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EGO - Edging God Out.
God speaks through vulnerability. Are your relationships ego-based?

Last Thursday was very powerful... Not only did it was very creative but also very spiritually, emotionally, and mentally liberating.

Last Thursday I had a session with my client.
‼️ Yes, I am having live coaching sessions at my place as well, not only online

That session was dedicated to connecting to the inner child and discovering his language...

Language of love and the language of his soul.

In the first part of the session, we discovered the way his inner child was getting love from his mother, but about it - in another post, as there is a lot to share…

This time I want to focus on the second part of the session. We painted a painting. The task was to invite the inner child and allow him to express whatever he wanted to express through colors, shapes, and images.

I gave him my equipment and he got very into it. While he was painting, I took pastels and decided to do the same for myself.

I invited my little one to speak through the art. Opposite to my client, I really struggled to start… I had no idea what I should paint. Nothing just came to my mind! I felt frustrated. Then… Then I heard a voice/an idea: “You don’t need to have a final picture in your mind. Just allow your hand to move the way it wants to move and trust”.

So I listened to it. I chose a random color that I felt drawn to and I started making a big spiraled circle, then the other one… I got into a momentum and it became very easy and fun to paint whatever, however :D

This is my painting you see in the photo 🙂

It was amazing to see how the message of my inner child and the message of his, was almost identical! If the client allows, I will share his painting as well and the message of his inner child that I was able to channel at the end of the session.

When it comes to my inner child, with this painting, my little one says:

“It is ME. Me who stands out. Me, who takes up the space and shines. I was told all over and over again that it is not good to focus on Self, it is not good to shine and be seen because I didn’t deserve it, because I didn’t look good enough, I was not good enough, my thoughts and ideas didn’t matter, while my talents were dismissed. I was told that taking care of Self and my own happiness is narcissistic. I should never do it. Rather I should take care of others - that’s the purpose of life!

That’s what I learned about life.

But you know what? I’m so done with this bu****it! The ones who told me that focusing on Self is not good and that I rather should focus on others are exactly those narcissistic people who wanted to benefit from me serving their happiness.

No more! I’m taking my power back! Power of love.

I start seeing myself as God sees me. And God wants me to be happy. God wants me to love myself exactly as God loves me. God wants to see me shine and share my greatest talents with others because exactly God is who gave me those talents. He made me a reflection of him. I am an extension of him. God lives within my cells! So why shouldn’t I express God? Why should I hide gifts that God gifted me with?

All the wisdom and inspiration to express myself I am receiving from God. That energy that feels so bright and warm, as the loving and comforting rays of sunshine. That energy simply enters my body, it flows to me and through me. And I want to share that with others! It is just too much for me alone to keep it for myself. It is overwhelming at times those feelings of love, inspiration, and wisdom. So I want to share. I want to give and I want to be seen and acknowledged for what I have to give. Because what I have to give comes from God. I am just a channel, a physical manifestation of his glory.

I feel the best when I am in cooperation with God. I feel that I create value in this world. I feel meaning, purpose, and joy when I am in a union. Uniting the spiritual with the material. Bringing into form something that I feel so deeply.

So this is ME.

I AM. And I state it, and I show it out loud so others can no longer avoid seeing me - I AM! And my existence matters. I am here for a reason and I am answering the call. The call of God to be the most authentic version of myself. The way he sees me.

And I accept the fact that my light will be too bright for some people to handle. Those people who choose to live in darkness, who choose to stay stuck and stagnant, disconnected from God. Who push a snooze button on Divine’s call for their own life. I will trigger them, their wounds, their pain. I will shine the light on their shadow, on their darkness and it will feel painful.

But how others feel is no longer my responsibility as long as I act with integrity and good intentions. They need to be accountable for their own triggers and understand what those are trying to tell them about THEM.

I free myself from all the restrictions and expectations of the religion I was raised upon, of society, and of my loved ones. I no longer follow human flesh. My guide is God - the ultimate creator which I am a reflection of.

I am a Divine Child. I AM that I AM.”

𝐑𝐮𝐧 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐕𝐒 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐲 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 - 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰?

In the past I used to be stubbornly avoidant like no tomorrow 😅 I was running away from people, places, and situations that made me feel uncomfortable, rather than looking to the trigger of my discomfort and trying to work with that.

Interestingly enough, I massively kept attracting emotionally unavailable people who were rejecting me with their dismissive behavior. Whether it was friends, family members or romantic interests.

Because of that hurt that I overdosed at some point, I started going within and asking fundamental questions, for example: why am I finding myself in this repetitive pattern all over again? Am I emotionally unavailable? Where and when am I avoiding my emotions?

I found the answers to these questions by healing the relationship with my inner child and doing shadow work. Going to those emotionally dark places that I never wanted to revisit again.

Just by allowing myself to feel all that was coming up, I was able to understand and clearly see how much I was de-pressing my emotions and how much, actually, I was not expressing to others about how I felt, and how much their behavior hurt me.

At this point of my healing, I can say, that I finally changed the pattern!

I still attract emotionally unavailable people BUT...

But now I'm not running away anymore.

I stay.

I stay with my emotional pain and I stay in the relationship, so I can express how I feel in regards to the treatment that I received.

I no longer hold back neither what I think, nor what I feel.

And I am very intentional with it. My intention is never (or should I say no longer?) to hurt another person. It's for me to be heard and seen by another, for my heart to be witnessed.

So I chose and I am still choosing to confront VS to avoid life.

And that was exactly what changed the pattern...

The moment I speak my peace, I feel COMPLETION.
And then I feel I am free to go, move on, and choose better the next time.

CONTINUE READING IN THE COMMENTS...

How does your life look like when you are healed?
AUTHENTIC.
How does that look like?

𝐑𝐮𝐧 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐕𝐒 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐲 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 - 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰?

In the past I used to be stubbornly avoidant like no tomorrow 😅 I was running away from people, places, and situations that made me feel uncomfortable, rather than looking to the trigger of my discomfort and trying to work with that.

Interestingly enough, I massively kept attracting emotionally unavailable people who were rejecting me with their dismissive behavior. Whether it was friends, family members or romantic interests.

Because of that hurt that I overdosed at some point, I started going within and asking fundamental questions, for example: why am I finding myself in this repetitive pattern all over again? Am I emotionally unavailable? Where and when am I avoiding my emotions?

I found the answers to these questions by healing the relationship with my inner child and doing shadow work. Going to those emotionally dark places that I never wanted to revisit again.

Just by allowing myself to feel all that was coming up, I was able to understand and clearly see how much I was de-pressing my emotions and how much, actually, I was not expressing to others about how I felt, and how much their behavior hurt me.

At this point of my healing, I can say, that I finally changed the pattern!

I still attract emotionally unavailable people BUT...

But now I'm not running away anymore.

I stay.

I stay with my emotional pain and I stay in the relationship, so I can express how I feel in regards to the treatment that I received.

I no longer hold back neither what I think, nor what I feel.

And I am very intentional with it. My intention is never (or should I say no longer?) to hurt another person. It's for me to be heard and seen by another, for my heart to be witnessed.

So I chose and I am still choosing to confront VS to avoid life.

And that was exactly what changed the pattern...

The moment I speak my peace, I feel COMPLETION.
And then I feel I am free to go, move on, and choose better the next time.

And if I bump into an emotionally unavailable person again, I no longer see it as bad karma. I meet them with gratitude.

With gratitude that they give me an opportunity to practice deep deep vulnerability.

Those are my master teachers that I will be grateful forever.

So run away or stay in the relationship - how to know?

Speak your heart out loud and then you will feel the answer if there is something else left in that relationship or if you feel complete because of spiritual karma being resolved.

But if you choose to run away, I promise you one thing for sure - you will not run far away from the problem because wherever you go - you take yourself with :) The problem is not within another - It's within you and how you handle problematic people.

So it takes two to tango. Always.

The moment you do your part - you are clean in the relational sh*tuation :D

I hope it helps, especially as we are approaching an eclipse season, which is all about relationships and Self VS another.

If you want assistance in working with your inner child, developing the skills of vulnerable Self-expression, and overcoming fears, feel free to reach out personally by messenger or book the first call here: www.authenticyou.today

Take care and much Love 💛 As always 😊
Ligita

If it feels famil(y)iar, it doesnt mean it's healthy. Oftentimes healthy is what feels outside the comfort zone.

When somebody talks from their scars, rather than wounds, you know they healed.
Victor VS Victim
Overcame VS still dealing with

The voice is like a soap for a daily energy hygiene. I'm washing myself from the projections of others by speaking up.
Confront VS avoid life

My magic lies in my open heart which is feeling the information of the situation on the intuitive level, and then my mind gives me explanation of what I was sensing.

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I got a permission from Tilly to share the results of her beautiful growth that I had an honor to be an important part of.

She wrote it very well... Such labels as being "too sensitive" or "introvert" became just other excuses to keep the heart closed of.

Then we become defencive as unconsciously we perceive others to be a problem. But this is just our unconscious belief that we are going to be judged and critisized by others for being different than them. So we punish ourselves by isolating ourselves, before others have a chance to punish us. Rejecting others before others have a chance to reject us.

And that's where is a danger to be very judgamental towards others and lack taking accountability for our own unconscious behaviour patterns.

Yes, highly sensitive people have serious social anxiety, it is difficult for them to find the sense of belonging in the communities.

But I tell you from my personal experience - there is nothing more rewarding on a soul level, as a full self acceptance and ability to be a full self-expression everywhere I go.

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If you want to feel comfortable in your own skin, feel confident about who you truly are and actualize yourself in the most authentic way, feel free to reach out.

Book your first call here: www.authenticyou.today

And I want to leave you with the thought...

If people get transformative experience just in 1minute of my speach, imagine how much your world might change for the better after 30 minutes of a call.

*30mins call offer can take only those who never took this offer before. It is a one time opportunity for new people, who never worked with me before

Healing doesnt mean becoming emotionless. Opposite - it's becoming emotionfull as a result of openning the 💛 & knowing how to express it properly