Stand tall and Think big.

This is for you who made the decision to choose your happiness over someone else. Allow me to congratulate you for having a brave heart, for leaving a place where you were not ready to leave, the heart wanted to stay there but the mind was tired of thinking about how you can face the pain and tears that the person you love have been causing you from time to time.
You have tried every way possible to show love but the contempt has been more than getting the little return of love that you have been showing him or her. Congratulations... now you deserve more peace and be happy 😊 Please don't regret opting out.👏👏👏

You can feed a man for twelve years and he forgets you in three days, but you can feed a dog in three days and he remembers you in twelve years. The people you serve, all the people you help, one day they will ask you if they asked you to help them. All the people you consider important in your life are the people who will reject you one day. So be careful with your close people for whom you sacrifice yourself. Those are the people who will rejoice to witness your downfall.©️

A riot act⚠️
When you remove someone from your life, don't worry about what they are going to say about you. Because in any way he or she will try to say things that will make him or her appear to be an angel and you the devil. So don't worry if anyone you get rid of or leave your life talks bad about you. It's normal, they can't speak good of you and yet they have left your life.They are no longer in your life.Consider that.©️

Before this year ends, I would like to give you three important lessons.
✔️First, don't trust anyone, even if they are your blood relatives. Because everything they say and do is not at all what they mean.
✔️The second is that solitude and separation from people is the only and safe way to protect your happiness.
✔️Third and last, love yourself more because those you respect and love will only end up hurting you. 🙏

An old man was sitting on a bench when a young man approached and asked:
— Do you remember me, professor?

The old man has replied :
- No I don't remember.

So the young man said :
— I was your student.

Curious, the former professor asked:
- oh and what have you become? Whatcha doin right now

The young man smiled and replied :
— Well, I also became a teacher.

Surprise, the old man said :
— What a marvel! Just like me ?

— yes, just like you. Actually, I became a teacher because of you. You inspired me

The puzzled old man asked:
— And when did you decide to be a teacher?

The youngster started counting:
— One day, still at school, one of my classmates came to class with a beautiful, brand new watch. I wanted this watch so bad I decided to steal it. Shortly after, my colleague noticed the disappearance and complained to you.

you then tell us :
— A watch was stolen during class. Who took it please return it

I didn't return it because I really wanted that watch. So you closed the door and asked us all to rise so you could search our pockets. But he did something special: he asked us to sleep.

When it was my turn, you found the watch in my pocket and took it away. He then kept scrolling others without saying a word. In the end you said :
— You can open your eyes. The watch has been found.

You never mentioned who took the watch. She never reprimanded me publicly or made any comment about it. That day was the most embarrassing, but also the most important day of my life.

With your silence, you saved my dignity. It was at that moment that I understood what it means to be a true educator and the value of a teacher.

The young man then asked :
— Do you remember that episode, Professor?

The old man replied, with a serene smile:
- I remember the stolen watch, I remember looking in everyone's pockets... But i dont remember you Look closely, I also closed my eyes while searching.

And it is complete :
— If, in order to correct, you must humiliate, then you can't teach.

THE MANNER OF TIME
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Majority of us don't know the actual meaning of time.... but for me time is having target in all the momentary events. Therefore we need to understand the situation rather than claiming that time has changed. We all need to learn this.....
*Time is endless when you are in pain.😧
*Time is short when you are happy.😃
*Time is slow when you wait.💭
*Time is fast when you are late🤔

Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others, including Love. One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all constructed boats and left. Except for Love.

Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment. When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help.

Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said, “Richness, can you take me with you?” Richness answered, “No, I can’t. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you.”

Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel. “Vanity, please help me!” “I can’t help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat,” Vanity answered.

Sadness was close by so Love asked, “Sadness, let me go with you.” “Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!” Happiness passed by Love, too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her.

Suddenly, there was a voice, “Come, Love, I will take you.” It was an elder. So blessed and overjoyed, Love even forgot to ask the elder where they were going. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went his own way. Realizing how much was owed the elder, Love asked Knowledge, another elder, “Who Helped me?”

“It was Time,” Knowledge answered.

“Time?” asked Love. “But why did Time help me?” Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered, “Because only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love is.”

A MUST READ
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There is a different between:
I like you &
I love you.
But so many fail to understand that. This brief explanation will help you.

When you like a flower, you just pluck it.
But when you love a flower you will protect it and water it daily.

One who understands this understands life.

YOU ARE UNIQUE BEING
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If you did not exist, there would be a hole in creation, a gap in history, something missing from the plan for humankind.

Treasure your uniqueness. It is a gift given only to you. Enjoy it and share it!

No one can reach out to others in the same way that you can. No one can speak your words. No one can convey your meanings. No one can comfort with your kind of comfort. No one can bring your kind of understanding to another person.

No one can be cheerful and lighthearted and joyous in your way. No one can smile your smile. No one else can bring the whole unique impact of you to another human being.

Share your uniqueness. Let it be free to flow out among your family and friends and people you meet in the rush and clutter of living wherever you are. That gift of yourself was given you to enjoy and share. Give yourself away!

See it! Receive it! Let it tickle you! Let it inform you and nudge you and inspire you! YOU ARE UNIQUE! NEVER DESPISE YOURSELF.

THE KEY TO SUCCESS
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A young man asked Socrates the secret to success. Socrates told the young man to meet him near the river the next morning. They met. Socrates asked the young man to walk with him towards the river. When the water got up to their neck, Socrates took the young man by surprise and ducked him into the water. The boy struggled to get out but Socrates was strong and kept him there until the boy started turning blue. Socrates pulled his head out of the water and the first thing the young man did was to gasp and take a deep breath of air. Socrates asked, ‘What did you want the most when you were there?” The boy replied, “Air.” Socrates said, “That is the secret to success. When you want success as badly as you wanted the air, then you will get it.” There is no other secret.
Just the zeal to get what you need.

LOVE, WEALTH AND SUCCESS
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A woman came out of her house and saw 3 old men with long white beards sitting in her front yard. She did not recognize them. She said “I don’t think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat.”

“Is the man of the house home?”, they asked.

“No,” she replied. “He’s out.”

“Then we cannot come in,” they replied.

In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had happened.

“Go tell them I am home and invite them in!”

The woman went out and invited the men in.

“We do not go into a House together,” they replied.

“Why is that?” she asked.

One of the old men explained: “His name is Wealth,” he said pointing to one of his friends, and said pointing to another one, “He is Success, and I am Love.” Then he added, “Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home.”

The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was overjoyed. “How nice!,” he said. “Since that is the case, let us invite Wealth. Let him come and fill our home with wealth!”

His wife disagreed. “My dear, why don’t we invite Success?”

Their daughter-in-law was listening from the other corner of the house. She jumped in with her own suggestion: “Would it not be better to invite Love? Our home will then be filled with love!”

“Let us heed our daughter-in-law’s advice,” said the husband to his wife.

“Go out and invite Love to be our guest.”

The woman went out and asked the 3 old men,

“Which one of you is Love? Please come in and be our guest.”

Love got up and started walking toward the house. The other 2 also got up and followed him. Surprised, the lady asked Wealth and Success: “I only invited Love, Why are you coming in?”

The old men replied together: “If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would’ve stayed out, but since you invited Love, wherever He goes, we go with him. Wherever there is Love, there is also Wealth and Success!!!”