17/08/2022
WHERE DO BABIES COME FROM?π¨βπ©βπ§π€¦
In our days, the enquiring mind of the child is labeled pompous and disrepectful. The bold, courageous and independent-child is stubborn and arrogant.
On the flip side, the tame, docile, timid and unquestioning child is accepted as good and well-behaved.
In such a traditional way of living, value is placed on certain precise protocols in speech and actions, with very little room left for questioners.
Most of us grew up in such societies and families, where it's a taboo to questions. We were meant to believe that obedience means accepting whatever the society deem to be OK and acceptable, if you dare ask question, you are seen as a rebel.
This mindset is an inhibitor of growth. Those who seek to change their present unacceptable circumstances must muster the courage to question those attitudes of their which have fed the situation they dislike.
That childlike questioning attitude should never be quenched in kids rather should be properly harnessed and channeled right.
When a little child gets a toy he plays with it for a while and then start dismantling it to find out how it works. Many children have received some good spanking from adults who spend a chunk of their hard earned money to buy those expensive toys. Adults only open the toy when it breaks down. And even that they will want an expert to do it for them.
The child does not wait till the toys stops working in order to discover how the toy works. He opens it whilst it is still working.
That's how children express their restlessness. It is not naughtiness; it is just a desire to know.
That innocent desire in kids most times are killed at early age, the kid grow to become an adult that accepts whatever the society throws at him. His ability to ask silent questions have been quenched.
The quality of your question will determine the quality of the answers you receive. Most people ask self preservation questions, they remove themselves from the equation and make othe