30/12/2024
Reminder
14-17 Years Old Girl is not too young to get married. BISMILLAHIRRAHMANIRRAHIM
Apology as my reminder today is a bit long. Marry out your daughters before she either bring shame to your house or she cause Allah wrath on you, girls are being matured from the day they all realizes that their friends have boy friends, we all forget the serious warning given by Allah in respect of boy/girl friend relation where Allah says Wed them with the permission of their own folk and give them their mahr (dowry) according to what is reasonable; they should be chaste, not adulterous, nor taking boyfriends…” [ 4:25]
Ibn Katheer comment concerning the above verse; Muhsanaat [translated as “chaste”] means that they should be pure, not indulging in zinaa (unlawful sexual conduct), hence they are described as not being musaafihaat, which means promiscuous women who do not refuse anyone who wants to commit immoral acts with them. Regarding the phrase wa laa muttakhidhaati akhdaan ‘nor taking boyfriends'
Ibn ‘Abbaas said: ‘al-musaafihaat means those who are known to commit zinaa, meaning those who will not refuse anyone who wants to commit immoral acts with them.’
Ibn ‘Abbaas also said: ‘muttakhidhaati akhdaan means lovers.’ A similar interpretation was narrated from Abu Hurayrah, Al-Hasan al-Basri said: ‘It means a (male) friend.’ Al-Dahhaak also said: ‘wa laa muttakhidhaati akhdaan also means a woman who has just one boyfriend or lover with whom she is happy.
Allaah has also forbidden this, meaning marrying her so long as she is in that situation, Allah further says ;Let no man guilty of fornication or adultery marry any but a woman similarly guilty, or an unbeliever: nor let any but such a man or an unbeliever marry such a woman: to the Believers such a thing is forbidden.” [al-Noor 24:3]
When a girl of 17 is given to marriage in our present society, you would hear a lot of people lamenting, especially the human right; Oh she's too young for marriage.Oh she doesn't