Who I Am

Instead of falling back on all of the bad things that happened to you, you are building a good, positive bank of experiences that has, as it’s base, the understanding that makes us too big and too negative of a word, while experience is bigger and more constructive to your life.

Time is only wasted when it is used for efforts that prove to be disappointing and which we regard as a waste. If we change the way we look at the disappointment, and consider it an experience that we can learn from, we add one new thing into the shape of our personalities.

The right person appreciate you. They value you, your energy & your time. They cherish you, they believe in you & support you however they can. They don’t makes excuses & their actions speak louder than words. That’s how you know who’s meant to stay in your life.

Maybe you overthink so much because:

1. You didn’t grow up in a safe environment.
2. You took on adult duties way too early in life.
3. You get hurt no matter how hard you try.
4. You were harshly judged for making mistakes.
5. You had to figure out everything on your own.
6. You were made to feel you aren’t good enough.

Leave a place that you feel valueless. If you stay still, the more painful you will get. Leave it and start to smile for yourself again. I’m not important anymore. Saying is just a word, but action is the way we can see the reality. It is too much to handle that things. We should know each other since the beginning. Later on, beside myself and my family, no one that I gonna be trust again. They already taught me lessons.

# Leave that Place as much as possible.

The 12 steps to self-love are:

1. If it feels wrong, don’t do it.
2. Say exactly what you mean.
3. Don’t be a people pleaser.
4. Trust your instincts.
5. Never speak bad about yourself.
6. Never give up on your dreams.
7. Don’t be afraid to say No
8. Don’t be afraid to say Yes
9. Be kind to yourself
10. Let go of what you cannot control
11. Stay away from drama and negativity
12. Love ❤️

# ស្រលាញ់ខ្លួនឯងអោយច្រើនៗ នៅពេលដែលអ្នកនៅមានពេល រស់ជាខ្លួនឯង មានលក្ខណៈជាខ្លួនឯង អ្នកនឹងមិនសូវមានភាពអវិជ្ជមានច្រើននៅក្នុងខ្លួន

Don’t worry about what people say behind your back. They are the people who are finding faults in your life instead of fixing their own.

“ We must become the change we want to see”
“Mahatma Gandhi”
=> Bring about the change you want to be of your own actions. You change yourself and do whatever is you wish others did. If you want change, first begin with yourself instead of telling other to change or to do this or that. Do it yourself and try your best.

In the morning, when you wake up, make up bed, drink a glass of water and wash you face and you see yourself in the mirror, I encourage you to say that you’re so beautiful, you’re unique, whatever you have been through since yesterday, just keep going. Let passed it away. Leave your past, dwell in the present, careless about future. Try your best for today reality yours. Make your first second in the morning by your blossom smiling and push up your passion with energy. Good day, guys.

Thank you,
Nith.