REMMY

23/04/2024

WHAT IS YOUR RAC!SM EXPERIENCE?!!

An asian guy once stopped me in a subway station in Singapore just to peep into my nose to confirm if am black inside too.

😂😂😂😂 someone posted this 👆👆 on a travel group and I remembered my experience in Europe. 👇👇👇

In Europe my classmate asked me if this is real hair and I said yes, he asked to touch and I allowed him to and he could not believe it is sold. He said he thought it was so hard that is why it was standing 😅, I don't get bothered with them touching my beautiful hair even though in America they have been sued for that. Then it started raining, he opened the window curtains wide open I thought he was about to break the rail, and then he asked me if I have ever seen rain? 🤣

Haibo wena, before I even answered he asked me what I do when I see 👁👁 a lion 🦁 in Africa? At this point I was mad and confused. I told him I say hi to it and just continue walking. He was not done, he then asked me: "And it doesn't attack you?"
👁👁???? I told him when you say Jambo it can never attack you. He said wow! And I realised they are dump AF. I thought we were miseducated, but they are badly off. They doing bad bruh.

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04/02/2023

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Has anyone dealt with a mentally/emotionally abusive mother
A big yes ,cut them off ASAP
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Long post alert!!( events in no particular order because I'm very emotionalas I type this)

I'm the 4th born(F 30)in a family of 5(2 girls,3 boys) kids raised by a single mother who tried her best to provide for all of us. We got food,shelter and personally she educated me to form 3.
My mom got some money and opted to " buy" our 1st born another job despite him goofing on the other one he'd been bought instead of her paying my school fees to finish high school. She thought he'd pay my fees but he refused. He later lost that job. I never held that against my mom .

I later did odd jobs to finish high school and even got a university degree thanks to my husband.

All through my life I always felt like I had to fight for my mother's love. She always made fun of my appearance,saying I was too dark...saying "suche omwonore "(Luo not sure of the spelling). She would mock how I smiled,how big my eyes were and generally how ugly I was.

I grew up with very low self esteem and it took a long time to find abit of confidence. I have severe social anxiety to this day because of her insults. No matter what I did it was never enough and this resulted in a "people pleasing" personality that I have to daily work on.

I've always worked since I was 16 to provide for my mother and my Siblings both older and younger.

I bought land and built my mother a house in 2019,bought her a car in january 2020. I put her on a 15,000 shs monthly food allowance( her and 2 grandkids)
However it seems that there's nothing I do that will be enough.
My mother is only kind to me when she is asking for money and when I don't have,she's very hostile.

One day I didn't have money to send and she texted my husband who was then my boyfriend saying he's the reason I'm not " feeding her" despite her knowing that at that time my husband was the one taking care of me. I got upset and texted her