrows. Unlike the other animals, the Owl was wiser, and slower to judge. Over the year, he had seen the Hare become kinder and practicing hard.
Now, the day of the re-match had come, and the Hare stood trembling in front of him, haunted by memories of past failures and embarrassments.
The Owl asked, "If you could go back to one year ago, knowing what you know now, would you have lost the race?"
The Hare thought carefully, and said, "No. I know what went wrong back then."
"So stop punishing yourself over things which won't happen TODAY," grumbled the Owl.
So the Hare went, and did his best, and won his revenge match, and felt really silly for ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฟ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ฎ ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ต๐ถ๐บ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ณ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ฐ๐ต ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ฒ๐๐ป'๐ ๐ฒ๐
๐ถ๐๐ ๐๐ผ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐.
The end.
29/10/2021
โ๐ ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐น ๐๐ผ ๐๐๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ด๐๐ถ๐น๐๐ ๐ฎ๐น๐น ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ถ๐บ๐ฒ, ๐๐ต๐ถ๐น๐ฒ ๐บ๐ ๐ธ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ป๐ฒ๐ด๐น๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ต๐๐ฟ๐...โ
If your inner voice says that sometimes, take heart. Join me tonight (Friday, 29 October at 8pm (GMT+8) as I run a free Parenting Workshop during the Global Empowerment Summit!
I'll cheer you up, laugh with you, and give you these immediate actionable tips so you can get right back to being a positive, radiant influence for your Children:
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Understanding Self-Love and Regulating Our Own Emotions
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Creating Boundaries for Ourselves / Our Loved Ones
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Healthy Communication with Our Loved Ones / Colleagues
Join us by clicking on my link at 8pm here: https://www.whatwomenwantworkshops.com/general-7
Of course, there are countless other topics for discussion when it comes to Parenting, such as:
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How to help my Child overcome gadget addiction
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How do I help my Child to be honest and stop lying
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How do I motivate my Child, who is lost and directionless
So, if you want to explore these issues and help your Child get right back to being that cheerful angel, my weekend in-depth workshop is for you!
๐ง๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ป'๐ ๐๐ป ๐๐ฒ๐ฝ๐๐ต ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ช๐ผ๐ฟ๐ธ๐๐ต๐ผ๐ฝ
Date: Saturday and Sunday, 30 and 31 October 2021
Time: 10AM - 1PM per day (3 hours per day)
Price: Use code MERDEKA30 for a discount to ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฏ๐ด๐ด ๐ผ๐ป๐น๐
Register here: https://teacherkean.com/workshop/paid/
I'm really excited to talk to you in both workshops, so I'll see you soon!
28/10/2021
๐ฆ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐จ๐ฝ๐น๐ถ๐ณ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด? ๐ช๐ต๐ถ๐ฐ๐ต ๐ถ๐ ๐ ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ณ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ?
Yesterday, I was helping my 6yo with his Mandarin exam. As it was not his cup of tea, he put up a lot of resistance.
While he was rolling on the sofa complaining ๐ญ (so cute!), I ventured, "How would you feel if you can't answer a single question during the exam?"
Well, he paused, little brain ๐ง struggling mightily to comprehend the ramifications of getting a zero 0๏ธโฃ in the exam... then continued rolling and complaining.
So, I had a deeper thought about his dreams. He wanted to be a teacher, too, so I said, "Can you imagine your students praising and asking you how to be great at Mandarin ๐จโ๐ซ?"
Immediately, he got up and went to work. When he correctly recited a sentence, I said, "Wow, do remember how so you can help your future students!" That really kept him going!
In the end, he got 60% on the exam, but I was mighty proud of his hard work.
๐ข When we want people to get something done, there are two ways to do it: Tell them the consequences if they don't, or sell them a vision of a pleasant outcome.
The research is pretty clear on this. ๐ฃ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐บ๐๐ฐ๐ต ๐บ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐บ๐ผ๐๐ถ๐๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐ผ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐ฎ ๐ต๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฑ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ป ๐ฎ๐๐ผ๐ถ๐ฑ ๐ฎ ๐ฏ๐ฎ๐ฑ ๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ.
That's not to say consequences and punishment have no place in our Parenting toolbox. There will be times where our kids need to be deterred from harmful (or hurtful) behaviors and actions.
โบ This weekend, I'll be talking about reinforcement and consequences in my Parenting Workshop, where I'll also be addressing pressing issues including:
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How to help my Child overcome gadget addiction
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How do I help my Child to be honest and stop lying
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How do I motivate my Child, who is lost and directionless
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How to finally love myself, as a Parent and person
๐ง๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ป'๐ ๐๐ป ๐๐ฒ๐ฝ๐๐ต ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ช๐ผ๐ฟ๐ธ๐๐ต๐ผ๐ฝ
Date: Saturday and Sunday, 30 and 31 October 2021
Time: 10AM - 1PM per day (3 hours per day)
Price: Use code MERDEKA30 for a discount to ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฏ๐ด๐ด ๐ผ๐ป๐น๐
Register here: https://teacherkean.com/workshop/paid/
I'm eternally grateful for the chance to serve Parents, their Children (and generations to come), so I am infinitely excited to see you this weekend!
25/10/2021
๐๐ป ๐๐ฟ๐๐๐ต, ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ป๐น๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ป ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฎ๐ป๐ด๐ฒ ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐น๐ฑ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป, ๐ถ๐ ๐ฏ๐ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฟ๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฎ๐ป๐ด๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐น๐๐ฒ๐.
I want to share with you a little lesson I learnt this month, when I conducted Parenting workshops on procrastination, and talking to kids who have given up on us.
After compiling all the research, I began to structure my workshops. Try as I might, I realized there was no way to teach the topics without first talking about self-love and self-awareness.
๐ Recently, I spoke about changing people. I believe that it's impossible for us to change anyone else, and this extends to our Children as well.
Instead, we have the amazing ability to INFLUENCE people. The most beautiful definition I've read about "influence" goes like this,
"Influence is the impact we have on others' behavior, by first changing or adjusting our own attitudes and behavior."
โบ This weekend, I'm so appreciative to be hosting an in-depth Parenting Workshop, where I'll be addressing pressing issues including:
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How to help my Child overcome gadget addiction
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How do I help my Child to be honest and stop lying
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How do I motivate my Child, who is lost and directionless
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How to finally love myself, as a Parent and person
๐ง๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ป'๐ ๐๐ป ๐๐ฒ๐ฝ๐๐ต ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ช๐ผ๐ฟ๐ธ๐๐ต๐ผ๐ฝ
Date: Saturday and Sunday, 30 and 31 October 2021
Time: 10AM - 1PM per day (3 hours per day)
Price: Use code MERDEKA30 for a discount to ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฏ๐ด๐ด ๐ผ๐ป๐น๐
Register here: https://teacherkean.com/workshop/paid/
Don't sit on this! I've seen so many families fall into horrible states, when early guidance could help both Parents and Children so much healthier, happier and successful.
I'm eternally grateful for the chance to serve Parents, their Children (and generations to come), so I am infinitely excited to see you this weekend!
22/10/2021
Have you ever met a person who has already made up their mind about you? No matter what you say, they are determined to find faults in your speech and see the worst in you ๐ก.
Let's not be too harsh on ourselves. A lot of the time, when people dislike us, or have an unfavourable opinion of us, it has nothing to do with US.
Often, they're projecting their own insecurities or past pain ๐ซ onto us.
๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฑ๐ผ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น ๐๐ถ๐๐ต ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ ๐น๐ถ๐ธ๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐๐ฒ?
Fortunately, most of us are mature enough to walk away and forget that person. After all, in truth, there are tons of people who admire and love us. These people are determined to see the best in us. Why not spend our time and effort on appreciative people instead?
But this line of action is not always available. It might be your boss, your spouse, your partner or your Child who is suspicious or resentful of you. Sometimes, your Child is so reluctant to talk to you that they would rather LIE to you, or suffer alone in silence.
These are not bonds which are easily broken.
Fortunately, science has given us a clue or two about bringing people around. It has a lot to do with our own mental and emotional states, and being compassionate to the other person's needs.
I want to talk to you about this, tomorrow, at my free Parenting Workshop:
๐๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฒ ๐ช๐ผ๐ฟ๐ธ๐๐ต๐ผ๐ฝ: ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ง๐ฎ๐น๐ธ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ถ๐ฑ๐ (๐๐ฒ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ช๐ฒ ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐จ๐ฝ ๐ผ๐ป ๐ฌ๐ผ๐)
Date: Saturday, 23 October 2021
Time: 1PM - 2PM
Register here: https://lnkd.in/gFzNmz9i for Zoom details
In the meantime, I want to hear your stories. Have you ever successfully changed someone's (bad) opinion of you? How did you do it?
21/10/2021
"๐๐'๐ ๐ข๐๐ฟ ๐๐ต๐ผ๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ช๐ฒ ๐๐น๐น๐ผ๐ ๐ฆ๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ ๐๐ผ ๐ ๐ฎ๐ธ๐ฒ ๐จ๐ ๐๐ป๐ด๐ฟ๐"
How do we teach a child this concept? What's the best way for them to learn that we are in charge of the way we feel?
Even as adults, we struggle to practice this. So when our kids scream, "HE STARTED IT! It's not my faaaauuuulllttttt!!!", how can we guide them?
๐ฆ๐๐ฒ๐ฝ ๐ฌ ๐ถ๐ ๐๐น๐๐ฎ๐๐ ๐๐๐ถ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ง๐ต๐ฒ๐บ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ฎ๐น๐บ
Let's not leave them to "cry it out" or say "It's a small deal, stop crying." We can do more, like deep breathing, distracting them, and teaching them to appreciate the things that went right! With practice, they'll grow to be resilient and grateful.
After they're a bit steadier, invite them to talk about their feelings and be a great listener.
๐ฆ๐๐ฒ๐ฝ ๐ฎ ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ผ๐ป๐ฎ๐น๐ฑ ๐๐๐ฐ๐ธ ๐๐ ๐๐ผ๐ผ๐ณ๐
This is my favorite technique! Mickey, Donald and Goofy. Ask your Child, "When the trio get into trouble, how do each of them respond?"
Do you want to be with someone like ๐๐ผ๐ป๐ฎ๐น๐ฑ, lashing out at everyone, or would you rather be with someone like ๐๐ผ๐ผ๐ณ๐, optimistic and relaxed?
Explain they each deal with bad news differently, and it's our choice to view setbacks as catastrophes, or as growing opportunities. Praise them, not for results, but for standing up again!
๐ฆ๐๐ฒ๐ฝ ๐ฏ ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ฐ๐ธ๐ป๐ผ๐๐น๐ฒ๐ฑ๐ด๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ง๐ต๐ฒ๐ถ๐ฟ ๐๐ฒ๐ฒ๐น๐ถ๐ป๐ด๐
Do emphasize that their feelings are valid, and that WE get angry too. The question is, how long? When we accept that being angry is a CHOICE, we have the wonderful freedom of moving on instead of punishing ourselves.
๐ฆ๐๐ฒ๐ฝ ๐ฐ ๐ถ๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฎ ๐๐ผ๐ผ๐ฑ ๐ฅ๐ผ๐น๐ฒ ๐ ๐ผ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐น
Ultimately, if we're always blaming others for how we feel, then our Children will learn the same.
If we can smile, and search for opportunities in the face of adversity, can you imagine how strong and loving our Children will be!
20/10/2021
"๐ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ป'๐ ๐ธ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ต๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ฎ๐น๐ธ ๐๐ผ ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐๐ผ๐ป ๐ฎ๐ป๐๐บ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฒ. ๐ฌ๐ผ๐ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น ๐๐ถ๐๐ต ๐ต๐ถ๐บ. ๐๐'๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฝ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ฏ๐ถ๐น๐ถ๐๐. ๐ก"
Your Child had a bad day. He doesn't want to talk about it. Your spouse tried reaching out, but as usual, both of them ended up angry and arguing.
๐ช Hurtful things were said.
"Fine, if you don't even want to listen to me, you're going to have a tough time in the real world."
"If you don't tell me what's going on right now, you're sleeping outside the house."
๐คซ ๐๐ป๐ฑ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ ๐๐ผ๐ป๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐๐ต๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ถ๐ฟ ๐ธ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ ๐๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ ๐น๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐บ...
If you, or someone you know, are in this situation, I think it's really risky to let it continue. In my experience as an Educator, I've seen many Children GIVE UP on their Parents and develop very harmful habits ๐, when a little understanding and language skills could have made a huge difference.
Of course, as Parents, we have our own skills, experience and perspective, but how can we share them with our Children / correct them without getting into a cold war each time?
As usual, Teacher Kean will share insights, proven methods and researched backed methods to help you start having deep conversations with your Child again (while having fun!)
๐๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฒ ๐ช๐ผ๐ฟ๐ธ๐๐ต๐ผ๐ฝ: ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ง๐ฎ๐น๐ธ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ถ๐ฑ๐ (๐๐ฒ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ช๐ฒ ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐จ๐ฝ ๐ผ๐ป ๐ฌ๐ผ๐)
Date: Saturday, 23 October 2021
Time: 1PM - 2PM
Venue: Register here: https://teacherkean.com/workshop/free/ for Zoom details