12/01/2016
"My one is the best" is
How most people feel soon after they marry
With time when honeymoon phase fades and realities become visible only a few still feel that their one is the best.
Others change into " oops I have to adjust" , " a wrong decision" , " others have got better onse"...... and so on.
Marriage is not about marrying the perfect person. It's about understanding an imperfect person perfectly and holding hands through out the life with the perfect love.
Maintaining the feeling "my one is the best" even after years and years is a hard output of lots of compromises, devotions and forgiving moments and forgetting the stuff you can't even imagine putting them out of your head.
Perfection is something that no human has and only the lord owns. It's him that binds two imperfect souls into a best match.
No comparisons- no under estimation of our one or the other's is the secret of finding the best of your one and being the best for your better half.